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bunnybabe120
I'm really close to one of my friends. We spend almost every weekend together, but their are other people with us. I know there is lots of chemistry between us and I think my other friends are picking up on it. For example, last night a group of us went to the movies and amanda stepped aside so i could sit next to him. I never told her that I liked him though. Anyway, we are constantly talking on aim and stuff. It feels like hes avoiding the whole situation. Hes not even picking up that I like him. Or even worse he knows, ( i haven't told anyone so i dont know how he could) and just doesn't like me. What does everyone think?? Sbould
i make a move or wait for some sign from him.
Hiphop d[-_-]b
Make a move, You cant wait for him, cos what if he doesnt make a move cos hes shy or any other reason ?
jEllyBeaNs
i think you should wait for a sign from him, but only because you dont know if he likes you, soo if you make a move first he might not feel tha same way as you do. he might just only see you as just a friend. then you would fel really duMb for making the first move. so just be patient and wait to see wut he does.

maybe flirt with him a lil bit, but doNt go overboard with it, and stRaight out tell him that you like him. :]
_sarcastic_
if you think he knows, then why not make a move, no one's going to wait forever. maybe he's just shy and unsure about the whole situation.
bunnybabe120
the cotillion is coming soon. Should i invite him or just make sure I get a few dances in with him??
twistedxmindz
get a few dances with him...andd if he doesn't drop any signs of interest, move on. maybe later on in life you might get together ! lols.
mai_z
I say...after the dance...i fyou think there's even a bit of a chance....ask him! Just straight up ask him. Don't live your life in regret...wondering if you ever had a chance.
steezahh
ok sorry if this gets long.. but i have a friend right.. who over the summer we did everything imaginable together [kinda] so.. i was really digging him.. i never got any hints that he liked me.. so yeah. i tried and tried to make it kinda obvious. it never really worked. ok so the point is i would make your move. now.

because what happened to me is i never made a move because i was afraid our friendship would be jeprodized. worng choice. because i now am talking to his friend asking him what they talked about me about... [confusing?] so he was like oh he always liked you.. he just never knew you liked him. so this whole time he liked me but i didnt know it. nor did he know i digged him. now i have no chance,.. we are seperated afar.

SOO MAKE YOUR MOVE! dont make the same mistake i made!
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