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dukesoccer07
Why... its always "lets just be friends" crap... should I be a jackass to girls, would they like me then?!?! I just dont get it
tinababy143
no you shouldnt be a jackass to gurrlz..its different with every gurrl and every guy..just give it time..the right gurrl will come sooner or later..hopefully sooner than later _smile.gif
dukesoccer07
3 relationships... all turned to lets just be friends... and last night I was told I was to nice... its just bullcrap
InfamousOwen
Here is a pretty funny/true site :) ((Warning some foul language is used)) But it goes with what you are saying ((Which I agree with)) Nice guys
dukesoccer07
Shit, thats so true
InfamousOwen
I just reread it lol wow I didnt realize how much cursing was in it.....I just remember it to be one the funniest/truest theories I ever heard....Well if someone wants to take it down go ahead and I will work on a cleaner version... But yea its true
dukesoccer07
Its not that bad for swearing...

but yeah, thats me, people always turn to me for things... maybe I should just be glad people do that... screw trying to get in a relationship... if something comes up it comes up... other than that I wont try
tinababy143
but also the whole "lets just be friends" line..thats sometimes a gurrlz way of "easily" breaking up with someone
dukesoccer07
yeah, girls are dumb
InfamousOwen
Thats true too and actually I think its the easiest way to get out of a relationship. I have a Feeling though that Duke gets the whole "listener" treatment too. Its like from the movie a Knights Tale when the Red hair guy says to the herald

Red haired guy::I dont understand women

Herald:: Oh but they sure understand us

Yea thats how it is I think :)
dukesoccer07
I just have bad luck... hehe
tinababy143
im sorrie..i hope everything will work out soon..now i feel bad cos i was on of those "we should just be friends" gurrls ermm.gif
dukesoccer07
shame on you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
WildGriffin
yeah,girls don't know what they want. i think they just want a hot piece of ass. is that so wrong, alot of guys just want that to.


but the "lets be freinds" line is so fcking lame. it closes the whole idea of being friends and opens up a world of ackwardness. ugh.

...and it's true, girls do like "assholes". they chalk it up to someone that's "outgoing" and "fun". i hear alot of stories of these assholes making fun of their ladies when they're around their guy friends though. once an a-hole, always an a-hole.

boo.
sweetlyz
QUOTE(dukesoccer07 @ May 11 2004, 8:48 AM)
yeah, girls are dumb

hey! not all girls are dumb .. but i`m sorry one broke your heart
dukesoccer07
didnt really break my heart... just sort of stunned me
sweetlyz
well nice guys don`t always finish last .. it just seems that way for now. but as time passes and yOo least expect it, you`ll receive your much deserved "reward"
dukesoccer07
yeah, except its gonna take forever
tinababy143
how long were you guys together?? and how did she say it?? cos if you say it a certain way then it makes sense and its okay kinda..but if you're just like "um i dont want to be with you anymore we should just be friends" then that sux and that hurts
dukesoccer07
we werent together that long... i think we rushed things...
tinababy143
well then maybe it was for the better..i am sorrie tho sad.gif
dukesoccer07
I think I'm over it now... i think it would have been harder if i lost her as a friend
tinababy143
yeah thats good that you guys stayed friends..in a lot of relationships they will say they will remain friends but it never happens and theres always that awkward silence between the two
instantmusic
cruel people win in a cruel world...





...the MESSIAH IS COMMING <random laugh.gif
cleec
nice guys shouldn't finish last and i don't get why it happens. the thing with "nice" guys is that girls see them has this really good friend but they can't see you as being a boyfriend, i know doesn't make sense but thats how it is, sometimes a girl wants a challenge
dukesoccer07
so i should be a jackass?
Winter
That's the problem with us girls. We seem more attracted to guys we can't get, or guys who are really jerks.

Don't be a jackass. Eventhough girls like that kinda guys, the relationships often end after a short while. Girls tend to overlook the guys that are always there for them because their eyes are alway on someone else. But when a girl finally sees you as the good guy, someone she can trust, then you know it's gonna be great. And you're gonna feel great.

Uh I guess we use the 'lets be friends' line coz it's the easiest? And most of the time, it also means 'I don't like you anymore and I'm bored of you.' Cruel but true.
InfamousOwen
The Rose best represents women in my opinion.....so lovely and sweetest scent but OOHHH for the thorns and the pain they bring :(
eboarder2020
MAn....That theory is so true....Sheeesh...I hate being the nice guy
dukesoccer07
yeah i give up on everything, not even worth it sad.gif
wayne
i duno... why do we finish last?? i dont think i will ever find out.
nas
wtf. what constitutes as a 'nice' guy? I know a lot of nice guys... and when they say 'why do nice guys finish last' they're usually referring to another nice guy that the lady chose. I don't get it.
dukesoccer07
I am referring to people who treat women good... people who look out for them... ones that are always there for her... not those rude ass people that cheat on them... or make them feel like crap...
Mizz Cindy Tron
No just be yourself and if a gurl doesn't lyk u for who u are then forget them.There are so many other gurls out there who are right for u and respect u for who u are.You dont have ta change yourself cuz of that.
mglbaby
QUOTE(cleec @ May 11 2004, 6:30 PM)
nice guys shouldn't finish last and i don't get why it happens. the thing with "nice" guys is that girls see them has this really good friend but they can't see you as being a boyfriend, i know doesn't make sense but thats how it is, sometimes a girl wants a challenge

rolleyes.gif yup wut she said
islandkiss
ahah. the way I see it, the nice GIRL always ends up finishing last. stubborn.gif
someflipguy
I am glad that I am not the only "nice guy" in the world that finishes last...sure sure I had my share of girls..but they always turn into just friends after we had our fling..maybe thats my fault that I am doing that but, I cant seem to win either way...being a hoe..or being a quote "NICE GUY" cry.gif
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