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blurrr
So the guy I like...i ended up making out with him and he was rly nice to me that night and he was all cuddly with me but then the next day he was such a bitch to me....hes always this childish annoying kinda way towards me but like he'll usually stop after a while...but the day after we hooked up he wouldnt stop being really really annoying to me...n i dont know whyy!!! my friend pointed out that hes usually bitchy in front of other ppl bczu the second we go away from other ppl hes nice!....so i figured maybe he doesnt want ppl to know he likes me...but then a lil while later he told ppl!! do u think he doesnt want other ppl to know? if so y would he tell them? do u think maybe he wont be annoiyng now? lol
pshaa.shauna
How exactly is he being annoying?

And is this the same guy from all of your other topics, or a different guy?
bad_girl
^^ Ditto. 2 different guys or what? At the same time!?
blurrr
same guy...so i was excited when all this happened...but now...i dunnoo...i spoke to s1 who he told n she said he thinks its fun to tease me but he doesnt know theres a point when he hasta stop n i shud just tell him...
pshaa.shauna
Well, if he's doing it to tease you then confront him...
Hiphop d[-_-]b
He was probably feeling awkward and uncomfortable and restorted to his usual teasing to ease the tension he was feeling from the previous night.

If its bothers you a lot, just tell him to stop.
eternalyfe

Well, there's usually two reasons that guys are "playfully" annoying to girls. The first is that it's just his way of flirting, his way of letting you know that he likes you a lot. The second is that he doesn't know how to act around you anymore. It may be new to him, and he's only doing what feels right. Of course, it probably isn't right, but give him time, or even try to help him. He doesn't know how to handle being with you yet.
love-issosweet
i guess maybe he's trying to get some alone time with you? or he doesn't want people to know the real him..like he wants to keep his reputation of being an annoying prick. well just talk to him about his behavior if it's bothering you so much. if he doesn't listen and respond, he isn't worth your time
iNyCxShoRT
I agree with Bittersweetness; maybe he just wants to keep his rep. in front of people and still be known as the guy who likes annoying girls. huh.gif
mipadi
Maybe he's not good at expressing his feelings. Younger guys often have that problem. Guys just aren't good at expressing themselves as girls, and sometimes do so in odd ways.
blurrr
hes older...4 years older than me. he acts very childish at times though.
`Kiwi
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I think, if you really like him and you think he does too, you
should talk to him and just tell him how you feel. Maybe he'll realize that you're
misunderstanding him or something if he's not doing it on purpose and he'll explain.

Otherwise, if he keeps doing it after you talk to him, I'd just warn him that you're
going to like break up with him or something if he doesn't stop. That's the best
advice I can give. Sorry. x.x
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Shahin
QUOTE(blurrr @ Feb 13 2006, 11:59 AM)
hes older...4 years older than me.  he acts very childish at times though.
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How old are you?
Blow_Don't_SUCK
^yeah same question.

Just confront him if you're uncomfortable with his immaturity.
blurrr
17
FoxBandCutie08
Maybe he's trying to be funny, or keep your attention, or maybe he thinks you like it. I don't know. Try talking to him about it and see what the deal is, ask him why he's behaving like that.
o0olaalaa
you need to talk to him about this. and be like why are you so annoyng to be wen we're around frinds and nice to me when we're alone. hes 17 and he should be mature.
blurrr
im 17 hes 21 lol
swtcherriipie
yummy.
crazeegirl411
I'm sorry but if he's 21 and he still acts like that, he needs to mature O_o.

Guys like that aren't worth it to like, and I've had that experience. If they don't take you seriously (treat you right anytime, anywhere) then don't start with him or you'll end up falling for him. He's not the right guy for you.
synthase
hes too shy to show his expression to you??
i hope this helps.. _smile.gif
swtcherriipie
You know guys seem to do that alot now a days.. Like befor i hooked up with my b.f my sister was dating this venezuelan dude and he was so nice to her... for like 1 week then he just stasrted being a real class act. wacko.gif
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