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sadolakced acid
right...

so, all pregnant women should be arrested for holding someone against thier will?

pregnant women should have to buy two tickets to everything?
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(Endless_Symphony @ Sep 10 2005, 3:31 PM)
i agree that if a woman has numerous abortions, she really needs to find another method of birth control
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Um... a woman can't have numerous abortions.

Myth: Abortion bans won’t harm women’s health.

Fact: Abortion bans gravely endanger women’s health.

It's not something you want to do. And it's costly as well. It's not like, "Oh I had sex and now I'm pregnant. Let's get an abortion!"
Spirited Away
there are women who choose to do stupid things during pregnancy and do not have miscarriages. for example, there are smokers and alcoholics who successfully deliver their babies. while the health of these babies are in question, the mothers do not suffer miscarriage. anyway, if smokers and alcoholics who have miscarriges are the types of neglect you're comparing abortion to, i have this to say.

yes, those kinds of miscarriages are results of neglect because, obviously, these mothers do not care for their fetus. so these kinds of mothers ARE the same as those who have multiple abortions because they do not care to have a child.

this makes your original point moot, in my humble opinion.

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for a grown person, family members can seek justice for them after their deaths. we thought if banning adoption acknowledged that the fetus was a being with rights, then after that, family members could seek justice for the lost fetus.

i would not agree to such a law, however, if that is the case, are you saying that you'd condone women who have multiple abortions because they're sex addicts? in other words, morally, would you consider it not a bad thing that a woman is given the freedom to abort babies, and abuse that freedom?

though i lean towards pro-choice and can understand where you're coming from, not putting some kind of limit to abortions would mean we condone a culture of irresponsibility.

QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Sep 10 2005, 6:41 PM)
right...
so, all pregnant women should be arrested for holding someone against thier will?
pregnant women should have to buy two tickets to everything?
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if a pregnant woman is murdered, it's possible to charge a killer with double homicide and win.
sadolakced acid
^

which is bunk in my opinion.

at most, manslaughter on the feotus. because, what if you just thought the woman was fat?

the rights of a feotus should not be equal to the rights of a full human being, because it is not a full human being.
Spirited Away
yea.. that i can agree to. but there was a case where a pregnant woman was raped and shot mulitiple times her own home and died... for me, double homicide sounds right.

well, fetal homicide laws sound right to me, too.
Comptine
QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 10 2005, 7:54 PM)
Um... a woman can't have numerous abortions.
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during an abortion debate, a classmate revealed that her mother had eight abortions before she finally decided to have children. eight is actually a pretty big number.
ComradeRed
I'm pro-choice, but I do support fetal manslaughter (unless it was intentional to kill the fetus, then homicide) laws.

I'm pro-choice because the fetus doesn't have an innate right to it's mother's body space--the mother is the only person that should have the right to remove the fetus.
kryogenix
QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 10 2005, 11:19 AM)
Are there statistics to show that rates of sexual intercourse have increased directly as a cause of the legalization of abortion?
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    * 25.5% – Want to postpone childbearing
    * 21.3% – Cannot afford a baby
    * 14.1% – Has relationship problem or partner does not want pregnancy
    * 12.2% – Too young; parent(s) or other(s) object to pregnancy
    * 10.8% – Having a child will disrupt education or job
    *  7.9% – Want no (more) children
    *  3.3% – Risk to fetal health
    *  2.8% – Risk to maternal health
    *  2.1% – Rape, incest, other


If abortion was made illegal except for the last three, I don't think it would be unreasonable to think people would have less sex in order to get the outcome they want.

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Again (for probably the 10th time), I will state that people make mistakes and accidents happen. I'm not going to say it again. Read the examples I've given in my previous posts.


Again, I will state that these mistakes and accidents are inexcusable. If you get drunk and get pregnant, you made a bad decision. Either that, or you got raped, Honk Honk!(Just wanted to inject a little humor) If you make a mistake, why should the baby pay for it with its life?

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And no, I've never heard of a 'partial birth abortion'.


Oh. It's pretty barbaric. Before the baby is delivered, they cut its head open, and suck the brains out with a vacuum. Since it's still in the womb, by your logic, the mother should be able to perform a partial birth abortion.

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Then you might as well make alcohol illegal and might as well make having sex illegal if you want to be so absolutely safe. I'm sure you would enjoy having America represent freedom in such a great way wink.gif.


Either that, or we could trust the people and hope that they make the right choice and not have sex when they can't handle the responsibility. Abortions give them an easy way out of that responsibility, at the expense of the baby.

I'm reading what you're saying (hence me quoting what you say), it's just maybe I'm not articulating my answers perfectly.
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(kryogenix @ Sep 11 2005, 4:27 PM)
Again, I will state that these mistakes and accidents are inexcusable. If you get drunk and get pregnant, you made a bad decision.


Humans aren't all responsible creatures. Forgive them for not being perfect. They don't want to get an abortion; they just find it necessary. It puts their lives in grave danger, so why would they do it? It's not an easy choice to make. To have a live baby and let it suffer or a dead baby without pain or love. I personally would rather be dead than to live with a mother that couldn't take care of me.

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Either that, or you got raped, Honk Honk!(Just wanted to inject a little humor) If you make a mistake, why should the baby pay for it with its life?


That Doug thing was really random. Anyway, the baby can't FEEL yet. It's not actually losing anything or gaining everything. If anything, the mother has to suffer with the burden of having to abort their child. Isn't that enough of a punishment? They're terminating a life for the good of themselves and the child. Is that so absolutely immoral?

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Oh. It's pretty barbaric. Before the baby is delivered, they cut its head open, and suck the brains out with a vacuum. Since it's still in the womb, by your logic, the mother should be able to perform a partial birth abortion.


Ouch. I think maybe they should use a method a bit more .. humane. I would not like to see the brains being sucked out of my baby.

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Either that, or we could trust the people and hope that they make the right choice and not have sex when they can't handle the responsibility. Abortions give them an easy way out of that responsibility, at the expense of the baby.


It's not an easy way. Your body is thrown extremely off balance by removing something a great fraction of your nutrients is going to. It puts you in risk of disease, malnutrition and death. It's not something you want to do and shouldn't be something that's easily considered. Abortion should be legal, safe and rare.

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I'm reading what you're saying (hence me quoting what you say), it's just maybe I'm not articulating my answers perfectly.


Same here, sorry. I tend to be a bit narrow-minded in debate.
Spirited Away
QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 11 2005, 8:27 PM)
Humans aren't all responsible creatures. Forgive them for not being perfect. They don't want to get an abortion; they just find it necessary. It puts their lives in grave danger, so why would they do it? It's not an easy choice to make. To have a live baby and let it suffer or a dead baby without pain or love. I personally would rather be dead than to live with a mother that couldn't take care of me.
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not all find it a necessity. more find it a convenience more than those who needs it. those who are irresponsible enough to find it a convenience put a bad light on all who needs it. again, if we condone abortion because it's a convenience, we condone irresponsibility, one of the worse kinds, in my opinion.
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Sep 12 2005, 3:54 AM)
not all find it a necessity. more find it a convenience more than those who needs it. those who are irresponsible enough to find it a convenience put a bad light on all who needs it. again, if we condone abortion because it's a convenience, we condone irresponsibility, one of the worse kinds, in my opinion.
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Again, how is it a convienence if it puts your life in danger? People aren't going to just lightly make that choice. Not only does it physically put your life in danger, but it leaves terrible memories of having your own child killed. You don't want to live with that burden on your shoulders. It is a necessity if you choose to get an abortion. If it isn't a necessity, I'm sure you'd choose to keep it alive and do your best in nurturing it.
disco infiltrator

QUOTE(kryo)
  * 25.5% – Want to postpone childbearing
    * 21.3% – Cannot afford a baby
    * 14.1% – Has relationship problem or partner does not want pregnancy
    * 12.2% – Too young; parent(s) or other(s) object to pregnancy
    * 10.8% – Having a child will disrupt education or job
    *  7.9% – Want no (more) children
    *  3.3% – Risk to fetal health
    *  2.8% – Risk to maternal health
    *  2.1% – Rape, incest, other


The only one I can see as a "convenience" is "Having a child will disrupt education or job" which isn't so much convenience as it changes the path of their life. (They would have to quit their job or schooling, in turn, disrupting the baby's well-being as well.)
mipadi
QUOTE(kryogenix @ Sep 11 2005, 6:27 PM)
If abortion was made illegal except for the last three, I don't think it would be unreasonable to think people would have less sex in order to get the outcome they want.
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Not necessarily less sex--they could still use birth control. I think that very few people use abortion as birth control, in that they think, "I'll have sex now, because if I get pregnant, it's okay--I can just have an abortion." That's why I argue that the legalization of abortion has not made rates of sexual intercourse go up significantly, nor would prohibiting it make the rates go down significantly.
sadolakced acid
^ why not just tax abortions to death then?

5000 bucks per abortion, i trust no one's going to want to have one every year.

have insurance only cover cases of rape or health of mother/feotus.

would generate a nice bit of revenue to actually teach kids what condoms are in sex ed.

because of the bush administration's policies, a generation of kids are growing up with a hazy idea of what a contraceptive is.

this propoganda- which i recieved- mentions contraceptives only to debunk them. it states that condoms are useless against STDs like AIDs, where experience has proven that condoms are responsible for the slow of spread of AIDs and other STDs.

if you're going to make abortions inaccesible, you have to make contraceptives accecable.
ComradeRed
Taxing abortions actually isn't a bad idea. Mississippi actually does it.

The only problem is, then people move to other states to get the abortions, weakening your state's healthcare system.
sadolakced acid
ahh.

and if it's nationwide, then people would just go out of country.

but then the responsibility is off of the american government and people's conciousness.
ComradeRed
Well, if it's nationwide, it's often cheaper to pay the tax than go out of the country. If it's illegal, the wealthy will go out of the country--and the poor will get backroom abortions.

It's much easier and much, much cheaper to hop in your car and drive from Mississippi to Tennessee than buy a plane ticket, file immigration and customs papers, get your visas, wait three weeks, and then fly to Japan.
Spirited Away
QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 12 2005, 4:42 PM)
Again, how is it a convienence if it puts your life in danger? People aren't going to just lightly make that choice. Not only does it physically put your life in danger, but it leaves terrible memories of having your own child killed. You don't want to live with that burden on your shoulders. It is a necessity if you choose to get an abortion. If it isn't a necessity, I'm sure you'd choose to keep it alive and do your best in nurturing it.
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... am i talking about life and death situations? no. i've been saying the same thing for the last twenty or something pages of this debate. if anyone cares to hear my case, i've said all that i can say about abortion just a few pages back. convenience refers to those who choose multiple abortions as conveniences. tell me you don't think that a woman having an abortion for the 3rd time because she likes f**king around is not having it because of convenience. please excuse the language but i think the word applies quite well to what i'm conveying.
Paradox of Life
QUOTE(uninspiredfae @ Sep 13 2005, 1:07 PM)
... am i talking about life and death situations? no. i've been saying the same thing for the last twenty or something pages of this debate. if anyone cares to hear my case, i've said all that i can say about abortion just a few pages back. convenience refers to those who choose multiple abortions as conveniences. tell me you don't think that a woman having an abortion for the 3rd time because she likes f**king around is not having it because of convenience. please excuse the language but i think the word applies quite well to what i'm conveying.
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Okay, I don't exactly know what you mean and I'm afraid I'm misinterpreting what you're saying, but firstly, a woman can't have 3 abortions and very few if any already have. It is way too costly and dangerous and I don't personally think that's a convenience. Secondly, abortions never were a convenience nor will they ever be. If anything, they are an inconvenience because of the reasons I've stated before. What exactly are you trying to convey? Because it seems I'm just repeating myself. Sorry.
Spirited Away
QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 14 2005, 3:37 PM)
Okay, I don't exactly know what you mean and I'm afraid I'm misinterpreting what you're saying, but firstly, a woman can't have 3 abortions and very few if any already have. It is way too costly and dangerous and I don't personally think that's a convenience. Secondly, abortions never were a convenience nor will they ever be. If anything, they are an inconvenience because of the reasons I've stated before. What exactly are you trying to convey? Because it seems I'm just repeating myself. Sorry.
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are you serious? i personally talked to and know through friends a handful of women who have had more than 2 abortions either because they don't like to use condoms or too stupid to use any other form of contraceptive. whether or not the the method of abortion is legal, i do not know or care to know. mellow.gif that's just me alone.

as for what i'm trying say... i've been saying it since page 2 of this thread.
disco infiltrator
Hum, I'm gonna make a reference back to that post I made about how the law can't be case sensitive....Y'all should go back and read that.

And more than 2 abortions should be outlawed..I think everyone can agree with that. Why would anyone want any more than that other than the fact that they're just too stupid to stop getting pregnant, accidentally or not?
sadolakced acid
george bush wants more babies.

his administration has made federal science committies say abortions cause breast cancer, which they don't

AND

his administration forced the CDC to remove all infomation about condoms from thier web site.

source:time magazine

whichleads me to believe that bush wants more babies.
disco infiltrator
So he can kill them with the death penalty!

It's a cycle.
Paradox of Life
Abortions cause breat cancer! No wonder George W. Bush doesn't want to have an abortion! [/sarcasm]

Anyway, I still stand at abortion being legal, safe and RARE
gotblog4me?
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Sep 16 2005, 11:54 PM)
george bush wants more babies.

his administration has made federal science committies say abortions cause breast cancer, which they don't

AND

his administration forced the CDC to remove all infomation about condoms from thier web site.

source:time magazine

whichleads me to believe that bush wants more babies.
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Um, first of all what's wrong with more babies? you act like it's a bad thing... second of all, I'm totally against all kinds of contraceptives.... don't get me started on that issue because I don't know to much abut it, but I am against it (even condoms).

Finally, I think that that post ^^^ was totally off topic (sadolakced) b/c we aren't debating whther or not Bush wants more babies, we're debating over whether abortion is good or bad. and what it comes down to is that you're killing a human being. THat's bad.
Comptine
sadolakced acid is not being (too) off topic. president bush is a strong supporter of pro-life and is actually taking steps into banning abortion.

what's wrong with more babies?

- our world is already over populated. there has to be some sort of control.
- some people are horrible parents. it's just logical that with more babies, there will be more people suffering abuse.

and that's the debate. whether or not abortion is murder. whether or not the fetus is a human being.
sadolakced acid
QUOTE(gotblog4me? @ Sep 18 2005, 4:44 PM)
Um, first of all what's wrong with more babies? you act like it's a bad thing... second of all, I'm totally against all kinds of contraceptives.... don't get me started on that issue because I don't know to much abut it, but I am against it (even condoms).

Finally, I think that that post ^^^ was totally off topic (sadolakced) b/c we aren't debating whther or not Bush wants more babies, we're debating over whether abortion is good or bad. and what it comes down to is that you're killing a human being. THat's bad.
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more babies are fine if bush wants to raise them himself, and have them himself.

he's forcing other people to have more babies.

and that post was to illustrate how the arguement of "if you can't use a condom you should have to have the baby" is moot, as bush is leaning towards banning contraceptives as well as abortion.

and what's wrong with contraceptives? it's not destorying life. sure, it's destorying the potential for life, but two people not having sex is doing that too.

so what you're saying is it's wrong if someone who's hit puberty isn't having sex?

right? cus that's what god wants, lots of babies. so no abortions, no contraceptives, and forced sex.

and as far as abortions being the killing of a human being, that's been brought up, and generally agreed that although a feotus is alive, it is less than human.
HiddenSmile
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Sep 18 2005, 9:00 PM)
more babies are fine if bush wants to raise them himself, and have them himself.

he's forcing other people to have more babies.

and that post was to illustrate how the arguement of "if you can't use a condom you should have to have the baby" is moot, as bush is leaning towards banning contraceptives as well as abortion.

and what's wrong with contraceptives?  it's not destorying life.  sure, it's destorying the potential for life, but two people not having sex is doing that too. 

so what you're saying is it's wrong if someone who's hit puberty isn't having sex?

right?  cus that's what god wants, lots of babies.  so no abortions, no contraceptives, and forced sex.

and as far as abortions being the killing of a human being, that's been brought up, and generally agreed that although a feotus is alive, it is less than human.
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I'm speaking as gotblogforme? (we know eachother) The thing is, Bush realizes what sex is for.... its not just something to throw out and keep yourself safe by using a condom. Nor is it just to make babies. It is a portrayal of love to your spouse, the greatest portrayal of love.... why put a piece of rubber in between that? even if it does have heat-sensitive pads or w/e. And if you are married there are ways to work around having a baby, yet still have sex, without using a condom. The fact that people can't save themselves until they've found someone they really care for and waited for marriage just shows how uncivilized people can be, and the fact that some people do wait is a portrayal of how civilized we can be.

And who said anything about forced sex? If you are raped or anything, put the baby up for adoption, don't just kill it. And if people did wait we wouldn't have as much abuse, and overpopulation is arguable anyway.

Studies have proven that the earliest forms of a fetus have signs of human life: (taken from www.bfl.org)
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Five signs of life in the womb:

1. Heartbeat

Modern technology can detect a baby's heartbeat eighteen days after conception.


That is only four days after most women miss a period and begin to suspect they are pregnant.


Most abortions are not performed until the eighth week (56 days) of a pregnancy, or a little later.

2. Brain waves

Six weeks after conception signals from the fetal brain can be detected.


Dream patterns have been discovered around the eighth or ninth week.


Perhaps more advanced technology will someday show us heartbeats and brain waves at even earlier stages in the unborn child's life.
3. Independent movement

At about the sixth week, the baby in the womb can move spontaneously: Kicking, swimming, jumping and stretching.


This is long before the mother will feel any sensations of movement.
4. Senses

A baby in the womb is capable of responding to touch and sound by about the eighth or tenth week.


A child at that age will move away from painful stimuli, the most painful of which would be the abortionist's instrument.
5. Breathing

By about the fourteenth week, a baby's lungs are functioning and he or she will practice breathing.


Vocal cords are formed by the thirteenth week, and were it not for a lack of air, the baby could be heard to cry!
From the very beginning, once a human egg is fertilized by sperm, there exists a new human being. All information about the child's sex, hair color, eye color, and much more is already present from the beginning.


What does an abortion do?

Abortion ends a human life.


Seven weeks from conception, used by permission of Life Issues Institute. 
Some say that an abortion is nothing more than the "termination of a pregnancy;" that what is aborted is only a "blob of tissue" or a "mass of cells." An early abortion will produce what appears to be a "blob of tissue," but what would you expect the shredded remains of a tiny unborn baby to look like?

Most abortions are performed after the eighth week of pregnancy which is beyond the point when the child exhibits many signs of life, but before the time when cartilage has given way to real bone (by the end of the sixth month). Later abortions produce fully recognizable body parts or even whole, fully formed babies. Yet, even pills that cause very early abortions end a human life.

If you are experiencing a problem pregnancy, seek help from someone who will affirm the value of your unborn child's life.

There are alternatives to abortion.

Another article says: Once a human egg is fertilized by sperm, a new human being exists. All information concerning the child's sex, hair color, eye color, and much more is already present from the beginning. (DN friggin A!!!!)

and finally... contraception!!!! You say its the prevention of a pregnancy??? W.R.O.N.G.:Contraception from Rock For Life.org that site will explain it for you<<<
Spirited Away
QUOTE(HiddenSmile @ Sep 18 2005, 10:17 PM)
The fact that people can't save themselves until they've found someone they really care for and waited for marriage just shows how uncivilized people can be, and the fact that some people do wait is a portrayal of how civilized we can be.

And who said anything about forced sex? If you are raped or anything, put the baby up for adoption, don't just kill it. And if people did wait we wouldn't have as much abuse, and overpopulation is arguable anyway.
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... this has nothing to do with being civilized. the most civilized people will still give in to lust. it's a base desire that not too many people can resist. there are uncivilized people who can resist lust and there are civilized folks who will give in to it. history proves this.

"giving up" the baby sounds so easy until you're put in their shoes. seriously, try being beaten and have your body ripped open by a disgusting demon-faced pig then carrying his seed in your body. maybe you can deal with that just fine, but you know what, not every one is as strong as you. yes, it would take a LOT of strength and determination to carry a child of the one who destroyed you. a lot of women aren't strong in this and it's not their fault. being weak is a disease we all fall to some point in our lives. this happens to even the strongest. it's all about being strong enough to deal.
sadolakced acid
that may be what sex is for bush.

but why should he dictate everyone else?

america is a country built on freedom of choices. if i want to have an abortion, i should damn well be able to.

if i want to use a condom, i should damn well be able to.

if i want to have sex with a man, i should damn well be able to.

what you're advocating is the government becoming a sex police, ensuring people don't have sex untill they're married.

how would you like it if liberals advocated that all children be taken away from thier families and put in government boarding schools?

or , if like in china, you were required to only have one child, and after that you had stiff fines and in some cases forced abortions?


please leave that christian conservative propoganda away from the debate.

contraceptives like spermacides and condoms do not allow the creation of a zygote.

contraceptives like coils and day after pills do thier stuff in the first few days, which by your own information is before life.

the heartbeat is present, yes, at 18 days. however, the feotus is only a few cells thick. the "heartbeat" is really a section of vein that contracts. there isn't even a brain stem at this point.

at six weeks, a rudimentary head and limbs have developed, but the feotus is still smaller than a hand. most nerves and neurons are not mylenated, which means the neurons are not connected to anything- they can't feel. mylenation occurs in the 30th week or so.

sure, the feotus will move, but by random firings of neurons attached to muscles, not by consious thought.

and do you know how i know that's propoganda, and contains a lot of wrong facts?

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By about the fourteenth week, a baby's lungs are functioning and he or she will practice breathing.


Vocal cords are formed by the thirteenth week, and were it not for a lack of air, the baby could be heard to cry!
From the very beginning, once a human egg is fertilized by sperm, there exists a new human being. All information about the child's sex, hair color, eye color, and much more is already present from the beginning.


the lungs are not funtional untill very very late in the pregnacy. a few days before birth are when lungs become functional. which is whypremature babies are always placedin resperators.

blood does not flow to a feotus's lungs, nor does it flow to a feotus's digestive tract.

a feotus would not be able to cry, for lack of funtional lungs.



what christian conservatives are doing is putting the rights of a feotus, which cannot live without deriving nurishment from it's mother, above that of it's mother, which is supporting the feotus.

and yet again, i will bring up the teratoma argument.

if abortion is killing a human, then why isn't the removal of a teratoma, which has all the parts of a feotus?
mipadi
QUOTE(HiddenSmile @ Sep 18 2005, 11:17 PM)
And if you are married there are ways to work around having a baby, yet still have sex, without using a condom.
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Such as?
sadolakced acid
such as having sex with another man!

that's a sure way to have sex and not get pregnant.
coconutter
This is the reason bush won the election

The christians which make up most of the south: ABORTION IS MURDER AND JOHN KERRY IS GONNA KILL ALL OF OUR BABIES FOR STEM CELL RESEARCH BUT BUSH WILL SAVE THEM ALL AND MAKE IT ILLEGAL

ABORTION SHOULD BE LEGAL.

OMIGOD. This is like a matter of woman rights. Women should have the right to abort their non-born child. Especially if they're raped, they can't handle a baby, or they have risks of them or their baby dying. How would a kid feel knowing their mom didn't want them and wanted to abort them but it was illegal. It's not right.
ComradeRed
No, Bush won because of Ohio, which is not in the South.
mipadi
QUOTE(ComradeRed @ Sep 19 2005, 6:44 PM)
No, Bush won because of Ohio, which is not in the South.
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Not solely because of Ohio; you can't win an election with just one state, obviously.
sadolakced acid
but that wsa the deciding factor.

one car can't colapse a bridge, but there is that one last car that gets onto the bridge that would colapse it.

bush's voter base was the convervative christians. which meant he didn't have to campaign inmuch of the south.

however, i see a change in that, expecially in lousianna.
coconutter
Well, in all the churches here, it's VOTE FOR BUSH VOTE FOR BUSH. Their only reason, abortion and homosexuals. Bleh.
WindSorcerous
I feel that abortion is something that should not be made illegal. It's my body, and I want complete control over it. If I'm raped, I would want an abortion. No way and I going through pregnancy because of a rotten, evil human being. Especially at a young age! I would fall behind in school. Also, If there are complications and I could have trouble, I might need an abortion to survive, (or if the baby will be born with a disease that would kill it within it's first year). I wouldn't want it to suffer...that would be horrible to let it live then die slowly.

I don't believe the baby is alive during most of the months of pregnancy. Maybe the last two months...but not way in the beginning. If you think I'm wrong, you have no right to disagree because it's my body. My religious beliefs.

I do think though that using it for your only birth control is wrong because that's taking advantage. I feel that people pushing for abortion to be illegal because of their religious views are horrible people. Why? Because what gives them the right to say their religion rules out all the others? It's a horrible gesture, and a selfish one. I'm a woman, and as my rights as a woman I want control over my body, my health, and the babies health. Abortion should be between the woman, her doctor and her religious beliefs, and nobody should tell me otherwise...

Edit: No man should have ANY opinion on abortion unless it is pro choice because no man should ever say what a woman cannot do to HER body. That's just wrong. Why don't you men get raped and have a baby and now you can't go to college? See how you like your life then...I swear, you people say having an abortion is selfish, but it's the opposite. if that's the situation and you don't, you're being selfish because you ruined your life and the babies life. Besides, how will you pay for everything? Think people... My body is my own.
HiddenSmile
QUOTE(mipadi @ Sep 19 2005, 2:08 AM)
Such as?
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Sorry, I haven't been on for a while, but you can work around the woman's "schedule"
disco infiltrator
The ovulating time isn't specific. Especially those of us with irregular mensturation cycles. I have no idea if I spelled mensturation right.
mipadi
QUOTE(HiddenSmile @ Sep 21 2005, 10:59 PM)
Sorry, I haven't been on for a while, but you can work around the woman's "schedule"
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Like all methods of birth control, it's only effective if it's done correctly; however, that method is much more prone to error than something like the Pill or condoms. Besides, some Catholics consider the so-called "rhythm method" to be against their religious beliefs, too.
anniepiee
i think abortion should be legal.
we get to choose what we want to do with and for our bodies.
if abortion was illegal, i'm sure there will be plenty of girls finding other ways to get rid of the baby. options that might seriously hurt themselves.
I personally think abortion only comes in when 1) you dont have the money to support the baby 2) you're too young 3) rape.

this is to the ones that thinks even if the cause of pregnancy was rape the girl should still keep the baby. I know it's a life too. But when the man forced you into sex, they mentally and physically hurted the girl. (i'm sure everyone has heard about girls going into therapy because of rape) So Why do we have to keep the filthy thing in our bodies for 10 months and support it? In years, whenever you look at the kid you'll think of the rape. i'm sure that will drive you crazy one day.
ParanoidAndroid
You know, it's kinda pointless to keep a baby that you can't even support

There are poor children born from rape victims that regret their lives being given around the world.

Why give something life if you know it will all be in vain?

Why give something life IF maybe that child can regret its existence?

What I'm saying is abortion is a decision for women who do not want to be pregnant. Not for us to decide. Seriously, if i was impregnated with a baby i don't want, i'd get an abortion cuz if it's put in an adoption center, it will live a life knowing it was unwanted. And if I do keep it myself can i support it?

Those anti-abortion supporters

Do you want the world to overpopulate itself even more?

Even if it is killing a life, do you think that life will even care so early in its process?

Sure babies really matter when everyday humans kill animals, baby animals, and if you want to talk about humans, people everyday.

Death is something no one can escape. The person who is to give life to an unborn baby is the person's decision. Abortion is not for murdering pleasure but help for people who do not want something they might regret if they do give birth to it
mipadi
To be honest, abortion isn't something that I consider myself directly concerned with. I support it, but only because I feel a person should be free to do what she wants, as long as it does not harm the life or property of another person (and no, I don't consider aborting a fetus in the first or even second trimester "harming another person"). However, I can certainly understandy kryogenix's point that people should be a bit more careful when having sexual intercourse, rather than just assume that an abortion is an acceptable method of contraception.

However, one major concern is the attempts by the Bush administration to limit access to contraceptives and information about contraceptives, especially among students. Not only does the administration wish to limit abortions, but they wish to limit the availability, or at least knowledge of, methods of preventing pregnancy in the first place. Abstinence-only programs do not work to prevent rates of teen sex, and without a way to protect themselves, it is entirely possible that rates of teen pregnancy could rise under this system. I'd accept stronger limits on abortion if there was easier access to birth control and birth control information than there is now.
kryogenix
QUOTE(mipadi @ Oct 3 2005, 7:22 PM)
To be honest, abortion isn't something that I consider myself directly concerned with. I support it, but only because I feel a person should be free to do what she wants, as long as it does not harm the life or property of another person (and no, I don't consider aborting a fetus in the first or even second trimester "harming another person"). However, I can certainly understandy kryogenix's point that people should be a bit more careful when having sexual intercourse, rather than just assume that an abortion is an acceptable method of contraception.

However, one major concern is the attempts by the Bush administration to limit access to contraceptives and information about contraceptives, especially among students. Not only does the administration wish to limit abortions, but they wish to limit the availability, or at least knowledge of, methods of preventing pregnancy in the first place. Abstinence-only programs do not work to prevent rates of teen sex, and without a way to protect themselves, it is entirely possible that rates of teen pregnancy could rise under this system. I'd accept stronger limits on abortion if there was easier access to birth control and birth control information than there is now.
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Abstinence is a form of birth control that's available for free.
Mulder
yes, but abstinence programs arent very successful. if teens are going to have sex, shouldnt they know about how to prevent unwanted pregnancies? then they wouldnt have to resort to abortions.
mipadi
QUOTE(kryogenix @ Oct 4 2005, 3:03 PM)
Abstinence is a form of birth control that's available for free.
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Yes, but as I noted, abstinence-only programs do not work. Secondly, abstinence is, well, not that much fun.

If you wish to limit abortion, why not at least inform people of appropriate methods of contraception, and then make those contraceptives easily accessible? That, at least, would help keep rates of unwanted pregnancy in check.
sadolakced acid
QUOTE(kryogenix @ Oct 4 2005, 2:03 PM)
Abstinence is a form of birth control that's available for free.
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abstinence is not more a birth control than abortion or shooting pregnant women.
kryogenix
QUOTE(sadolakced acid @ Oct 5 2005, 7:33 PM)
abstinence is not more a birth control than abortion or shooting pregnant women.
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except abstinence doesn't harm anyone.
disco infiltrator
You can be married and still not want kids.
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