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sharpandcuddly
right outta my past, this guy i havent seen in two years shows up and i suddenly get the hots for him -
but i have a boyfriend. and i care about him aswell.
and okay, this wouldnt be a bad thing, but this guy from my past just decided to tell me that he has a thing for me.

what am i supposed to say? i told him i have a boyfriend and my boyfriend knows about it, but i dont know what to do! i dont want to ditch my boyfriend for this guy, but i dont want to hurt his feelings, ughughugh.
curse me for not liking to hurt people!
_sarcastic_
well if you don't want to ditch your bf don't.
tough luck for the guy from your past, you already have a bf, he should understand that.
Trumpetman4eva
coming from experience...dont leave ur bf unless u seriously dont like him anymore....my ex left me for another guy...that hurt worse than any other breakup
yukichan
^ agreed..
dont leave ur boyfriend for another guy..its not right...i did something like that and the guy who wasnt my bf turned out to be an @$$..
Chii
why do you like this guy?

all you have to ask yourself is if it's worth it to leave your boyfriend for this guy. just because he's your boyfriend doesn't mean that he's the one.

the only thing that's not fair is that you're keeping both or these guys to yourself. you have to let at least one go. unfortunately you can't go through life without hurting people. it's for the best though. it's much better to know that someone doesn't want to be with you than thinking you have a chance when you really don't.
Rikkiismyname
First thing you do: Make it clear to your friend that you have a boyfriend.
Second:Decide who you like better....actually this seems like a better number one.
*Insert as second before the tell your friend*if you like your boyfriend then go on to the next step.
Third:Live with your choice.
Fade to Black
easy, u tell him u have a boyfriend and say sorry
topsyturvy
Technically he's (the 3rd guy) too late. But if he's "the one" (or he thinks you're "the one" for him) then he'll wait. Who knows what can happen in a year.
HybridCountdown5
QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Dec 22 2005, 3:51 PM)
well if you don't want to ditch your bf don't. 
tough luck for the guy from your past, you already have a bf, he should understand that.
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yeah thats right! a guy from your past can go find someone else
davexd
well hes been away for 2 years , ur boyfriend has been there for u , stick with ur boy friend
davexd
im bored
davexd
oopz sorry about that i lagged and i was typing on aim =X
Babi3xFoOlish
u cant always make everyone happy,
n ive learn that going through a sitution like that.
but jus dont leave the one u love for the one u like,
cus like they always say, they will do the same thing.
leave the one they like for the one they love.
u get me?
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