QUOTE(Just_Dream @ Feb 11 2006, 1:31 AM)

Yea, I'm really paranoid when it comes to anything that's near my neck..

SAME HERE. it makes me cringe.
But I really love massages. I love a man who can give me a real spine-melter of a massage... mmm. Usually it ends up being me giving out all the good massages, which I don't mind too much; I like feeling apprecitated.
but still....I had this one boyfriend...*starts to get a bit bitter...* I'd give him massages all the time, and he wouldn't reciprocate. If someone gives you a half an hour massage, all the way down your back, up in your neck, your arms, shoulders, scalp, the whole 9 yards, you HAVE to give them the same treatment. Just give someone the massage that you'd like to have. Do what you think would feel nice if someone did it to you.