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fameONE
QUOTE(BamBamBoogie @ Nov 12 2008, 12:15 PM) *
I personally feel as though the military has some benefits, but it also is a bit unconstitutional. Now I know if you are reading this you're thinking, "How the heck is the MILITARY unconstitutional?" I know it helps to protect our country and it ensures a certain level of safety. However, the military discriminates against homosexuals. Some argue that there is a "Don't ask, don't tell policy." This is true and there are any who are comfortable with this. However, isn't it unfair for those who wish to protect our country, cannot even openly express themselves. If they do they will be kicked out of the military. So under the "Don't ask, Don't tell" policy, they must keep their expressions to themselves, which is in violation of the right which is guaranteed by the 1st amendment of the constitution. By not allowing freedom of speech and expression of their sexuality, then you are violating a right that everyone deserves to have.

Now believe me, I am not against the military. I actually feel as though the military is a great organization which protects citizens. However, I do believe that some of the ideologies should be reconsidered.


You don't know what you're talking about.
BamBamBoogie
QUOTE(fameONE @ Nov 12 2008, 02:03 PM) *
You don't know what you're talking about.


Really? I thought for sure I did. Why don't you point out where my points were invalid.
fameONE
Your personal rights and freedoms as a human being aren't stripped from you because you're part of a military branch of service. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," is about protecting that individual. It's widely accepted for a woman to be a lesbian in the military, specifically in the comabt oriented branches of service. But for a man to come out of the closet and put his business out there, he puts himself at risk. He then becomes a safety hazard in his own right. People are people no matter where you go. On one hand, you'll have guys who don't give two shits about someone else's sexual orientation, but then you have those who see it as a problem. In order to protect that individual from hate crimes (which have happened in the past), he has the freedom to do what he pleases behind closed doors, outside of a military setting.
BamBamBoogie
QUOTE(fameONE @ Nov 12 2008, 11:40 PM) *
Your personal rights and freedoms as a human being aren't stripped from you because you're part of a military branch of service. "Don't Ask, Don't Tell," is about protecting that individual. It's widely accepted for a woman to be a lesbian in the military, specifically in the comabt oriented branches of service. But for a man to come out of the closet and put his business out there, he puts himself at risk. He then becomes a safety hazard in his own right. People are people no matter where you go. On one hand, you'll have guys who don't give two shits about someone else's sexual orientation, but then you have those who see it as a problem. In order to protect that individual from hate crimes (which have happened in the past), he has the freedom to do what he pleases behind closed doors, outside of a military setting.


You make a great point. It is wise for the military to make efforts to protect Homosexuals and Bisexuals from hate attacks. The act prohibits any homosexual or bisexual person from disclosing his or her sexual orientation or from speaking about any homosexual relationships, including marriages or other familial attributes, while serving in the United States armed forces. This is a violation of the first amendment which clearly gives the freedom of speech. Although it protects them, it also hurts them. Shouldn't the "Don't ask Don't tell" policy be an option for each individual. Certain people may feel as though they cannot openly express themselves and/or feel as though they don't need any protection.
brooklyneast05
this is a clash between ideals and reality though i think. ideally...everyone should be able to be whatever sexual orientation they want openly. that's a nice thought, but it's not a reality and until it is then it's a safety hazard. i duno, i just think you're not bridging the gap between what it should be and what it is. no matter how much it should be one way that doesn't change the fact it's not there yet. with that in mind i don't consider it really a "violation". i think it's a violation in theory, but in terms of reality..not so much.
BamBamBoogie
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Nov 13 2008, 02:07 PM) *
this is a clash between ideals and reality though i think. ideally...everyone should be able to be whatever sexual orientation they want openly. that's a nice thought, but it's not a reality and until it is then it's a safety hazard. i duno, i just think you're not bridging the gap between what it should be and what it is. no matter how much it should be one way that doesn't change the fact it's not there yet. with that in mind i don't consider it really a "violation". i think it's a violation in theory, but in terms of reality..not so much.


Im unclear as to how it isn't reality. The "Dadt" policy is currently in effect which is reality. It prohibits open expression of homsexual relations, therefore violating the first amendment, which is reality.
brooklyneast05
i don't see what you don't get. everyone running around expressing their sexuality without any consequence or threat isn't reality.

bradon just said that

QUOTE
but for a man to come out of the closet and put his business out there, he puts himself at risk. He then becomes a safety hazard in his own right. People are people no matter where you go. On one hand, you'll have guys who don't give two shits about someone else's sexual orientation, but then you have those who see it as a problem. In order to protect that individual from hate crimes (which have happened in the past), he has the freedom to do what he pleases behind closed doors, outside of a military setting.
BamBamBoogie
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Nov 13 2008, 02:51 PM) *
i don't see what you don't get. everyone running around expressing their sexuality without any consequence or threat isn't reality.

bradon just said that


Of course it isn't. There's always consequence for something. However, we shouldn't take away a right to freely express one's self just because there is a threat. Barack Obama was threatened. Should he have kept it to himself that he wanted to be president? It was a choice that he made to remain to be open about a desire to be president despite threats. He's okay right? Same should go for the military
brooklyneast05
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i don't think it makes sense to compare the heavily security surrounded obama to a normal solider.

if i was gay and in the military i'd go by a don't ask don't tell policy anyway becuase my sexuality would be an irrelevant piece of information in the first place, just sayin.
BamBamBoogie
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Nov 13 2008, 03:27 PM) *
loool.gif

i don't think it makes sense to compare the heavily security surrounded obama to a normal solider.

if i was gay and in the military i'd go by a don't ask don't tell policy anyway becuase my sexuality would be an irrelevant piece of information in the first place, just sayin.


Im not comparing the security, Im comparing the choice of being open with added security. Obama didn't want extra security after the threats because he knows that the world is a threatful place. Just like a gun, it protects you, but its still an option. You can only help those who want to help themselves. Im not sure if this makes sense because Im really tired. I just like to debate.
fameONE
Congress, not the military is solely responsible for the DADT policy. The Uniformed Code of Military Justice reflects that policy. When it comes down to it, you can't be mad at the one enforcing the rules when they didn't come up with it in the first place.

Take it up with Congress.

Personal Opinion:

Open homosexual relationships have no place in a military setting; male or female. Public displays of affection for heterosexual couples, while in a military setting, is frowned upon. Why? It's not professional. If my roommate, or one of my Marines were gay, I'd rather him not let that cat out of the bag. Keep your personal life, personal.
Detective
Wow! That sure got me thinking twice before going into the the Army.
fameONE
QUOTE(Detective @ Nov 17 2008, 07:09 PM) *
Wow! That sure got me thinking twice before going into the the Army.

What did?
karmakiller
Lol, Pedro, I like how you posted that after all the "being openly gay" talk.
Detective
Dee, I didn't notice there was any gay talk! Haha. I just simply responded to the topic.
karmakiller
Hahaha, that's why I had to point it out.
Detective
Well thank you for the heads up then Dee!
fameONE
QUOTE(Detective @ Nov 18 2008, 07:33 PM) *
Well thank you for the heads up then Dee!

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Disregard the main post, man. It was some shit I found on the internet. Obviously, it had no bearing on my decision because three years later, I'm in the military. Go figure. rolleyes.gif
applejaxkz
QUOTE(BrandonSaunders @ Jan 16 2006, 02:28 PM) *
You shouldn't be allowed in the debate forum.

Hah laugh.gif
darkone4481
I decided to join the Navy this week. I am following in my parents footsteps in taking on greater responibilities for myself and serving my country. I am gaurenteed a job in a field full of people with similar interests as myself, and I get all of my college payed for.

The OP says that people usually don't get a chance to go to school while in the military. Where are you meeting these people? Both of my parents went to the Navy and earned their Masters degree's while serving.

The military is a place where you can meet new people and see the world while getting payed at the same time... what is wrong with that?
sixfive
QUOTE(darkone4481 @ Dec 3 2008, 08:53 PM) *
I decided to join the Navy this week. I am following in my parents footsteps in taking on greater responibilities for myself and serving my country. I am gaurenteed a job in a field full of people with similar interests as myself, and I get all of my college payed for.

The OP says that people usually don't get a chance to go to school while in the military. Where are you meeting these people? Both of my parents went to the Navy and earned their Masters degree's while serving.

The military is a place where you can meet new people and see the world while getting payed at the same time... what is wrong with that?

Another one who didn't read the thread. READ BEFORE POSTING DAWG
espressive
i'm not too familiar with the military stuff... but i was wondering if being part of the medical staff would be any different? actually, i just want any additional information about the medical stuff. thanks!
fameONE
QUOTE(espressive @ Dec 4 2008, 05:45 PM) *
i'm not too familiar with the military stuff... but i was wondering if being part of the medical staff would be any different? actually, i just want any additional information about the medical stuff. thanks!

If you join the Army, expect to be deployed for, at least, a year each time.

Join the Navy, be a Corpsman, work with a Marine unit. Get out after 4 years, and there's no need to go to Nursing School. thumbsup.gif
turkishdog
QUOTE(snak3y3z1001 @ Jan 16 2006, 05:52 PM) *
1. Mongomery GI Bill. Invest $100 a month for a year, you will get $36k towards college. Invest for a extra 4 months and get $48k towards college. Once you step foot in bootcamp, your earnin colleg credits. Anytime they train you yur gettin college credits.

2. Geared towards military job? Do you mean government job? This is false. Right now my job is a eletronic technician. I'm pretty sure I can easily find a cilivian job once i leave the service. I know a guy who lefted the service after he did his 5 years. Got a job in less then a week and is gettin paid $150k/yr. Doubt anyone can earn that much straight out of college without no type of experience what soever. You can go Nuke, leave after your 6 years and EASILY make $200k a year.

3. Recruiters does not target a specific race. You either walk into their office and request some info or request them online.

4. There are more sexual assualt and harrassment on women outside the service.

5. They tell you what you are giving up before you sign on the dotted line and say yur oath. If your scared to lose your rights, dont join at all. Simple as that.

6. Last time i check its dangerous to work at construction sites, hospitals, work in law enforcement. Its a dangerous world we live in. Get use to it.

7. Too late to save our planet now. Getting rid of the military wont accomplish squat.

8. Heh. Dehumanizing? Its more like a mental game they play. A mental game where they weed out the weak and strong. If you cant keep your area clean or follow directions, who would trust you in handling missles or drivin the boat? Sure they chew you out. Its like your parents yellin at you only 10x worse. Yes soldiers are trained to kill but that doesnt mean they run around shooting everything that moves. They only shoot when they are endangered. Its either kill or get killed.

Right now im stationed in Groton, CT. Im still in school and still will be for the next year. Im getting paid just to learn.


You da man. ;D
Be-Faithful
Ya'll should stop your humanism. It's more ridiculous than cool you know.
mipadi
QUOTE(Be-Faithful @ Dec 13 2008, 09:31 PM) *
Ya'll should stop your humanism. It's more ridiculous than cool you know.

What makes you say that?
Stuckie
QUOTE(espressive @ Dec 4 2008, 05:45 PM) *
i'm not too familiar with the military stuff... but i was wondering if being part of the medical staff would be any different? actually, i just want any additional information about the medical stuff. thanks!

There are a bunch of Med MOSs in the Army. I never considered the medical field so I only know what my old roomate told me. He said its a pretty laid back field depending on your unit. You can talk to a recruiter and ask about med jobs. But be careful, cause recruiters will push you to join.
TOOLBAGSIRNUTS
I joined the Marines and I'm pretty chill with my decision

My unit's pretty laid-back, we're just a bunch of techies sitting around until we start deploying for Afghanistan (which equals hazard pay which equals more money). I get 80 grand for college when I leave so that's not too shabby either

Also, sorry for volunteering
fameONE
QUOTE(Willzors @ Dec 22 2008, 05:52 AM) *
I joined the Marines and I'm pretty chill with my decision

My unit's pretty laid-back, we're just a bunch of techies sitting around until we start deploying for Afghanistan (which equals hazard pay which equals more money). I get 80 grand for college when I leave so that's not too shabby either

Also, sorry for volunteering

Sup Devil.
I smell yellow paint!

Haha, I kid, I kid.
Stuckie
QUOTE(Willzors @ Dec 22 2008, 05:52 AM) *
...we're just a bunch of techies sitting around until we start deploying for Afghanistan (which equals hazard pay which equals more money).

Is the Hazard pay the same in Iraq as it is in Afghanistan now? Or do they still get less in Iraq?

QUOTE(fameONE @ Dec 22 2008, 05:55 AM) *
Sup Devil.
I smell yellow paint!

Haha, I kid, I kid.

Yuck!!! Marines. sick.gif
Im just playing. Not really. tongue.gif
fameONE
QUOTE(Stuckie @ Dec 23 2008, 01:00 AM) *
Is the Hazard pay the same in Iraq as it is in Afghanistan now? Or do they still get less in Iraq?


It's not any less. If it is, then it's news to me.

QUOTE
Yuck!!! Marines. sick.gif
Im just playing. Not really. tongue.gif

We're conditioned to believe that the Marine Corps is superior to other branches of service. I must admit that I agree.
hypnotique
QUOTE(Stuckie @ Dec 23 2008, 01:00 AM) *
Is the Hazard pay the same in Iraq as it is in Afghanistan now? Or do they still get less in Iraq?
Yuck!!! Marines. sick.gif
Im just playing. Not really. tongue.gif

I have never met a decent marine that was sane or not a complete douche bag alcoholic/ nut


Can someone please prove to be otherwise?!
brooklyneast05
^brandon?
hypnotique
QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ Dec 23 2008, 04:41 PM) *
^brandon?

Oh i thought he was in the Navy...
TOOLBAGSIRNUTS
We sure are a department of the Navy
fameONE
QUOTE(hypnotique @ Dec 23 2008, 04:44 PM) *
Oh i thought he was in the Navy...

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Stuckie
QUOTE(hypnotique @ Dec 23 2008, 04:44 PM) *
Oh i thought he was in the Navy...

Minus 5 stubborn.gif
medic
Well I am going to answer them via experience now.....

1. Joining the military is hazardous to your education.

It all depends on your motivation, you don't have to give up your education to join the military. I joined for money for my higher education, and I am doing online classes right now while I am serving my time (2 years).

2. Joining the military is hazardous to your future.

Since I am living life day by day, I have no idea how my service is going to impact my future. As of now, I love what I do. I do plan on going to law school after 4ish years in the service. You have to decide if you want to make your service 20 years or 2-4 years. It's your decision.

3. Joining the military is hazardous to people of color.

I am white so I don't know anything about this.

4. Joining the military is hazardous to women.

I have a penis so I also lack knowledge in this department.

5. Joining the military is hazardous to your civil rights.

It all depends on your sergeants/officers. I keep my mouth shut so I can get promoted, but I know sergeants and other NCO's that say what they want whenever they want. You don't all the sudden become a silent person. You just need to know when to say it, who to say it around and the context of what you say.

6. Joining the military is hazardous to your health.

I get free health care, if I need a perscription filled I walk inside the hospital and show the pharmacy my ID, I get brand name medications for free. Most of the people here don't realize what it costs for health care because they still piggy back off mom and dad.

7. Joining the military is hazardous to the environment.

You get in a car everyday, we do some crazy shit, but I can tell you 100% what we do gets cleaned up by privates.

8. Joining the military is hazardous to our lives.

Yea, it is. We understand that and live with that fear everyday. I haven't been to war (I have a desk job) so I can't tell you how it feels to be in a extremely dangerous situation. On that note, I would be willing to give my life for the people around me, once you live with people like yourself (AKA your battles) you would do anything to keep them alive.
Stuckie
QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
1. Joining the military is hazardous to your education.

It all depends on your motivation, you don't have to give up your education to join the military. I joined for money for my higher education, and I am doing online classes right now while I am serving my time (2 years).

2 YEARS?!?!?! They got me for 4. Im killing everyone at MEPS.

QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
2. Joining the military is hazardous to your future.

Since I am living life day by day, I have no idea how my service is going to impact my future. As of now, I love what I do. I do plan on going to law school after 4ish years in the service. You have to decide if you want to make your service 20 years or 2-4 years. It's your decision.

The way the economy is sucking, I might do 20. Its like getting paid to play "Simon Says".

QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
3. Joining the military is hazardous to people of color.

I am white so I don't know anything about this.

Im black. The military isnt hazardous to my health. Iron Mikes are.

QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
4. Joining the military is hazardous to women.

I have a penis so I also lack knowledge in this department.

All the females in my unit outrank me. (There is only one female though)

QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
5. Joining the military is hazardous to your civil rights.

It all depends on your sergeants/officers. I keep my mouth shut so I can get promoted, but I know sergeants and other NCO's that say what they want whenever they want. You don't all the sudden become a silent person. You just need to know when to say it, who to say it around and the context of what you say.

Maybe the military is hazardous to my civil rights huh.gif

QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
6. Joining the military is hazardous to your health.

I get free health care, if I need a perscription filled I walk inside the hospital and show the pharmacy my ID, I get brand name medications for free. Most of the people here don't realize what it costs for health care because they still piggy back off mom and dad.

I dont even remember the last time I paid for a hospital bill. WOO-HOO!!!!! laugh.gif

QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
7. Joining the military is hazardous to the environment.

You get in a car everyday, we do some crazy shit, but I can tell you 100% what we do gets cleaned up by privates.

Yeah. They always got me cleaning sh*t. mad.gif

QUOTE(medic @ Jan 1 2009, 10:53 PM) *
8. Joining the military is hazardous to our lives.

Yea, it is. We understand that and live with that fear everyday. I haven't been to war (I have a desk job) so I can't tell you how it feels to be in a extremely dangerous situation. On that note, I would be willing to give my life for the people around me, once you live with people like yourself (AKA your battles) you would do anything to keep them alive.

Breaking News from PFC Rhodes all the way from Iraq: "Iraq is easy. Afghanistan is hard. Either way it goes, I get tax free money. Army Strong. HOOAH!!!" tongue.gif
fameONE
You could have been a man and joined the Marine Corps.

I kid, I kid. rofl1.gif

Honestly, unless you're willing to become a full fledged, heartless, sociopath; I'm sure you did what's best for you.
karmakiller
QUOTE(hypnotique @ Dec 23 2008, 04:37 PM) *
I have never met a decent marine that was sane or not a complete douche bag alcoholic/ nut
Can someone please prove to be otherwise?!
Eyyyy now, my brother is a Marine.









Impressive
government be ripping you a new one... with your pay...so small... i laugh at 's in uniform... they think because they wear a uniform... they are better... when in fact a person who isn't wearing one makes 3 times as much... true the uniform gets you more pussy.. but it also get's you a bullet in your ass killed.... think about it.... huh.gif
fameONE
QUOTE(Friday @ Jan 10 2009, 06:58 AM) *
government be ripping you a new one... with your pay...so small... i laugh at 's in uniform... they think because they wear a uniform... they are better... when in fact a person who isn't wearing one makes 3 times as much... true the uniform gets you more pussy.. but it also get's you a bullet in your ass killed.... think about it.... huh.gif


That has to be the dumbest thing I've heard anyone ever say about the military. It shows how little you know.
Stuckie
QUOTE(Friday @ Jan 9 2009, 09:58 PM) *
government be ripping you a new one... with your pay...so small... i laugh at 's in uniform... they think because they wear a uniform... they are better... when in fact a person who isn't wearing one makes 3 times as much... true the uniform gets you more pussy.. but it also get's you a bullet in your ass killed.... think about it.... huh.gif

The pay isn't great, but its guaranteed. So if the economy takes a dive, the people without uniforms will be assed out while people like me have a guaranteed pay, a place to live, food to eat, and clothes on our back.

*Looks at ass*
Im in Iraq. No bullet yet. thumbsup.gif
fameONE
QUOTE(Stuckie @ Jan 13 2009, 02:18 PM) *
*Looks at ass*
Im in Iraq. No bullet yet. thumbsup.gif

I've been out here since August. What FOB are you on?

Firefights are short-lived and overrated. Getting to a decent vantage point, and catching someone in your scope is what's really good. The only real concern I have out here are IEDs.
imano
Murder can never be justified.
fameONE
QUOTE(imano @ Jan 16 2009, 09:09 PM) *
Murder can never be justified.

What the hell are you talking about? Are you implying that a combat kill is the equivalent to murder?
Stuckie
QUOTE(WarMachine @ Jan 13 2009, 06:32 AM) *
I've been out here since August. What FOB are you on?

Firefights are short-lived and overrated. Getting to a decent vantage point, and catching someone in your scope is what's really good. The only real concern I have out here are IEDs.

FOB Hammer. This place sucks. Im not concerned about IEDs anymore. We got those MRAPs, and we haven't lost a single one yet. thumbsup.gif

QUOTE(imano @ Jan 16 2009, 12:09 PM) *
Murder can never be justified.

I think you support terrorism. stubborn.gif
Tsukuyomi-No-Mokoto
Well murder can't be justified that is true but how do you explain it in a case where stuck fighting for your life.
as in
either u kill him or he kills you?
is it justified then?
karmakiller
You don't even have to begin to think of how killing someone in combat is justifiable. It isn't murder. Murder is the unlawful killing of another human being with a state of mind known as "malice aforethought". Don't use words to describe something if you do not know the definition or power of that word.

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/murder
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