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SHORTxSWEET
ok well this guy, yeah we flirt w. each other and crap, but yeah he asked me to get him a drink but yeah ill have to walk like forever to get it for him, w. his money, but yeah if i say no will he think i dont care about him but i just didnt want him to think he could control me you know? so yeah what should i do in those situations? huh.gif
i_liek_sushi
what drink? orange juice? laugh.gif

and yeah, he's gonna control you like a lil bitch. cuz your grammar sucks.
jEllyBeaNs
so yea, like i dont kno wut you should do, so yea! haha jk :D
steezahh
mm.. just do it this once.. but try not to always do everything.. it will make you seem like his lil bitch. but anyways.. cheyah.
jamieus
TEENAGE MUTANT NINJA TURTLES...GO RAFAEL YEAH!

I think he's either trying to get your attension or just taking advantage and using you...Go into more deals e.g. relationship details. blah
Ryan
just run away with his money
mzkandi
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angelrevelation
wait... why would you get him a drink and bring it over to him? like to his house? if it was like in a lunch line or something but.... i really think he's using you. to get a drink or like be his maid mellow.gif it doesnt really seem like he likes you ermm.gif
krnxswat
Don't.
You do it once, he'll keep on pestering you about it.
Gigi
Psht, I'd tell the ass to get it himself. I wouldn't really care if I liked him or not, I'd still tell him to do it. Not because he's a guy and he should be more gentlemany to girls, but it's his own drink and he can get it himself.

If he gets the chance to feel like you're easy to control, he'll use you. It's much better to make him respect you for having your own opinion, and not letting other people boss you around.
NgocQuyen
QUOTE(Ryan @ Jan 13 2006, 11:37 PM)
just run away with his money
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heck chea! lols.. just kidding...hehe if that was me i wouldn't do it..do i look like a maid to you? i think not...or you can get him to come with you..hahahaa iunno...i just wouldnt do it..you know...he would think he has his reins over you.... stubborn.gif
cuul_gurl
guys= bas****s
they'll go to any extent to flirt with girls, make u do everything they want u to do, be really sweet to u when they wnat their stuff done, and one fine day ditch u to settle with some other girl they call "beautiful" or "pretty"...
EXPERIENCE my dear...
KissMe2408
It's really easy. You say, "get your own drink".

You say this because:
(1) You don't want him thinking that you will do anything for him just because you have feelings for him. Trust me. Pretty soon he'll start asking you other things besides getting him a drink.
(2)You do it once, he'll keep pestering you about it. Just like seon ho said.
(3)He should be a man and get off his lazy butt and get his own drink.
You don't want to date a guy like that. Trust me.
_sarcastic_
make him get his own drink, this guy isn't even worth dating if he's like that, and if you keep helping him get a drink. he's going to think it's alright to ask you to do other things for him and will keep bothering you
Hiphop d[-_-]b
Tell him he has legs. He can walk over to get his own drink. But youd be happy to go with him (:
Levy2k6
just say.. i dont want to get up and get ur drink, do it yourself? i though u were a man huh?

and then he'll be like "lol... w/e" or unless he says something else, keep away from him.
mzbbc
hmm i would do it for him but i think that's just me. mellow.gif if you do it for him you'll seem like a such a sweet and selfless person. AND then you can make him do stuff for you after the fact. "heyyy remember when i got you that drink..." etc etc.
lit0chinagirl
well, he could be trying to get your attention in a very poor manner or he's just looking for a servant. since i'm an idiot, i'd probably get it for him. ermm.gif
seremela_culnamo
Hardly any guy has told me to stuff like these for him. When they do, I just tell them I'm too lazy or just say/do something, and they won't push it any further. Meh. Normally guys don't do that because they rather do stuff like that for me instead =P. But yea. If it's every once in awhile, it's okay. Don't let him think that he can use you though.

Just do it if you think it's right. If not, don't.
synthase
dont always do it, and if your afriad to say no just joke with him while sending the message "no" like:
Boy: Can you get me a drink?
Girl: No! Go get it your self lazy pig! *laughing*
^^ of course, dont say it in a mean way
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ok..that was lame but I couldnt think of anything else...hopes this helps you
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crazeegirl411
Hah. Put him to the test. See next time if HE would do any favor for you. After that, judge a little what kind of guy he is.
LittleLulu
don't do what he tells you to.

you be TOO nice and he'll lose interest.

men enjoy the chase.
Anime_gurl_4eva
meh. it happens. for you.. say f**k off and get urself a drink. and a Cup-a-Noodle (duunnno why they are good thumbsup.gif )
FoxBandCutie08
I think you should try the same thing back to him, and if he says no, then he's just using you, and is being very controlling.
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