need some ideas. because i want to break up with my boyfriend.

what did you say to him? /her? did you do it in person? had a friend do it?

and if u had ur friend do it.. did like.. your boyfriend get mad because you didnt do it yourself??

for my last one.. i did it onliine. he asks me out online, i break up online. i said..

"sorry, but i really dont think this is working out.. do you just want to be friends?"

with my ex.. he asked me out in person but we had an arguement online so he said.. what now? so i was like i don't know? and he's like i guess we should stop seeing each other? is that okay? and i was just like whatever. even though i was really hurt.

my best friend made me break up with her ex, it was in person. it was really awkward for me so i wudn't advise you doing that especially since i wont let it go to this day lol.

um just say IN PERSON.. that things aren't really working out and cud we stop dating for a little while? and then if u want, get back together.. or if you don't, you won't really have to deal with it. hopefully??

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my ex gf told me "i don't really want a bf right now".. i though that was alot of BS.. but yeah....

she later said that we are way better off friends and stuff and that we can still hang out and have fun but yeah...

and that's a way better reason.

I told him straight up that he was moving into things way to fast and that he was getting annoying, and I didn't want to see him anymore

i had helped a friend break up with her boyfriend, she gave me a note to give to him (they'd be going out for 2 weeks) and i ended up being with him after that for over 2 years, YIKES!! I broke up with him in person. . . it just didnt work out. i met someone else out of state.

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Never break up with someone online ! Never have someone else do it, and try to avoid doing it over the phone. At least muster up the balls to do it face to face. For me, its usually different with every boy

''Listen you punk beezy, this shit ain't workin' out, so I'm punchin out. Catch ya later, you lil' bitch.''


Eh?

Always break up with someone face to face. Always.
Hmm, well I've never broken up with anyone before. I was thinking of breaking up with my current boyfriend though, especially after one of our long fights. I was just going to sit him down and tell him that even though I love him, our differences are just too great and it would be very difficult to work out, etc. But, I realized that I just loved him too much and couldn't break it off...
My ex broke up with me by telling me that he wasn't ready for a girlfriend, that he liked flirting with other girls (wtf?), and that maybe we shouldn't see each other again.

gaahhh i was a scaredy cat and did it online --_--"

"i can't lie to myself anymore. I know that no matter how i say it it wont make a difference. im just sorry. for everything. and thank you. for everythin you've given me. i'll never forget. please forgive me. im sorry"

something like that. can't remember. it was more like begging for forgiveness than the whole " u suck byebye" tone.

the only thing to remember is to never be specific about why ur breaking up. just break up. and leave it at that. be as vague as possible. it lowers the pain level.

^there you go.
Thanks for looking up those topics.

As for breaking up with your boyfriend, the best way to do it is in person.
Not on the phone or online.
You should just tell him the truth. There is no secret or easy way to do this.
Please don't use another person to do it, or do it online. That is probably the worst thing you can do. Just tell him it's not working out and why it's not working out.
You don't have to use that cliche "are we still friends?" kinda line.
A lot of ways it just kinda works out in the end.
Good luck!

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