there was a convo that went like this for me the other day ( kinda long but i need help. )

-0N MSN-
chatting with this girl who is his best girlfriend and my pretty close buddy AND my crush

him- junior [ best friends with her. (pretty much) grew up together ]
her- junior ^
me- sophomore [ has a crush on "him" for almost a year ]

her: hey! i want to see a pic of your bf
me: sure *puts it as dp*
him: who's that
me: ...who's what?
me: girl convo OMG! what shd i say?!
her: it's up to you.
him: the guy. that was in your picture.
me: uh..it's __name here__
him: and that's supposed to be...
me: DOOD! what shud i do
her: wow he sounds liek a dad.. brb
me: *stalls time* since when do you care about me so much
him: ..no..O M G. NO...wtf..
me: rofl. ohkay! chill! *prays for help*
him: so..who is that?
me: he's my bf.
her: *comes back* what did you tell him?
me: *copies and pastes convo with "him"* i told him thadd's my bf
her: good job =] btw, i think he means yes..there were too much no's..he's denying it..
me: LOL. you think..
him: oic
me: ..yeah..
him: so are you guys still together
me: prays: stop asking so much question!!
her: whoa. he's so protective..
me: yeah...
him: ..ic.. anywa ysi g2g do hw know tt yl
him: offline
me: to girl uh..he blocked me
her: huh?! he never blocks ppl!
me: well..he's offline..
her: yay you can be first
me: = =


the next day when i saw him. he C0MPLETELY ignored me. like i said hi and wave and he just raised his eyebrows and pushed past me..

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then after we made up

him: you going to frolic*?
me: i guess
him: you got a date?
me: nope
him: ic


*winter formal

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to clear up some stuff-

the thing is, my bf is all the way in indiana..and i'm in taiwan. my friends have me asking me who i'd pick and they keep telling me long distances don't last..and i pretty much agree to it..

i had a crush on "him" before i decided that i'd just go out with "bf" since i thought i'd never be with "him" stupid, yes i know.

well, now i'm trying to see what he's hinting. BUT i don't wanna run around assuming stuff..

so...you have a boyfriend and you have a crush on this guy...

hmm and you want to know if you can bag your crush as well, isn't that just fantastic?

I think I get it? The person you put up in your display picture.. was a random guy that you said was your boyfriend to see how "him" would react? Maybe? Idk I'd talk to the guy and tell him how you feel. I think he wants to ask you to the Winter Formal.

that was just about the most confusing conversations i've read in awhile..lols...but i guess i get it...why are you worried about this guy if you have a boyfriend anyways? shouldnt you be focussing on your boyfriend? err...unless...you're just....iunno how to put it...haha iunno...i dont understand! help me understand!

I don't think I understood any of that.

i am so confused. was that about and why would it make you so mad...?

so you have a boyfriend but you have a crush on the guy you probably can have?

not cool...

i know it's not cool..

to clear up some stuff-

the "bf" is well, boyfriend, but long distances. my friends have me asking me who i'd pick and they keep telling me long distances don't last..and i pretty much agree to it.. i knew him in the summer and now he's moved from cali to indiana.

i had a crush on "him" before i decided that i'd just go out with "bf" since i thought i'd never be with "him" stupid, yes i know.

well, now i'm trying to see what he's hinting. BUT i don't wanna run around assuming stuff..

waitwait. roxanne are you saying that you have a long-d boyfriend AND a crush?

um..you already have a bf.
if you don't think it's going to last then why not break it off? i mean you obviously don't really have feelings for him do you?
as for your crush, he probably does like you, but when he found out that you had a bf maybe he thought he should back off a little since you're already taken.

^ the things is, she goes to the same school as i do. and in our school, guys will ask the "are you going with anyone" question, and even if the girl says no, the guy won't still ask the girl to the dance.

anyhow,
i think you should think over this carefully. which one truly means more to you.

oooh.. thats deep yanlin ; P

lols yes!! i think i get it now..lols thanks thanks...anyways...since its a long distance relationship, you need to decide whether or not you want your relationship to last. if you want it to last and you put effort into that relationship than it'll last. lols. but if you're just willing to give up on it, then just let it go. but "him" just ask him why he's being so iunno...rude? and not talking to you at all? hahaha...blehh it kind of sounds like he likes you though. so whyyy not ask him or whatever?

right.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)-------

lying will never work.. are you lying? it will just turn him off. i`ve tried. ;]

no i'm not lying ^

&& thank you quyen : )