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lillaydee88
To let go isn`t to forget, not think about, or ignore. It doesn't leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn`t winning, nor is it losing. It`s not about pride. It`s not obsessing about or dwelling on the past. It isn`t about loss and it`s not defeat. To let go is to cherish memories but overcome them. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up.


Letting go isn't easy.



just to let you know i wrote it and if you dont think so...i wrote it with a lil help of someone else
krnxswat
Depends on the relationship.
s_parker_luver
i agree with you. letting go isn't easy. it's really hard for me.
Gypsy Eyes
Letting go isn't easy at all.
angelrevelation
it's so extremely hard for me. i'm still trying to let go and there wasn't even a substantial thing...

but for some people it's easy. they just accept it and move on... *sigh*
NgocQuyen
this is so true...letting go is extremely difficult for me. well, sometimes it does depend on the relationship. but for me, even if the relationship was horrible, theres still those moments in the relationship that i miss and want to recapture. but i know that things happen for a reason. so, even if its not easy i still try to let go... ermm.gif
alduhkneel
i'm having that problem now. of course letting go isn't easy (unless s/he is an asswipe).
SSJ Kenshin
Oh, it's true. It's DAMN true.
lit0chinagirl
well it really depends on how well the relationship and the emotions between the two people are. letting go must be the hardest thing in the entire relationship process when your heart's in the right place.
Hiphop d[-_-]b
This is nice (: Looks like it may belong in writing though ?

And, it is very hard to let go. Sometimes, we think we have let go, when all we really did was move on. ( Big difference )
lillaydee88
QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Jan 6 2006, 7:23 PM)
This is nice (: Looks like it may belong in writing though ?


i dont understad
Hiphop d[-_-]b
I meant, it looks like a piece of writing. A poem. Hence, why i said it looks like it could belong in writing.
DaTru KataLYST
Letting go isn't easy . =[
topsyturvy
True, letting go isn't easy. I can speak from experience sad.gif
i_liek_sushi
Yeah it is...

You only let go if you want to let go; you have a reason to let go, so what's so hard about it?

There are plenty of fish in da sea. =]
_sarcastic_
that is so true. it isn't easy to let go. i'm still trying to let go of my relationship, cause it's not working out. but i can't.
silver-rain
Well, it depends on the relationship. If you both really liked each other, then letting go is extremely hard. But, if it was abusive or something, it should be easier to let go.
Chii
QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-)
b,Jan 6 2006, 10:23 PM]This is nice (: Looks like it may belong in writing though ?

And, it is very hard to let go. Sometimes, we think we have let go, when all we really did was move on. ( Big difference )
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if she actually wrote it then yeah but she most likely didn't.

to some people letting go is hard but they have to realize that there are reasons as to why you have to let go. it's not too hard for me anymore, i give my all in a relationship and if it doesn't work out than it wasn't meant to be and i walk away.

hmm, did you really write that now? stubborn.gif i'm sorry but i'm not too gullible and i hate plagiarism.
pinayprincess
letting go isnt easy; true... its hard to let go of somebody.. i moved on [in a relationship now] but sometimes i wonder what my ex is doing.. =/ not so good.
Programmer
stay busy...and keep your mind on track...times seems to fly by that way on relationships and getting over people...
sharpandcuddly
she said she wrote it, but i think it's more about a question than people commenting on her work.
no, letting go is -never- easy. even if the relationship was abusive. there has to have been something that kept you there, so getting rid of it is difficult
cuul_gurl
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To let go is to cherish memories but overcome them. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, the strength to keep moving.

Perfectly true.- i tried it and it works. I managed to let go in 3 weeks! It was a very intense feeling i had for him. I have accepted he's getting married to someone else. I'll always cherish the memories of the times i spent with him. No regrets! happy.gif
Letting go is not that hard..if u really try it with all ur inner strength!
x0xjazi
letting go isnt easy.
letting go sucks.
because you really dont want to, and its not like you have any choice.
you can be miserable forever..
or you can let go, and hopefully be happy again someday...
politicophobia77
100% accurate and well written. kudos.
bunnybabe120
For me letting go for me was more coming terms with the idea the guy i loved would never love me. It meant I had to release all dreams I had for us. It was hard and took along time but i think im over him.
iNyCxShoRT
You wrote it? I've seen that on someone's xanga before huh.gif but anyway. Yes, I agree letting go can be hard. It depends on the relationship though. If you loved that person. That's definately not gonna be easy to let go.
FoxBandCutie08
Yes, letting go can be very hard. Especially if you're faced with the past every day at school.
steezahh
sure isnt.
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