ADVICE

well, i need some, anyway.

mmm. i have recently quit a band. for more reasons than one, but mostly because they made us sound like something we totally aren't. (and i've known these kids for ever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever and ever amen.) so, anyway, they're my best friends and all, but like now it's weird when i hang out with them. like i try to give them pointers on stuff and they're like "so, are you basck in the band or something. or are you just butting in?"

what do i do?

sooo what are you actually asking for here? urks...i don't know..maybe you should just not give them advice...lols apparently they don't want it..so if they sound like poo then let them sound like poo....

Um...tell them you just want to hang out?

tell them you're just helping them.

if you're saying that you want the awkwardness to go away, it'll definately be hard. try talking to them about why you quit. but these things ultimately need time.

just tell them you just want to be a good friend and give some suggestions and advice. just talk to them about your feelings and how you just want to hang out. if it doesn't work, try not giving them advice anymore because it seems to them you're butting in and it might create more drama and problems.

good luck :]

Tell them that you're just trying to help, that's all. No reason to make a big deal about it.

Keep it shut. Dont comment dont say ANYTHING unless your opinion is asked for why? because if you do "butt" in your just giving them a chance to be rude or nasty.