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LiNHy POO
i was wondering... do u still talk to your ex-bf's? even if yall said *we'll still be friends* do yall go on your word? or u juss leave each other alone?
d3v1l1ci0us
i dunno.. i tlak to my ex alot anf even FLIRT alotto... i mean if i look back in the past it really pisses me off but he still is damn lovable =]
casssy
I still talk to my ex... all the time.. we are actually best friends now.. but we both know we cant be anything more than just friends. my boyfriend doesnt like him much.. but he said he trusts me... so thats a good thing.
Kathleen
I'll still talk to my one ex...very little, though. My other ex cheated on me, and yeah...I just had a conversation with him (it's in my Xanga), and yeah...don't talk to him much. My other ex I try to talk to, but he doesn't want to talk back. pinch.gif It's hard seeing him everyday in eighth period, too.
conster
i only talk to a few ex's lol its nto that i dont wanna talk to them, they dont wanna talk to me pssh pinch.gif
xquizit
i'm not still talking to my exes except for one. and even he didn't start talking to me til a year after we broke up. _dry.gif
bird_of_prey
yeah, i'm friends with most of my ex's. we were friends first though.
xplicitmizz23
hmmmmm.. i don't talk to my ex but once he came to my new house (i moved) and knocked on my bedroom window for 3 hours. during those same 3 hours he drove back and forth to a shopping center by my house to call my phone from a payphone over and over (can u imagine how many quarters?) cos he didn't have a cellphone at the time.. i hid under my computer desk the whole time. i had a new boyfriend at this time and he knew it too. me and him were only together for 2 months and by that time we had been broken up about 3 months.

you'd think he'd get the idea that i wasn't home or that i wouldn't let him in after the first 10 minutes. but nooooooo - it took him 3 hours to realize it wasn't no chance of me opening up that door. LMAO....

can we say.. PSYCHO??
CEP
Ofcourse I do.
That would suck if I lost a friend over a relationship.

If the bridge is broken, it doesn't mean its over, just means you need to build a stronger one. wink.gif

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
lookitskim
QUOTE(xplicitmizz23 @ May 5 2004, 12:33 AM)
hmmmmm.. i don't talk to my ex but once he came to my new house (i moved) and knocked on my bedroom window for 3 hours. during those same 3 hours he drove back and forth to a shopping center by my house to call my phone from a payphone over and over (can u imagine how many quarters?) cos he didn't have a cellphone at the time.. i hid under my computer desk the whole time. i had a new boyfriend at this time and he knew it too. me and him were only together for 2 months and by that time we had been broken up about 3 months.

you'd think he'd get the idea that i wasn't home or that i wouldn't let him in after the first 10 minutes. but nooooooo - it took him 3 hours to realize it wasn't no chance of me opening up that door. LMAO....

can we say.. PSYCHO??

Oh dang he sounds crazy... omg.. how could u hide under your desk for that long? blink.gif
hair products
the ex comes over. i don't talk to her.
f00LisH_h3aRt63
i still talk to my first two b.f's occasionally. but my recent ex i want nothing to do with. so thats a no for the third ex.

throb.gif jackie
aznjammyjam
i hate my ex, when she wants to talk to me, she always starts off by asking a favor, like 'oh! remmeber those picts of my friends you have? is there a way you can drop them off?" and then she would be like "so how've you been?" and id be like NO...

but yeah, we tried talking a few months after we broke up and i took her out to lunch, but then it seemed like i was leading her on by talking to her on the phone or going to lunch. so i tottaly ignored her after that, and every time she would call, i would say i gotta go or not even answer.

her birthday is coming soon too, i dont wanna go, but my friends were invited too she told me and stuff but i said i gotta see, cause i know she wants me to go. dont wanna diss her, but in a way, i have to cause i dont want her to think that im still into her, but its not the same anymore. feel me?
eboarder2020
OMG....I talk to my ex but its not the same...Its so freakin hard to talk to her. Not because im mad at her or anything but because what was once there, no longer isnt. My ex and I are still really good friends however I dont think she knows that my heart is still broken from the break up. In the relationship we kept the friend in girlfriend, but I lost the girl cry.gif I want my girl back sad.gif
Winter
I still talk with my ex. Most of my friends are like 'wow you guys are so mature'. But me, I know it's because we ended things on good terms. We talked and decided it was best for both of us if we split.

So we're still friends now. In fact, closer than before. Coz we've passed this phrase of awkwardness during our relationship and now that we're not a couple anymore, that's gone.
instantmusic
my ex and i are really close friends. we sit together at lunch. its messed up to just not talk to someone who use to mean the world to you. right now, im setting her up with my friend for prom. its all good happy.gif
thepastwillcome
yea i still talk to mine like everyday now for the past couple of days yea we still flirt and kiss alot but i dunno if were gonna get back together hit me up on
give some guiy advice
LQ_Darksoul
I'm scared to talk to one of my very first love.. when you love someone for so long, its so hard to just be friends with them once you're no longer together. Everytime you hear their voice, or see their face, something inside flutters and you feel like you're falling in love all over again. And thats a dangerous thing when your already with someone new.
tinababy143
a couple of us still talk and we're real good friends, but some of us didnt end on such good terms and prefer to juss let each other be..i realli wish that one of my ex's and i still talked..we were best friends since preschool..then our relationship messed it up and we ended on such horrible terms..but yeah..i dont wanna go on rambling like always LoL
AngelicEyz00
I stopped talking to my ex like a few times the last 6 months since we broke up, but I always ended up talking to him again... I guess a small part of me still loves him, and I still would like to be more than just friends if it weren't for all the stuff he's done... but a couple weeks ago, I told him to stop calling me... stop thinking about me, and to just let me move on, cuz he sure as hell already has _dry.gif heh
Mireh
Well, some of them.

One of my ex's and me are still really really reallllllllyyyy good friends...
177emories
actually yeah i still talk to my ex-bf's except for my first one, cause we were young and it was just some kinda fling... well yeah my ex-bf for over a year we're still very tight like best friends he tells me everything, he moved thats why we broke it off but its only like 30 mins drive haha we've both moved on and in relationships now, but we still talk and hang out together in groups and stuff as for the other exes we would just like say hi if we see each other.
dani41790
well umm i stio tawk to mai ex, in fact we're pretty gud frenz cuz yea we tell eachother lyke everything.
Chopstikx
i still talk 2 my x....its not like anythings changed....its really stupid how wen pplz break up..they...end up hating each other... ermm.gif
allen
I haven't really talked to my ex in a while, but that's only because we don't really have any classes together, and we chillax in different crowds. :) And with my other ex, we're still pretty close? I guess? Nothing's really changed. It's always good when you still remain good friends with your ex-loves. ^^
mglbaby
yea some of them but i find it sorta hard to talk to some of them...
mznina
i stay away from them..far away as possible!
tkeo
nope.. havent talked to my ex in half a year, at least not physically, only online
rivendell
I normally talk all the time with one of my exes. He was my first boyfriend way back in the day, and we've been super close ever since. I haven't talked to him in awhile though.

A few weeks back when I was sick, he called me everyday from his Army post in South Korea. It was like he KNEW I wasn't feeling well. It was really sweet, but I think he got in major trouble for it with his commanding officers... whistling.gif
franceass
I don't really have any ex's ... well unless I count that one "so-called" boyfriend I had that lasted for 1 week in middle school .... ha! I don't really count that one because all we did was talk on the phone. We were more like friends than girlfriend/boyfriend .... If I counted that ... then my answer would be "No, I do not still talk to my ex" ...
triipinfserious
yeha i talk to all of them A LOT ... `nd yeah we are still good with eachother
waynezworld
; never talk.. everytime i try, she walks away.. cry.gif
i hope she gives me a chance
silver-rain
QUOTE(waynezworld @ May 10 2004, 5:59 PM)
; never talk.. everytime i try, she walks away.. cry.gif
i hope she gives me a chance

Aw, I used to do that- sorta. There was this guy that liked me, but i didn't like him so i would ignore him. i guess that's happening to me now- since my boyfriend andi brok up last week, he's been ignoring me.
sweetlyz
i haven`t talked to him for a pretty long time
draznnoyou
yea all the time but i wish she wasn't my ex but my gf haha
darkcoldplace
QUOTE(AngelicEyz00 @ May 5 2004, 4:09 PM)
I stopped talking to my ex like a few times the last 6 months since we broke up, but I always ended up talking to him again... I guess a small part of me still loves him, and I still would like to be more than just friends if it weren't for all the stuff he's done... but a couple weeks ago, I told him to stop calling me... stop thinking about me, and to just let me move on, cuz he sure as hell already has _dry.gif heh

same here elba...but i have to talk to her just have to.....i still like her, but i dont wanna go out with her anymore shes calls me all the time but anyways yes i do talk to ym ex(es) huh.gif
XxKrNqTcUiTyxX
actually meeh and mai ex are rilli close happy.gif he makes a better friend then a bf
DoOdOox3
it sucks. i havnt talk to my ex in like CENTURIES. o wellz. hez graduating soon. =]
but it really sucks. itz like.. you see him. you smile and say hi. and he would giv you this SORE face. it really sucks.
cuz whenever you c him.. you would think.. that hez mad at you for breaking up. i mean.. no one would be HAPPY about it rah? and when he sees you.. he would think like you dont wanta c him or something.. itz juss a huge confusion. and it sux. cuz i just dont bother to even talk about it with him.
o wellz..
FinaL_dr3amS
nope nope havnt talked to mah ex nope nope! he has asked for me at first from mah friends but i was like hecks no am i gonna go talk to you so then it will make it seem in front of ur friends "oh look she wants me " so i was like im staying away from you.....FAR AWAY. i dun talk to him its kinda sad since i like him like a TINY bit but everythin is almost gone. we could have been friends but unfortunatly hes a dumb one who only listens to his friends.i swear he would be a tite friend but a crummy bf. stubborn.gif
krnxswat
Yeah. Actually, I still talk to all of my exes. Haha. biggrin.gif
gasolinekisses
me too. in fact, i don't think that there are too many people i've dated that i'm not 100% cool with now. well, there's one, but he's a psycho and i'm not going there. the rest of them are just cool guys, and we're still friends. some are my best friends. aww i love my exes.
illuminessence
cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif
DoOdOox3
QUOTE(illuminessence @ May 24 2004, 9:55 PM)
cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif cry.gif

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww...........
barbie
not in civil conversation
x0xcrzybabyx0x
i talk to all my old old ones with out a problem but the one that i just broke up with is just "RARR" we cant have a conversation without fighting.. or without him bragging about his new girlfriend... its just not very nice lol..
x_fatal_rose_x
Yeah he talks to me a lot...but I sort of don't want him to and I'm confused lol.
angel-roh
lets see my first ex- we dont talk
my 2nd ex- never.. i hate him! never wana see him in my life.
my 3rd ex-we see each other at church and we sometimes say hi..we're friends right now..heh
my 4th ex-... huk that loser? omg.. im so sick of him
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WildGriffin
I try to talk to my ex, not in like a close way just a "buddy buddy" kinda way; but she's too big a bitch for that.

Poop. _dry.gif

and whenever we do talk, she always mentions some guy she's after. I'm thinking "wtf, at least i have the decency not to try to make you jealous". Ugh. It was a stupid relationship though.

...

Life stinks.
psychoticangel
nope, don't talk to mai ex no more. I'd really want to talk to him and be friends but he's just too stubborn. mad.gif said if he acted like we were "friends" he'd be lying to himself. so yah, he practically hates me. even when I should hate him for cheating on me o.o;; anyway, yah thats it o.o;;
june_
i still talk with 2 of my ex's but one of my ex's i havent talk to them since the we broke up.. i dont know what happened o_O
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