Theres this guy i like whos 21 n im 17. He's flirty with me and really nice to me; but then again hes REALLY nice to everyone.
He told me his password to check something online for him and he also mentioned that it's his password for everything...so normally i wouldn't do this but i checked his email...BIG MISTAKE....i found out he meets random ppl from the internet for sex. It's made my attitude toward him SOOO DIFF. I don't hate him because I know this doesn't affect me at all. He writes in all his emails that he'll meet but if coffee and a ciggarette leads to anything else - great...if not - whatever. He's not only about sex...if it leads to a friendship...thats ok too. so i know hes not only bein nice n flirty with me for sex...I still like him because...I don't know why. I don't know, please help me!!

This should go into relationships...



Want my honest opinion?
Find someone else to like. If they're all about sex it's never good.

There is so much wrong in this that I don't even know where to start.

First off - Why in the world would you check his email? How lame would you have been if his emails were pristine?

He's meeting random people on the internet for sex? Pardon me, but how rose-tinted *are* your glasses?

Just SAY NO. To anything. Hey, maybe I'm wrong. Maybe it's more than sex with you and all the others? - Plsh, I'm sure *you're* different. /sarcasm

Moved to Relationships

Uh, haha. Just be friends.

Forget him. Even if he doesn't want you for sex now, he might one day.

Ew, think of how many girls he might've slept with. & AIDS & all that.

I hope that will turn you off about him =P

find someone else. although it might be hard to move on talk to him about this. dont tell him you checked his email tho. say someone told you. [haha] then see what he says...


interaction people.

i cant tottally move on from him...me, him, my sister, and my friend are taking a road trip to florida in 3 months and were all gonna be working together...and spending TONS of time together...like every second that were not sleeping (just b/c were not rooming together

Yup, move on, girl.

maybe he just talks to those people for fun. like he's one of those people who mess around with other people online just for kicks but nothing physical. just stay friends until you find out the truth...

however if you confront him, wow will he be pissed and embarassed

dont even start to like him just cause ur illegal to him. secondly, Guys are like that...nothing u can really do

Not worth it...

NOOO WAY HUNNI!! don't even consider him, he is NOT good enough for you. To meet someone off the internet and ultimately want sex?? I'm sorry but girl you can do so much better than that!! Don't lower your standards!! A girl *always* has to have her standards..and he is way too low to meet (should be) any girls! So, you're going to Florida with him..just make up your mind before then that you are NOT looking for anything and don't want anything...21 is a little old for you anyways. (and it's illegal). Totally kick him out of your mind, look for someone a little closer to your age who will treat women with respect!! Keep your chin up girl, there's someone out there who will totally love you for who you are!! Just think how cool it'll be to meet him someday!! later girl!

Is it really that much different from meeting someone in real life to ultimately have sex with her?

I say, don't get too close. Sounds like this guys only after some bootie.

HAHA nicely said.