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i'm both. i'm against it because you would be killing your own baby which is a life. and im for it because like if you get raped or ur too young or something and its jus not ur fauly then have the abortion, but if ur old enough but it up for adoption or somethin
We don't care. Please read the rules of
debate. Your arguments have already been debated against. And .. you can't really be pro-choice and anti-abortion. Choose one or the other and debate on it.
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Abortion shouldn't exist because people will continue to have sex without thought of the consequesnces and then think afterwards, "Holy shit! I can't take care of this child!" If they were mature human beings, they would either keep the child and deal with the financial problems as they come or put the child up for adoption.
AHHH. WHAT HAVE I SAID OVER AND OVER AGAIN? Abstonance and protected sex is very encouraged. Having sex before marriage is even against some religions! It's not like everyone goes about having sex and getting pregnant enough for the change in population to be significant. And not all of us are mature human beings.
I know this sounds immature, but put yourself in a 21 year old mother's shoes. You were at a party with all your friends. Everyone's drinking (legally of course) and having a good time and you really can't resist, so you decide to get drunk with them. Everyone faces peer pressure. You tell yourself you're not going to have more than one small drink, but you end up getting so caught up in yourself that you don't realize how much you've taken in. The next thing you know it, you wake up in someone's bedroom and realize what you've done. And by now you're begging God to forgive you and you know what you've done was terrible, but you couldn't help it!
You go to the hospital and find out you're pregnant. You're in college and stacked up with work every minute of the day! You don't have time and money to care for another child and you know there are consequences for putting a child up for adoption. They may never be adopted. They may be adopted to wrongful parents. They may feel unhappy and unwanted for the rest of their lives. Or you could do what would be the responsible thing and save the child from the possibilities of having a bad life and/or having a good life, but sometimes it's worth the sacrifice.
Now, about these 'open adoptions'. I think they're a really good idea, but what if the parent just simply doesn't want to visit the child? Should that be forced upon the parent? I think that's unfair. A woman should be able to do what she wants with her child and no laws or government should keep her from her decisions.
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Babies younger than 24 weeks old have survived outside the mother's womb.
You know what does work? Not having sex if you don't want a baby.
A miscarriage is neither neglect or malpractice. Technically, any pregnancy that doesn't result in birth is an abortion. The thing that Pro-Lifers want to get rid of are induced abortions.
Pro-life sounds so .. "goody-goody, I'm unaware of the consequences of letting my baby live". I mean, if you were to choose between pro-choice and pro-life, it'd be like "Oh, pro-life because you want to safe someone's life. Isn't that good?" But people have lost their common sense! Life has no value if you don't enjoy it and a baby that's born and put up for adoption (or maltreated because of lack of money and time) will most likely not have a very enjoyable life or childhood to say the least.
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By this logic, partial birth abortions should be legal. And suicides too.
Yes, they should be legal. I think one should have control over what to do with their life and what is living inside them. Government should not be preventing people from committing suicide either. It's just .. absolutely unfair because you're living life with no value and really, there's no way out (IF YOU WANT TO COMMIT SUICIDE, DO IT RIGHT THE FIRST TIME, DAMMIT).
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That's ludicrous. Why should the law give you break because you made an irresponsible decision? By this logic, drunk drivers should be let off without consequence.
Drunk driving is different from having unprotected sex or being raped or having the condrom break or something of that sort. Drunk driving is CLEARLY wrong and there are several campaigns striving to convince people not to specifically DRINK AND DRIVE. It's not an irresponsible decision to be raped or have an accident happen. There are things you can do to prevent this and people are trying their hardest, but not 100% of sexually active human beings are going to have perfect success in not having an unwanted child.
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Oh really? Since the mid 1970's, there have been more than 1 million abortions per year in the United States alone. During the reign of the Khmer Rogue, less than 2 million are have estimated to have been killed in purges from 1975-1979. In the same time frame, more babies were killed as a result of abortion than the Cambodian genocide.
One million abortions. And is the world collapsing because one million babies weren't born? If this is the rate (and you think it's high already) for the next 100 years, I think we'll be fine. People are practicing safe sex a lot more though. Abortion isn't a fun thing. I'm sure people
want to have safe sex, so something so horrible won't have to be done.
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It doesn't matter what gender you are. A loss of life is a loss of life. And there are plenty of women that are Pro-life, maybe not on these boards, but they are there.
I know. I'm quite sure a majority of 'pro-lifers' are male. But yes, it doesn't matter. Opinions are opinions. A loss of life.. Lord. You make it sound so traumatic if someone gets an abortion. If only 1 million babies die in a year, what's the big deal? I know I sound insensitive, but just think about the 6 billion people walking the earth right now. And I'll even give you the benefit of the doubt and say 500,000 of the 1 million will live happy, prosperous lives. The other 500,000 would live horrible, miserable lives. Things even out. No need to go crazy about it. The earth's population won't die because a few people accidentally got pregnant.