About a year ago, around November, my cousin Liz sort of hooked me up with this guy named Jorge, he was a real cool friend of hers or whatever. So I meet him at a party..We exchange numbers and start talking from time to time.

Well one day, my cousin Rachel sleeps over my house..Shes chit chatting on aim or whatever and she talks to her ex..Jobany. That was a tiny lil fling that happened awhile back. We were hyper or whatever so I started chatting with him. I acted like we were at her house and she was busy. So I introduced myself or whatever. I was joking around with him, acting like Rachel was alone with a guy in her room, we had the house to ourselves..stuff like that..and he was takin it serious.. I thought it was adorable I guess and I stopped playin around and told the truth..Mind you, this was like at 2 in the morning.lol..I dunno what happened, we werent payin much attention to him and he signs off. I end up callin his cell phone and asked him why he signed off..lol..the poor thing was sleeping..He's like uh...its like 3 in the morning so I'm sleeping..lol..Well yeah I end up keeping his sn for myself to chat with him myself..I dunno why but I just had the impulse to do so.

Back to Jorge. We hook up, hang out and end up developing a relationship. Before Jorge, my last relationship was short and crappy so us hooking up was a break for me (it was like a year since my last relationship). Well I start growing an attachment to him and in a way.. I felt like I was falling in love with him..

Online, I end up IMing Jobany (my cuzin's ex) and we start chatting alot. About life, school..everything. He was apart of this band (Tipico-Merengue-----thats spanish music, Dominican mostly) and I remember seeing him play before and stuff. We exchange pictures or whatever. And after talkin for awhile, he begins to gain sort of an attraction towards me..lol.. And, even though I tried to put it off, I was developing one towards him too. What can I say I'm a real flirt..lol.. Every day I looked foward to talking to him because he was the most mature, sweet, smart and coolest person I have ever known..Jorge was good in his own way, but there was just something about Jobany that I couldn't explain. Eventually, Jobany asks me out, and I break the news that I am off the market and what does he say? "Well that sucks because your like the best girl I have ever met. We have so much in common.. No matter what, I'ma be here waiting for you." He wasn't giving up..what a trooper.

Well me and Jorge were going pretty good, we reached a month and a half.. Christmas was coming up so I decided to get him a present.. I buy him a stud. It was cute cause it was a joke..lol.. I bought him a tiny little heart shaped stud..so girly..lol. In the box, underneath the stud, I put a letter expressing all that I felt for him. My cuzin Rachel decided we should go ice skating for her birthday. So it was her and her boyfriend, my cousin Liz and her boyfriend and a few other people who were going. I was excited because I got the chance to spend time with Jorge. Funny how I even invited Jobany but he declined ofcourse..::akward::lol..I told Jorge the date, the time...the place we were all meeting..everything. So that day, I called him, to make sure he knew all the info but he didn't pick up the phone. I got a little worried but I wasn't stressing it. So I meet up with everything, searching for Jorge..He wasn't there. We all waited for a couple a minutes and nothing. I felt so hurt. We all go ice skating and everyone was tryin to cheer me up but seeing my cousin's with their boyfriends having a lovely time didn't help me one bit. I tumbled around, ice skating, playing with the lil box with the earrings in my pocket. Freezing cold. God I felt so alone.

I called him the next day and his excuse was "something came up". That's it. Later that night we get into this huge arguement or whatever. My cousin Liz told me that Jorge was planning to end it with me because I was moving too fast. I didn't understand. How was I moving too fast? She says that he felt he just didn't have the same amount of feelings I felt for him. I just think..how could he possibly know that? Than it hits me. Xanga. He subscribed to me there, so everything I wrote was automatically emailed to him. All of my personal thoughts and confusions..He read. I wasn't ready to admit I loved him..I wasn't even sure of it. Reading that just freaked him out and what pissed me off was that he didn't talk to me about it to really get the facts.

Crazy enough, I turned to Jobany for assurance. He was sweet. He was even angry for me. I just felt better when he talked to me..

The next day, Jorge and me talked online, again getting into an arguement..I told him off and blah blah..next thing you know he dumps me..ONLINE!!! #@$!#!!! I was so upset. I cried. It hurt. Damn when you think you know someone..That day Jobany wasn't online so I felt even worse...This was Dec.31,before New Years..What a lovely vacation..

After New Years I get this new type of attitude. Like that break up made me more of a mature person. I understood things more. In fact, it didn't hurt anymore that I was dumped. I finally see Jobany online and the first thing I tell him is that I'm single. He was confused..I explain what happen..he was angry and yet overjoyed that I was single. We arrange to meet up. Crazy. I just got dumped and already I get a new guy. I was a whole diferent person. When we meet up, I felt weird. He was different..Sooooo different from Jorge..In a good way though. He wasn't all over me like Jorge was. When he kissed me, it was sweet and I felt secure. When he held me, my heart felt warm..It was just so sweet and amazing, way beyond what I felt for Jorge. It even snowed that day.

10 Months later...Were still together!! I'm so in love. It was so meant to be. Everything that occured. Were almost a year now. The longest relationship I have ever been in. We love each other so much. I would marry him, that's how much I love him. I dunno how I would be without him.. He means the world to me. He even wrote songs about me. How cute is that? Yeah I do believe in destinies.

Long story I know..lol..

this is probably considered double posting. you probably could have added this on to your other one.

i know you are new, so just contact a mod and have them merge the topics or something.

^yep do what they saidd...

grr sorry if THIS is considering double posting because i posted on the other topic..but you know what? my computer is laggy and i'm too tired to go back...haha me heart you?

anyways....that's probably the cutest story i've ever read......but what uhh...am i supposed to ....uhh....did you just want to share your story?! well then, AWWWh how cutee!! haha...yeah..i'm being serious

how am i supposed to help when you're happy!!!!

hahaha but thats a good thing though

That's a nice story. But yeah, it could have been put into one topic. And, no offense, but what's the point of this topic? Just to tell us your story of how you and your boyfriend got together?

Aww, this is such a sweet story. One of the cute ones that eventually worked out in the end. I love the suspense when it comes to realizing that the right person for you isn't the one you're with now. It's the one who's always been there for you. Which is scary in some ways because I have male friends who are always there for me and basically two of them, they treat me so well. One of them is my best friend - we only started becoming best friends last year - that I have known ever since grade 6. Turned out he liked me near the end of last year, but I didn't give him the chance. But it just didn't feel right and the way I look at him, he will always just be a good old pal =D Whereas the other one, we hardly know each another. But since I was one of the executives of a club last year, I was one of the leaders for this conference thing where we invited grade 8 and 9's to come (last year was grade 11 for me). & I dunno. He's a really nice guy and such. & he asked me out this summer but I declined. It's really due to the fact that we hardly know each another but ever since this new school year, he has always been there for me. Staying up, putting aside his work and giving me tons of advice about my crush. Even though occasionally, he seems perverted or something. But whatever. He graduated last year. But definately I wouldn't be ending up with either of those two. Thing is, once I get to know a guy too well, like we become good friends or something, I never like them in more than just a friend way. If I first met them and only think of them as a friend, I only think of them as a friend. Whereas if I am interested in a guy, everytime, it's like, either I don't know them or only know them as a classmate. So yea. My crush was just a classmate at first, but I always thought he was one of the hotter guys and such at my school. But I didn't want to seem like a moron with chemistry last year, so I never plucked up the courage to talk to him. Even though he was in that class and his locker was like 4 lockers away. But this year, we became friends and apparently to him, "good friends" within a week. Meh. Won't go into too much detail because I'm going off topic. How in the world did I get to this?

But I really like your story. It reminds people like me that love does exist in this world. I know it does, but when I'm bummed about my so called love life, I take such a negative perspective on it, I forget that even if I like someone or whatever, it's close to love at times. Meh, I hope you get what I mean. Especially when I see those who are blinded by love. Heh. Makes me wonder if things will be for the better if I just tell my crush myself when he already knows.

I don't really mind the double thread thing. It would've been better to just have it as one, but whatever. Not going to make a huge difference in life anyway.

^thanks..and im sorry about the double thread but i dont think its such a big deal sheesh..im not new in createblog..im just never in this forum..im more in the digital art/web design forums..i wasn't aware that this particular forum was meant to ask for advice..i mean the forum is called relationships..to share about relationships and stuff..yes i wanted to share my story..love makes you do crazy things..

^ Its actually that not a big of a deal. And i dont really see why it could be considered as a double post. Yes, its a topic , continued from another but it has a different story and she needs different answers. Plus, if you say a REALLY BiG topic FULL of words, would you really read it all ? ( I wouldnt )

Wow.
I read all of that.
Anyways, that's a really sweet story. Good luck to you and him :]