well i just made this account because im lonely and i need the oppinion of you all. i feel as if im alone in the world. i have noone else to turn to so here goes. i have had a major crush on this guy, lets call him... peter. well its been really cold outside and ive been wearing long pants. so anyways i havnt shaved in a month or so. and yesterday i woke up and it was sunny so i put on a skirt and i left for school. well in 3rd period i saw my crush looking at me and laughing. so i turned around and was like wats so funny? and hes like "well a couple of things" and then the teacher made us shutup. so anyways we are doing our math and peter and his friends are laughing and finally i ask again what the heck is so funny? and peters friend says well ur legs are as hairy as an apes and theres toilet paper on ur shoe. it was the most embarressing moment of my life!!!!!! i feel sooo humiliated. i knew i was forgetting something when i left the house and i just had to go in the nasty bathrooms at school! ugh! so yea today i was way too embarresed to even look at him. so what can i do to redeem myself and make him forget this ever happened?!?!

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just act as if nothing happenened, it takes awhile to forget these kind of things, but sooner or later there'll be something else to laugh about and he'll forget all about it.

Exactly. The thing about middle and high school is that something else ridiculous will happen very soon, and make him forget about your hairy legs. Besides, even though he found it funny, it doesn't mean he thinks you are a worthless human being.

thanx guys that really helps alot! i have another update on the situation. today in spanish when i was walking by he tripped me and then peter and his friend started laughing and they kinda were joking around and i was like hahahaha wat a good joke .. i didnt know if they were kidding or not i hope they were joking ! cuz i do really love peter i know he loves me . hairy legs or not! helpl please and thanx

i had a situation almost like that last year. except "peter" would stick signs on my back saying things like im a loser or a gay freak. and yea they would laugh so i would play along even though i was dying inside. heres what i did: i confronted him. i said, "theres something eating me up inside and i think i should tell you that i have a huge crush on you. it hurts my feelings when you laugh at me. so would u please knock it off?" well... lets jsut say that didnt go so well. he basically told the whole world and yea... not so good. so you my advice: shave your legs weekly at least and go to the bathroom at home. hope that helps.

Wait. How do you know he loves you?

Well from what i see he's just picking on you for the time being, so don't worry as always in high school, something more drastic or funny will come along soon enough.

In the meantime, like howyoudoin says, confront him. Tell him you don't appreciate what he's doing and if he wants to maintain the relationship (friendship?) then he's gotta stop.

if the dude trips you (I'm gonna be as honest as I want to be), then that means he has no feelings for u whatsoever but another student in his school


How would you know if he loves you too? Talk about infactuation..I mean really. He's just a crush.

and please just because you like him, doesn't mean you should let him treat you that way. You're better than that and simply confront him about how you don't appreciate what he's doing.

lols...when i read your first post i felt bad for you, and i was going to tell you to just walk it off and act like nothing happend....

but now that i've read that and you say that you're "in love" .....first of all..when you first posted you said that it was a CRUSH...how can you be in love? that's just..wack..i mean i don't say this to be mean, trust me. i just don't want you to get caught up in the idea of love at such a young age. lols...how old are you anyways? do you even know what love is? and how are you so certain he loves you? i mean come on....you guys arent exactly dating or anything right? i'm sorry if this sounds mean...i'm just giving my input hoping to help you out

im sorry but if he really "loved" you he wouldnt do those awful things

You "know" he loves you? How? By making fun of you and tripping you? That's not love.

lol same. I used to feel bad until that whole "love" thing. I mean jesus christ, desperation much. I'm sorry for being mean but that's pathetic.

even though I'm as pathetic since I'm obsessed over Robert Carmine

He sounds like a really mean person, to just be laughing at you and not helping or anything. If you still want him, then just be able to laugh at yourself too, since he obviously can.

today was another unsuccesful day. im so depressed. my self esteem was crushed. peter called me a lesbian today. have u ever heard that saying if a guy picks on you it means he likes u? well thats the case i think. you guys are only saying that he doesnt love me because ur jealous. u dont know me or him so get over yourselves. stop being overly jealous you meanies. for our wedding vows i know he will say something like, im sorry for all the times i tripped, spit, called u an idiot, or fat, or an arrogant jerk." so hear me now when i say, i came to all of you for help and you basically tore me down and mocked me. thanksfor ur support fellow bloggers. its been real.

how old are you?

Listen, we're not trying to crush your hopes and dreams and such, we're simply trying to make sure you know what you're talking about.

A guy picks on you could mean alot of things. 1-he's a jerk. 2- he wants your attention ( which means he likes you) 3- he really DOENS"T like you and is just making fun of you for the sake of it..which is sort of like #1.

Its true, we don't know you, or him. But is that our fault? are we OBLIGED to know everything about you when you've only let us know so little about you? i think not.

tell us a bit more and maybe we'd give you a better anser.

Listen, maybe what you're hearing from us isn't what you want to hear, but i can assure you that no1on createblog has any intentions whatsoever to emotionaly harm you. Better told by us that he isn't worth it than to let him tell it to your face, ok?

^ agreed.

i "liked" a guy who picked on me like peter is on you (not so negatively tho) The next yr (6th) he started to ignore me so I thought i liked him and told him in a note. You know what happend? He thought it was from my best friend and added my name to his "list of girls that like me"

I wish someone had told me how stupid I was being and what a waste of time it was back then. I think back to that year and he had bascially soured the entire year for me. Don't let peter do that. No guy will ever truly like you if you take sh*t from everyone. Slap him, tell him to shut up.

And wedding vows? You honestly so in "love" with this guy to be thinking about this? A guy that trips you and laughs and calls you a lesbian (even jokingly)?

HE IS NOT WORTH IT. If you want him to respect you, you have to respect yourself. I'm sorry if I sound harsh, but I wish someone had given me a reality check back then. Find something you like doing, live for yourself. We're not mocking you, we're just trying to make you open your eyes...your emotions are clouding your judgement right now.

okay I agree with the two other people above me. Are you so infactuated that you made up all these "wedding vows"? And the "teasing cuz I like you" thing only happens often but not all the time. And when a guy calls you lesbian, it's a big hint he's just a jerk.

And the reason why some of us are being a little harsh because it seems that if we were a little nicer, you might get it all in your head and get concieted. You can't always expect us to agree with you and comfort you to what you want. The reason for this forum is to help you think of what's best and let me tell you, that guy isn't the best.

If we really did misunderstand you, give us a little more information. Did you guys really go out or is this just a measely obsessive crush?

oh yeah, we are so jealous of you. afterall, when someone trips you and you fall on your ass, that's like the greatest sign of affection ever! plus, since we are so green with envy you probably shouldn't ask for advice anymore because our jealousy will make our replies biased.

so, kudos on snagging such a great guy and i am sooooo sorry so many of us are jealous.

rolling on the floor laughing my muther effing ash off

that would have to be, by far, the funniest thing i've heard all...day.....actually...for quite some time now...how in the WORLD are we jealous of you? okay, let me stop speaking for everyone here....how in the WORLD am I jealous of YOU....you are being absolutely ridiculous....first of all, these people are here to HELP you....and i'm only saying he doesn't love you because apparently ITS TRUE. (forgive me for being mean but YOU'VE caused me to be mean) and now, i speak very truthfully. you give me a reason why he SHOULD love you in the first place! i mean you're being really immature...saying that on "your wedding day" and all that bull shiz....R O F L ! ! ! ! how old are you?! seriously! 12?! 11?! are you KIDDING me?! ughh..whatever...i'm so tired of trying to help you anyways....thats all i was trying to do, was help you, but apparently..you're too immature to accept anyone's help.

that is all

We should have a topic where we post links of the stupidest threads ever.

Look what howyoudoin said.. Similar situations, and an unhappy ending, imo. Oh and howyoudoin -- THat is is really immature! He called you a "gay freak?!" WTH...

... You "LOVE" a guy that trips you, made fun of your hairy legs, etc. Wow and you honestly think he loves you back. Well if he's going to point out your hairy legs, I'm guessing he doesn't like people with hairy legs and will probably tease you about this for a while. Guys that I know that have teased me have not let certain things like that GO, in the past. -_-" By the way, LOVE isn't just through one person, remember that.

Wow, now wait a second. He spits on you? o__O" You know, there's DEFINITELY a limit to how badly a guy will treat you because he likes you/wants your attention, but with the way you're saying it, it definitely extends past that where he doesn't like you at all. You're saying that all these people that have commented on what you've said (and tried to help at first) are "overly jealous?!" Maybe you should look up the word "jealous" because in no way are we saying that we like this "Peter" guy or even remotely jealous of your situation. Wedding vows? Wow there.. And he calls you fat? Wow.. that really shows love...

Although however blunt this may sound, take advice from someone that's actually IN A RELATIONSHIP (3+ years and running): You should get over yourself and realize the 3 different L's: LOVE, LIKE, and LOATHE.

Oh yea, and he's not worth your time. You should just move on. If he likes you, then he'll try to pursue you. In the mean time, that doesn't seem like it's going to happen any time soon by the way you're describing the situation.

BLEH.

im guessin its time to find a new crush..

oh pahlease somebody go call the wambulance. you want a wamburger and french cries? really people its not like i hate you! i love you all !! and this guy .. DOES like me his friend came over and then said peter thinks your hawt and then walked away im not sure if they were laughing or not but you know what i dont care your right i SHOULD get over him but i dont know... b.t.w. im totally not 12 or 11 im freakin 15 and i think im being quite rational .

that would be pure awesomeness.

you sound pretty young to me. he also sounds pretty immature. why don't you try finding a guy who's actually worth your time? it'll most likely help you get over him like that.