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Paul M. is baaack
I honestly think he would beat me.
x3sushi
eh. parents would probably break down and cry.
Girthy
"Yeah right, I see all those Maxim magazines you hide."
AngryBaby
My dad would slap the gay outta me
mighty megan
if i told him i was lesbian or bi he would
  1. wouldnt belive me or wouldnt want to
  2. say GTFO and disown me.. probally put my family against me
  3. and if he is drunk lets just say id be in the hospital for at least a week cry.gif
    my dads a BIG guy (bench press 400 lbs easy works out everyday for hours kinda guy) blink.gif
this is one of the things i constantly stress over soo these things are all throuly thought out for my situation
and also the fact that one day my sister was talking about one of her gay friends in the car my dad turned to us in his seat and said
QUOTE
IF ANY OF YOU TO EVERY THINK ABOUT GOING LIKE THAT AND I FIND OUT I WILL BEAT YOU STRAIT and..... ect

i blocked the rest out cause i was trying not to cry just from that cause of what was going on in my life at the moment cry.gif
sw33t_rouge
He would probably slap me first then start swearing..yelling.. and say how much i dissapointed him...if i was a guy (:
This Confession
well im not gay or anything
but i do have a brother
and my dad said if he ever turned gay
he was going to blame it on me mellow.gif
iROCKYOURSOCKS
i think my dad would care because im the only girl my mom would be another story she would be hecka mad and cuss me out or something then say shes sorry and yea.....
AnnahhbeL
If I was a guy, and I was gay, my dad would kill me.
nevernothere
My dad would probably disown me. No joke. Heck I wouldn't blame him.
magicfann
damn i thought i was the only one who'd get the sh*t kicked outta me lol
nibsery
my dadand mum would both kill me

and they would never talk to me again and when i say kill

i mean physical kill
Uronacid
i get mad at my dad and call him gay sometimes... then we laugh about it for a while, but then i stop laughing and he still contines to laugh... this really freaks me out... i think i would kill my dad if he wold me he was gay
timeflies51
My dad would probably be all like, "You're too young! How could you know at this age?" because he's said stuff like that before about other people my age who have come out. He'd probably deny it at first, but he would most likely eventually get over it...

I'd probably be all like, "Okay, so that means I'm still too young to know I'm straight." -_-'

My mom would probably be surprised at first, but she's much more likely to get over it faster.

(EDIT)

Ugh, the other day, my dad informed me that he thinks bisexuals are liars. Great, this is going to be fun...

I think it would be interesting to see his reaction when he finds out about his own daughter. But I don't think that's going to be happening any time soon... ermm.gif
Mini
i would never tell my dad...im scared to.

he would never understand and would probably castrate me. =\

so none of the above. =]
WolFii
he'd think im just joking around then prob avoid me for a while =D
janitorcameron
My dad would be mad; but on another note [which is off topic].

I don't understand why people are so homophobic; if their not touching you? Why say "I don't like them" or "I hate them". It's ignorant. Don't say things until you've experienced, if a loved one was gay, you would not 'hate them'.
Paradox of Life
QUOTE
if a loved one went gay,


... No one "goes" gay. If a loved one "was" gay, you would not "hate them". Just clarifying that. Being gay is not a choice. Like being straight is not a choice. They feel the same way of the opposite sex as straight people of the same sex. It's how you're born.
n00b
kill me
janitorcameron
QUOTE(Paradox of Life @ Jun 25 2006, 11:07 PM) *
... No one "goes" gay. If a loved one "was" gay, you would not "hate them". Just clarifying that. Being gay is not a choice. Like being straight is not a choice. They feel the same way of the opposite sex as straight people of the same sex. It's how you're born.


Thank you for correcting me.
ECD & C0
*head gets chopped off*
Weird addiction
My dad'll send me out of the house. He did that to my step brother.
clarity
QUOTE(verlorenrivets @ Nov 16 2005, 1:43 PM) *
My dad would probably look at me in the eyes and say, "Get the f**k out of my house."

Then a week or two later when he had calmed down he would tell me that it was okay for me to come back as long as I didn't bring any boyfriends home.


aww thats cruel.
aubbob
um he wouldn't care i don't think..
because i wouldnt be able to get pregnant from a chick.
Aerjae
Well, we always mess around when we do dumb stuff we tell each other 'that's gay' or 'your gay' but it's only just messing around. Not seriously.
broken inside
I'm not a guy, but I'm not straight- so i'll answer.

I haven't come out, ym parents won't shout at me but they'll probably be in denial silently.
Selv
Nothing because he wouldve fainted before i finished my sentence laugh.gif
me1issaaaa
Sometimes I think he would accept me if I was, but at the same time, I think he would ignore it as much as he possibly could. He wouldn't be proud of me, but he wouldn't throw me out of the house or anything.
colleen92
my dad's really Catholic. so he would absolutely HATE it if i was. but he wouldn't disown me. and my mom would probably have to get used to it but she would eventually accept it. wow. i never thought about this.
actorderick
i'm not sure how my dad would act. but my mom would be sad, but then accept me.

but she would probaly send me to some correction center :(
Psychotic
If I was a guy && I was gay, I'd probably be shot. Lol.
arielrel
Being Lesbian's like being gay right? well anywho here's my 3 cents
i havent come out to my dad yet, but he always supports my decions and we talk ALOT we're REALLY CLOSE (plus i know he knows he's jsut waiting for me to admit it to him XD.gif i ahven't been the best in the closet chick )
My mom on the other hand,
IS TOTALLY GONNA FREAK!
she told me once
"Aryle don't be a lesbian becasue, then i wouldn't be able to look at you."
So my dad will keep me around but my mom will hate me,
lifes so complicated thumbsup.gif
phoenixpyre
I did it for fun yesterday and now i think he really thinks i am ><

lmao oh well
oXMuhNirvanaXo
He would kill me. :-?
satch
I am going to answer this as if my son came up and told me.....

and I am going to be honest as I can without having it really told me by him here is how I hope I would handle it...

I would be a little upset, and then I would talk to him and ask him how long he felt that way. Then ask him if he was sure? then to be real honest I think I would take time to let it soak in and hope that I would just accept it and treat him the same as I always have.
Nymphetamine
My mother would KILL me. She'll send me to a 'gay remover' place. Seriously, she'll . . . I don't want to think about it. pinch.gif
doork
I dont know.. but I wouldnt care what he thinks..
goodcharlotte
He probably would think that I was kidding. mellow.gif

But then he would get it and not talk about it and avoid it. No questions asled.
xXYouMeBedNowXx
He doesn't believe me.
It's old news people, don't look so surprised.
.3ddy.
mayb i should tell him.. then if he reacts ill tell him he just got PUNKED lol ,, im not gay tho
miss alyssa x3
yah if i was a guy and i told my dad..idk i think he wouldnt care...
yrrnotelekktric
haha, i asked my dad once
"dad if i were lesbian would you love me?"
his simlple reply was
"no."
but im not gay so, shrug.gif
Cyrano
My dad would probably be okay with it. I'm bisexual my self, and he may already know. He probably wouldn't care at all. My strict republican, christian grandparents would disown me though. O_O

My mom, also wouldn't care.

I have open minded parents. Thank God for that.
Mistress Bags
QUOTE(yrrnotelekktric @ Aug 31 2006, 7:19 PM) *
haha, i asked my dad once
"dad if i were lesbian would you love me?"
his simlple reply was
"no."
but im not gay so, shrug.gif

That's TERRIBLE!
ennio110
well i wouldent need to tell him cos im not but he prolly wudnt care
RiC3xBoy
"....so...does your butt hurt?"
Funkadelic Kiss
If my brother told my dad he was gay. My dad beat the shit outta him then let him die in an ghetto alleyway. I swear to God laugh.gif. He's not gay so I guess that won't happen. If I told my dad that I was a lesbien, he would probably do that same thing. My dad isn't religious or any or that crap but that's why I suppose he would. Or he would just think we were joking & just walk away.
Trinie
if i was a guy. i dont think my dad would care. my parents aer very open minded which i love so much. :)
Retrogressive
QUOTE(ZapatoDelFuego @ Aug 19 2006, 11:37 PM) *
I did it for fun yesterday and now i think he really thinks i am ><

lmao oh well


I miss you. cry.gif
expoised
Hm. My parents would probably freak out for a week, then try to seek out counseling.

They think homosexuality is a disease or something.
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