just wondering what other people's thoughts are on this subject, but would u let your boyfriend/girlfriend go to a stripclub and not be worried about what may/may not happen? do ya get my drift?

i'm sorry, but i personally would not trust my bf if he went because i have trust issues with guys since i've been hurt pretty badly in the past. i can't help it. i'd just keep thinking about "did something happen that i should know about?" "did he cheat?". i'm sorry if you don't agree with me, but i'm just basing all this from my past relationships. at least i am being honest though. no worries, i won't bash on any of you guys for your responses.


i just want some opinions.


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i've never been to one but i personally would love to see what it's like...

in the back of my mind or somewhere in there, i fantasize about being a stripper...not in a sleazy bar, but in an expensive, classy stripclub

i wouldn't care too much if my boyfriend (if i had one... ) went to a stripclub, sure i get insanely jealous at times but hey, as long as he comes home to me and only me, it's all good.

haha i wouldnt mind.
as long as it isnt awkward and we can tell each other what happened.

i understand where you're coming from. no worries. it's just my bf can get turned on pretty easily and that worries me cuz usually strippers are like hot and skinny chicks, right? most of them, at least. what if they like give him a lapdance and such and he like totally loves it and idk something happens (unplanned), but it happens.

i don't feel like waking up one morning and getting a call from him saying that he accidently knocked up a stripper because he (might have) drank too much and things got a little too far; not necessarily @ the stripclub itself, but say her shift was done and something happened @ her place or wherever else besides her workplace.

i know for a fact that if he went sometime with his buddies, he would not tell me because he knows how i'd react to it. trust me, i've had to deal with him lying to me about stuff and yeah i always find out. he's not a very good liar.

i don't think i can handle my bf going to a strip club. yeah of course i do trust him, but knowing him, he's in love with girls. and never tells me most of the things going on in his life and he lies

Its a strip club. Who cares? Its only naked chicks.
Usually I don't think anything more happens with them. Strippers aren't always prostitutes you know! And even if they were, that would be your boyfriend seeking them out and paying them.
They don't generally hook up with customers. They get sooo many drunk guys staring at them that I think it would lose its appeal.

I don't think that my boyfriend would tend to go to strippers anyways - him and place with loud noise? Away from home? Travelling? Just wouldn't happen. He's got a chronic pain disorder and I know for a fact that even if he did go to a strip club, he'd be feeling way too shitty during/afterwards to even HAVE a sex drive, let alone get up to anything. And he hates the objectification of women.

Me on the other hand... Well, I'd happily go see male strippers and intend to :) With my mum and some of our friends.
And I'm pretty sure my boyfriend would be cool with it. And if he wasn't, I probably wouldn't go.

Strippers often aren't allowed to have contact with their patrons.

well, if he dont go and do something something with someone then i wouldnt mind..haha and plus, if i tell him he can there's a possibility he wouldnt want to anymore because he doesnt have that "devious"(SP) thought anymore...you know what i'm saying? hahaha

^ agreed 100%

I just can't trust my guys with nearly naked girls. It brings my self confidence down to -10.

I would deff. not let my boyfriend go there.
I trust him and everything but no.

what chii said.

he can go, i just better go with him. as long as Im there to watch him, then its fine. I may curse him out and get into the jealousy mode if he looks at another girl so idk

YOUR MOM! You would go with your mom to a stripclub?

amen to you. i so agree.

^Agreed. I would never even date someone interested in that kind of trash. It makes me feel like I'm not enough, so he has to go to some strip club to feel satisfied.

oh em gee! that is EXACTLY how i feel. sorry, i sound like a crazy person. haha, but yeah i mean no one understands, but that's how i feel...like i'm not good enough so the guy has to go somewhere to see other (possibly fake) girls to make themselves feel better.

how do u know something isn't going to happen for sure? i mean there are people out there in the world who are dating or have dated strippers before. how do u think they met (besides through friends)? it is possible...

i trust my guy, but it's a NO-NO or i'll go and stare at other guys' "goodies"!

definately. well, i think if i had a boyfriend, and we'd been going out for a while and trusted each other, i think i'd be okay with him going to one of the classy, expensive stripclubs. not a sleazy one mind you. ohwell, i guess i'll know how i really feel if that ever comes up in the future.

err.......that's what he's gonna be doin the whole time if we went......staring at the strippers lol. its a damn stripclub!


i was thinking the same thing.....


my friend went to the stripclub with his gf. the only problem she had was that he got several lapdances from the SAME chick. other than that things were ok, but they almost broke up over that one reason itself lol.

Its really not that big of a deal. I've been a stones throw away from working at Hardbodies, but changed my mind. Thats another story, though.

The problem isn't your significant other going to a strip club, its them going to a strip club instead of being with you. If a guy is out having a good time with his boys, then its really not a big deal, but if he decides to waste $10 per table dance and tip a sweaty broad just to get boobs in his face instead of going home to some lovin', then there's a problem.

no big deal....strip club areas are a source of entertainment....i think the main reason people....."girls in general" don't like it is because they think it's exploitation for money.....

Then they change their minds when they get up on stage and make a grand in one night.

i hear that....every view point/prospective changes when the money starts coming their way...

Yeah, I agree with that. He's not satisfied with me so he has to go find other girls to make him happy...


I agree with that too.

i don't like it because i don't want any hoe to go and steal my man with her trashy ways.

if that really did happen, i'd literally go kick her ass (when she gets off work). i'm not afraid to fight for what's mine.

what you dont know doesn't hurt you.

f**k THAT SHIT!!!!

If a hoe can easily steal your boyfriend like that, do you honestly want him?

strippers are not whores. they dont f**k ur boyfriends if they throw down enough one's

Yup, you betcha. Its only entertainment, not like either of us would tear their clothes off and start having monkey sex on stage with them :P
Its only strippers, they aren't prostitutes!

My mums a happily married woman and I'm in a happy relationship too, but really, it's just something fun to do :D I totally want to for my 21st. Girls night out!

idc...they'll always be dirty to me & who can't find a decent job.

hmm. if i DID have a boiifriend. i'd be jealous if he did go. but i knoe that he would be true and not do anything ''stupid'' yet if he did do something stupid he better tell me insted of me finding out.

don't worry...if he had done something and didn't tell you, you'd find out somehow. us gfs always find out...even if it's already too late to do anything about it, but we always find out. one way or another.

as a girl ofcourse i wouldnt want my bf to go to a stripclubn i wouldnt trust him ethier.
n he should know better, if ur already in a relation, why would u think goin to a striperclub is entertainment.

OKAY, you would love to have this right? Im american and Im majoring in Japanese. What if I worked for a stripclub im Japan O_O :) they would love that hehe.

ive never been. dont plan to either.

my boyfriend constantly tries to get me to go with him to one but i don't want to...just not my thing. but i've told him over and over again he can go all he wants because i trust him and know he's coming home to me. it just doesnt bother me much.

sure as long as he told me and i didn't find out then i would be pissed.

he can go as long as i dont have to.

OHHHH HELLL. I wouldn't let my boyfriend go to the stripclub.
It's like, whats the point of going?
"boy you got your goodies right here !"

If he's honest with me about it, I wouldn't mind.

hmm.......i would never let him go into a stripclub if i heard u did i would kill him i mean every guy that goes in one has to be maul by girls or sumthing so i would not if i were u

I would be upset if my boyfriend went to a strip club.
Even if nothing happened or whatever,
I really don't want him looking at other girls like that.

I don't know, that's just me tho.

Since my buddy Stephen Jackson goes to stripclubs, then stripclubs are good.

...except if you get run over by a car

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Right. A "classy" stripclub. There are nice ones, there are expensive ones, but ... I don't think "classy" is a great word for it.

My friends are taking me to a male stripclub when I turn 18. I'm mucho excited.

I don't think my girlfriend would approve of me going ot a strip club... I guess I wouldn't really like it if she went to one either... Seriously though, what's the piont of a strip club. I always thought it was jsut a place where you could go, shell out some bills, and watch these naked chicks dance around so you can get a stiffy.

If I was a girl, I don't think that I would want my boyfriend paying money to get turned on by other girls... I guess I would feel like I wasn't good enough.

He would be dead.

Yup.

stripclubs are gross :]

haha, don't let your significant other get all cought up in anybody but you.

i got to strip clubs with my boyfriend all the time

its kinda funny

i would actually like to see what it's like at a stripclub.

Mine goes to strip clubs with his friends all the time. I don't really mind actually. I know it's all just good fun.