Okay..hopefully this topic will be rated pg-13..there have been an awful lot of topics about sex or "love making" so yeah...but ne waise..i was wondering if you guys think that having sex in a relationship changes anything in it?? i know yeah..it changes because you made a connection with them blah blah blah..but i mean..well..i think it changed mine and my boyyfriends relationship drastically..it seems to be almost the onliee thing he thinks about now and i however dont realli want to have sex anymore. i mean..he is ok about it and said if im not comfortable then we wont..but yeah..okay..well sorrie guys..my question.... *do you think sex changes the relationship in any way*.....

YEs....Sex changes things...Mainly because now that a guy has had sex...he'll want to do it all the time.

That plus both the guy and girl think they've reached some higher sense of maturity now that they've had sex. Also I think that in most cases it brings some sort of new meaning to the relationship, so overall the relationship should get stronger. I haven't experienced this first-hand so I'm not 100% sure about all of this. But I am pretty sure that in the majority of relationships, things change for the better.

To quote the line from the movie Boys and Girls "Sex Changes everything"...NUff Said

Yes it does... maybe one of you will start wanting it more or something.... or maybe it'll change into a relationship based on sex=\

i havnt had sex yet... but i know it will change your relationship. sumtimes good and bad... but trust will difently change! and how u look at each other... sum guys would wanna move on... they finish their mission.. time to move on.. so it gets pretty confusing!

i always believed in sex after marriage unless i really trust that guy.. i think it does change in a relationship, the bond u two hold are definitely stronger

I think sex changes a relationship alot, because once you go on to having sex, then thats all you do, you cant go back... to just like holding hands...its changes everything, I dont know...

i dont think after u have sex with the person u love..it would be all u do...or all u think about...however it does change u a lot because u are basically sharing urself to another person...and also..i think its hard to find a person who u really love therefore why not get as close as u can with that person...and also...if u were comfortable enough to have sex with that person..u shouldnt feel unconfortable to tell them that u dont want to have sex anymore

having sex with a person definaltely changes the relationship. its like a stepping block, something that u build up too, a pinnicale of sorts. if you reach that pinnicale before the time is right then you have no where else to really go to. im not saying that the relationship cant grow but having sex for the first time in a relationship is something that changes the landscape of things.
also they may expect because youve given it already and theres nothing holding u back anymore( like waiting for marriage etc.) i think its like a drug once youve had it you want more

thats not true..because it happened to me..i mean..we didnt go back to onliee holding hands..we still do everything we've always done except without having sex and both of us are very okay with it..he respects me and i respect him..i guess it all depends on how much you guys respect each other...

sex does change a relationship whether u do it or not. for me i am still a virgin and not having sex affected my relationship with my b.f. he was awesome in the beginning cuz he was patient and never pushed the subject. but after 6 months i guess he got restless cuz he ended up cheating on me. sex is a big part of a relationship; it can make or break it.

jackie