So my "father" went into my room back in November and took my wireless card away when I wasn't home. Then, the next time I went out, he took away my entire laptop. He still hasn't returned it. He has no right to take it because he didn't give it to me. Nor did my mother. And he had the nerve to ask me for the charger and other cords, because he wants to use it. Too bad I'm one of two of the only people who knows the system password.

He threw a fit today because I used the digital camera yesterday. Apparently it's exclusively his, and nobody else can use it without asking. He started asking me if I'd like it if he went into my room and took my things. Ha. Asshole's already done it with my laptop. And at least I return and admit to what I took; he didn't. He asked me if all the pictures on it were deleted. He only asks that when he's going to return shit. That's fucking annoying. This is going to be the second digital camera that he's returned within the span of two months.

This is why I can't have nice things. Fuck. This is why I tell people not to ever bother getting me anything.

i really do not love my parents .. no its not becuz of stupid reasons liek they dont let me date or i cant hang out with my friends.. its more like they wont let my sister marry who she wants even tho they know he is a sweet guy .. they have even come to the point of disowning her.. and they have.. nd my mother does not understand that all kids are not the same.. she has beatun up my brother and i just to scare us so much that we would never have the nerve to disobey them.. but they really dont know that all this anger is building up inside each one of us and one day it will blow up in their face .. we have done alot to make them understand but they simply refuse to do so.

So incredibly selfish.

my moms always nagging me
whenever I do something she tells me to do she yells at me for not doing something else
my dads alright
hes always on my brothers side even though it is his fault
and my dad spoils him (my brother OLDER)
o yea...
my grandma is annoying
shes always on my brothers side... blah blah blah...you get it right?
hmmm..o well, life is unfair

My parents think that the people I talk to online are pedophiles out to get me. Wtf. Jose and Nick are not pedophiles. Neither are Julia, Christine, Sally or any of the other people I talk to on the phone sometimes. They don't even know who they are. I know that they're looking out for me, but when I tell them the truth about who I'm talking to, they should keep their promise. I TOLD THEM THE TRUTH. AND THEY STILL TOOK MY PHONE. Asses.

they're unreasonable hypocrites that think they are always right and are extremely over-controlling. i can't wait to move out. fxck.

Jesus Christ. Grow the fuck up, already. Raise your own goddamn children instead of telling me to take care of them. You bitch at me even when I do just because you think I'm doing a crappy job. Holy Christ, they're my siblings that you two did a shitty ass job raising. I've figured out that this is the reason I'm constantly on the verge of tears. Fuck.

And really, going to San Francisco on a Sunday? Please, Sunday is the day I do homework because I have class the next day. Is it that so unbelievable that you need to yell at me to "prove" that I have homework? Jesus, how the hell am I supposed to prove it? "My teacher told me to do the problems in this chapter." Fuck off, already.

I hate this place. I can't stand it. It's unbearable.

well..let me be the first..to tell you guys...one day in the near future you will thank your parents...your young...and at this time alot of things that happen to you...feel unfair....just remember these words i speak...because you'll find yourself saying them one day...
"thank you"

my parents honestly don't think i have anything better to do than just sit at home on the weekends. but that's not true! i love going out. however, they'll keep me cooped in the house and later complain how i'm unprodcutive.

i'm on constant house arrest

...grr to you making me drive you home at 2am from your party

UGHHH. They know math is my weak area. They know this. I know this. My teachers know this. The whole world knows this. Why can't they just accept that I will not be able to get an A in that class?? My other grades are really good, but math. But they don't care about those. I really do try, but now there's NO point. It's my last semester of high school, and there's no point in working hard for grades anymore. I already sent them off. The only point in going are the tests. GR. I just want them to understand that.

to the parents;
[part one] mom--
ugh i fcuking hate you! like stay out of my life. just leave me alone. i dont really give a fcuk if feedin me everyday, getting stuff ready for me etc. just like fcuk off. and like shut up, you have such a big mouth and you cant keep anything to yourself. stay out of my room, dont touch anything of mine. I DONT CARE IF I DISRESPECT YOU. you got a piece of my mind. and now you know how i feel. if youre mad at me then just ground me! you dont have to slap me or anything....

[part two] dad--
okay i love you but maybe you should just STOP. oh sure you pay the bills and shit and fix the house when something is wrong with it. and when you do those things and we dont help you flip out and blame everything on us. you say youre gonna cut the internet. I DONT GIVE AN EFF. JUST DO IT THEN then you'll see what happens...

[part three] both of you guys--
JUST GO AWAY. -throws tomato-everything that is typed above is how i feel. one day, just one day you'll read this and find out how much you put me thru. fcuk off -pauses for a moment because my mom is calling me- ughh i'LL BE ADDING MORE LATER

my mom and dad love getting me in trouble...once more....
and......for the fittyleventh time...I DONT WANT TO BE A DOCTOR!!!

my parents are pretty cool. i like them. they sometimes piss me off though.

ONE DAY EVERYOBDY HERE WILL APPRECIATE THERE PARENTS. OR AT LEAST MOST PEOPLE WHOSE PARENTS ARENT THAT BAD. THEY LOVE YOU. DONT YOU FEEL BAD FOR WRITING THESE MEAN THINGS???!!!!??

SOME PEOPLE HAVE GOOD REASONS TO HATE THEIR PARENTS SUCH AS HIPHOP.
OTHERS ARE JUST...COMPLAINIG.

MY COMPLAINTS:
PARENTS- DONT TAKE ME SERIOUSLY AT ALL. ITS KINDA ANNOYING

BTW SORRY FOR THE CAPS...

^Um

1.) No triple posting
2.) Not everyone lives in a life of a "happy family"
3.) There's an edit button for all your thoughts to be added
4.) There's a reason why this topic is called whatever it's called. If you want, we can start a parent appreciation thread.

Flame me if you wish:

Just ask yourself this Q:

Why are you complaining?

Yes, your mum or dad may not be perfect, but why complain? By complaining, you are just saying there is a problem, but not doing anything about it. Instead of complaining, why dont you try to fix the problem and do something about it.

Just put your anger aside, and you will realise how lucky you are. Just look at this:

If you wake up in the morning with a healthy body, you are already more lucky than a few million people, who may not see sunset.

If you never suffered from war, never been to prison, never suffered torture and never experienced starvation, you are already better off than half a billion people.

If you have the freedom to beleive in any religion, you areluckier than 3 billion poeple

If you have food in your fridge, clothes in your closet, have a house to live in and a bed to sleep on, you are luckier than 75% of the people in the world

If you have money in bank and in your wallet, you are the luckiest 8% of the people in the world.

If you can read, you are already better off than 2 billion people who cant

If you have both of your parents alive, you are very rare


Cant you people see how lucky you are? Yes, life may not be perfect and parents may not be perfect. But shouldnt you thank them for bringing you to this lovely world?

Love breeds love, hate breeds hate. Put your anger and hatred aside and you will realise how lucky you are.

Dont complain because of something you dont have, be thankful of what you have right now.

adslfkjaf fxck them and their misjudgement and lack of trust with the car anywhere else but school. i've never gotten in an accident and i KNOW you don't need it. asd;flkjasdf.

leave me alonneeeeee.

I can't really complain, there are too many people out there who don't have what I do, and I want to appreciate it, though, sometimes it's hard.

some people really dont have a right to complain.


my parents are not only overprotective, intolorant, controlling and annoying...
they're abusive.

my earliest memory is getting hit so hard that it almost broke my arm.

your earliest memory is your mom kissing a booboo to make it better.

so what if things have changed and now they yell at you about the music you listen to or they set unrealistic standards for you? at least you dont have to cringe each time someone touches you because the bruises hurt so bad. at least you dont have to fear coming home each day because you never know when they're gonna snap. at least you dont have to wear long sleeves and long pants at all times to hide all the bruises and scars they caused.

If your parents love you and dont hurt you, you're lucky.
Quit complaining about such little things.

Me and my friends were talking about how disrespectful my other friend is towards her mom. I found it infuckingcredible how much she mistreats her mother. Her mom is so generous and loving. Has given the girl everything she needed and pretty much gets here whatever her cold heart desires. Her mom barely ever hits her, and we got into talk about beatings Lol. I remembered

One time, when i was around 11, my mom made me lay out on the kitchen floor, and she hit me with a broom until it broke in half.
My dad got mad at me once, pushed me over and knocked my head on the tile floor.

My music was too loud, so my mom came in and told me to turn it down. I said ok, and she just started screaming and yelling. She pulled my hair and threw me from the chair to the floor, i hit my head on the edge of the desk, and she started slapping kicking and punching whatever part of me she could. Then she kicked me out, so i grabbed 6 dollars and headed to my friend Jamies or the park to crash, but she called me back and said I was challenging her, then proceeded to whip me with a coat hanger. La la la ..

^^^ I got whipped with a "chancla"...but yeah, like 8 years ago, but ANYWAYS.

Mom..Dad...My BIG ONE EIGHT birthday is coming up, so how 'bout you guys chill out a lil on that whole "Come home before Midnight" thing? Im a grown ass man. Lol...I think.

Aahahahah a CHANCLA ! You latino.

ive wanted contact lenses since i was 11. (im 16 in 2 weeks) just last year, my dad finally said i could get them if i maintained my grades. i did well in school, placed multiple times during track season, has been section leader of the viola section in orchestra this whole year, and then when i ask him yesterday when im getting them, he gets pissy and tells me hes not buying the lenses because he doesnt want me to go blind. wtf. im so effing desperate that i wouldnt even care if i went blind.

freshlooks. you can find them at any local beuty supply store...non-perscription. Warning if you put them in wrong you can lose some visability later on...

i'm so fxcking tired of being treated like i'm 10 years old. i'm so sick and tired of this bullshit. adf;lkajsdf.

id rather go and get fitted for them with the right perscription.

Wtf?? How do you know?! i used to get away with everything. Am i that obvious right now? I just want you off my back, I mean you guys used to be barely around... and now when i want you gone, your here. Bugging me. Please just leave me alone. I liked it when you guys were clueless.

Mother, go hang out with your stupid bf. You know you'd rather hang out with him then us.

Dad, Idk, your not really the one i'm complaining about here. But yea, yelling at me is really annoying.

my rents hate everything i do and like its kinda weird but thats ok i love my rents but i dont think its the other way around when my brother died my rents said they wished it were me right in my face and i started cutting but i figured thats what they wanted so i forced myself to stop then they started abusing me in every which way they lock me in this room with crap and stuff and would beat me for fun but i never tried to tell anyone and like they let me atleast stay in my room so thats good i mean some people get abandoned in trash cans and stuff so i guess i really shouldnt complain....

wow..and i was just looking for a topic where i could vent about my parents too! well..theres to much to say..but i hate my parents..dont even know where to begin.

i hate my mom and ive never liked her. but i do feel very sorry for her. i hate her personality: she always thinks shes right and she wont listen to any one elses opinions and when i try to tell her my opinion she just beats me up. she alwayyyss thinks shes right even tho she has no experience w/ wtvr shes doing..but thats typical of most parents isnt it

well besides the typical way parents r like...shes emotionall/physically/verbally. now dont be like..oh..yeah..asian moms. asian moms are abusive..but not to this extent..letsee...ill give some examples...

she stabbed me w/ a pair of scissors into my stomach..it made a hole but didnt go it
she stabbed me with lead pencils TWICE...and i freaked out when i saw a pencil stuck in my elbow and knee
locked me outside in the cold winter weather at 2am a few times..i wandered around w/o jacket or shoes
threatened me w/ knives, butcher knives, pots, and pans
her words really have me scared for my life: "if i catch you drawing again, i will chop off ur fingers one by one (what mother says that)" "you know ur dad never wanted you" "ill kill you in your sleep" ..list goes on..
she yanks me off my chair..throws me on the floor and stomps on me then tries to smother me...ive passed out a few times..cant be good for me
the list can go on and on..but point is..this is past normal asian discipline..

yeah so i hate her for everything she is...but i cant blame it entirely on her..b/c there is my dad ...he mentally/verbally abuses her ...and hes broken some bones in her body too ..but yeah..hes been cheating on her since she was pregnant w/ me....he has a 16 yr old kids w/ the other woman..ccheater, liar, and he "borrowed" a few million dollars from her ...and he doesnt want me either... hes never been there for me..ive never gotten any xmas/bday any presents from my parents ..but right now hes getting old so hes pretending to be nice to me so he can get money off me when hes retired...oh yeah..he doesnt provide any money for me either ...its like $100/week..not enough to provide for my mom and i..

some people just dont deserve to be parents -___-

dear parents,

why the hell do you think i'm skipping school so much?!!
WTFF?!!! you didn't do that before!
stop getting on my case about doing homework!!
the more you tell me to do it the more i wont do it!!
DAAAAAMMMNNN!!

ok..i dont curse unless im really mad..
f u. i didnt ASK for you to have sex and give birth to me. if u dont WANT me u shouldve aborted me like u did the other kids. just b/c YOURE suffering doesnt give u a right to bring ur pain out on me. u kneww the phone was still on..dont blame it on me. if im such a burden you shouldve gotten rid of me years ago. f u too. uhhuh. i hope you die too.

____: gosh you like to talk crap about everyone don't you? but i hate it when you lie.
what is your problem? your own life not exciting enough for you to talk about how others live theirs? you piss me off so much! and then you tell aunty that i'm skipping school. omg!
then she calls me and talks to me in a threatning way about truancy!?! & how shes going to
call the cops? wow i never thought you would stoop this low. i truly hate you!! i've never hated anyone untill now! you deserve everything you get! you suck!!!!!

Ugh. I do NOT need this. Quit being such stupid, ignorant, hypocritical assholes. You think you're so smart and that just because you're my parents that you're the shit and that you rule my life.
Fcuk. That.

thanks for never being there for me and being such a workaholic to not remeber your sons birthday.

I felt bad for my dad and grandma today; they were worried sick because I didn't pick up the phone today when they called to check on me. (Amy has my phone.) I couldn't tell them that Amy had it or else they would be mad at me, so I had to lie to them and tell them that I left it in my locker. I'm such a bad daughter.

SHE LIES LIKE SO MUCH, YELLS, and EXAGERATES.





^^thats so mean!!!

My mom is always like get a job and keep up your school work (I'm in f**king college now) OKay so I got a job and now she's like why did you get a job you really just need to focus on school. I'm like make up your mind biotch!!

Also my parents keep the leash to tight!! I am in college I am going to party I am going to come home after 12 I might come home high I'll probably come home drunk!! DEAL WITH IT!! and When I'm to f**ked up to drive I'll know and I'll spend the night at my friends house weather it is a girl or boy needs to stop bothering them!! They need to allow me to live my own life and trust that I will make good decisions!! THey HAVE TO LET ME GROW UP!! AND THEY HAVE TO REALIZE THAT JUST B/C I WAS THERE LITTLE ANGEL DOESN"T MEAN I"M ALWAYS GONNA BE GOOD!!

I will never be good enough for you. That's fine! You will NEVER be good enough for me.

I wish you'd never adopted me...I wish someone else had. You want me to do too much stuff at once. You tell me to do something, but then forbid me. There is no "Right on." There is only "Oh my god, what will people think?!" You're superficial and you suck and I hate you. I DO NOT JUST HATE YOU, I DON'T LOVE YOU. I want to run away and would have by now if it didn't make me feel so damn guilty. HAH. See that? I feel guilty about running away from the one who treats me so badly, who I loathe so much. Yyyyeah, I'm not a bad person, mom. But I will never respect you.

OH! AND STOP f**king YELLING! You know I've been sensitive to noise since I was little, and yelling at me in a closed off hallway doesn't MOTIVATE me! It doesn't make me want to change or do better! It makes me want to crawl under the porch and just wait until I DIE!

Why is it that I'm only 18 when I'm in trouble yet when I'm not, I'm still a little kid?
"I'm 18 so I can stay out as late as I want."
"No you're still part of this house and we make the rules and being 18 doesn't mean anything."
or
"Why didn't you do that? You're 18 now!! You're an adult, act like one!"

I can't act like one if you won't f**king let me!!

Why do you f**king shelter me so f**king much?? I am such a good daughter...at least I thought I was. I do the best I can, and yet, I don't get anything. I wanted to go to Europe and I f**king got a job because of it and busted my butt all summer to raise a lot of money. Then, I learn that I can't go. If that wasn't a big enough deal, you won't even let me go to something small. It's my f**king senior year. Can't you let me live for once in my life?? f**k off.

Holy cramm!
My Mom like always let me eat sweets, and sometimes made me eat them, and now she yells at me for being fat. It's like, she just needed a reason to take out all of her anger on me! I am also trying to loose weight, but my mom now all of a sudden is making me eat more, and trying to get me to have more snacks. She says it's to "grow healthy" but I think that I have enough fat to let me grow very healthy. I just sit there and take all of her yelling even though it's about stuff she did to me.

Also, just 'cause this topic is on parent complaints, I fell like sharing my friend's complaint, because I think it is really unfair.
So my friend has a sister, younger sister, and her mom was a younger sibling, too. Sooo... whenever her younger sister starts an argument with her, her mom always makes some excuse as to how it was her fault, and not her sisters. A list of excuses that she used that my friend told me are:
She is younger, and didn't know it was wrong, but you did.

You probably did something that made her mad.

(This is the most unfair one) She doesn't know how to take her punishment if she gets it, so she'll be in a tantrum, and besides, you fought back, so it is your fault mainly.


They are sad, and once she got grounded because her sister was messing up the yard, and it would be like, $100 to fix it all, and my friend was yelling at her to stop. And her sister just got a little talk, and she got grounded, I'm just like, glad I don't have parents like my friend, but my parents aren't perfect either.

My parents are always trying to look at the computer screen whenever I'm online. They're constantly asking me "Who are you talking to?" "Hey, what are you doing?" It gets soo annoying. They don't even want me to talk to guys online, WTF? I know how to protect myself, I'm not five anymore. Gosh.

um.
my parents never cared about my feelings.
they said people doesnt need comforting words because they are all fake, my parents never comforted me.

My parents are paranoid. Like, except for my boyfriend's house, I usually can't hang out with a guy(s) alone. I have to have a female there.

They're really like, old.

I have to tell them where I'm going before I go. I can understand that, like if I was going to go to another place that was far away, but one time I went to a restaurant after going to a café, and it was in the same area. My mom freaked out and I got grounded because I didn't tell her where I was going before I left the place.

STUPID.

It bugs the hell out of me when one of you says yes then talks to the other one and you change your mind. You can't do that. That's not fair. I'm going to the basketball game tonight. Stop with all of your bullcrap excuses for me not to go. You know you have no real reason except that you don't want me to. GET OVER IT. I'm 18 which means I'm an adult. And later on in the year I'm going to be driving like this all the time. Just stop with your excuses.

haha. my parents yell at me for no reason whatsoever. i was doing hw and they were like "ZoMFG. DO SOME FREAKING SAT!" im like "im doing hw..." they`re like..."i dont care do SAT...ure grounded." im like "WTF? "
they complain when someone of the opposite sex calls.

like everyone else said; i like my parents alot and everything. But at times they'll just piss me off like heck. When my Specialized Highschool Results came around like last month, and i found out i didn't get in, my parents didnt suport me and help me feel better. All they said was "Oh, how come this and that can get into a Specialized hs, and you can't huh?!" or "How dumb can you get?" and "You're never gonna become anything, you're worthless. You're probably not even gonna get into any of the regular highschools." They're always there to compare me to someone else. Saying things like "Look at their grades and look at yours. Why can't you be like them" They never say positive stuff about me but always looks on the negative side. Sometimes i wish they could just understand -______-

My Dad lives in Florida, everytime he says he'll visit, he doesn't. My mom is over-protective like whoa. She won't let me go out with my friends, she won't let me spend the night anywhere, she always wants to be anyone. My mom has never said "good job" to bme. It's always, you can do better. I got a b in english [which I brought up from an F] and I got an "you can do better"