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jEllyBeaNs
well i kno im not a guy, but on movies and stuff, when a guy tells his dad, that he is gay, the Dad gets very upset and starts doin the usual...cussing, screaming, and usually disowning their son. i kno thats not wut would happen for all guys, but what would ur dad do if you told him u wur gay? (even tho ur not gay, just reply to wut ur dad might do, if u told him, and u wur jokIng.)
heyyfrankie
he wouldn't care....
Hiphop d[-_-]b
My dad probably wouldnt accept me. [ If i was a man .. ]
steezahh
they would be like ehh w/e.. then get pissed or something. i have no clu why.. but it might be cause we are catholic.. yeah as ^ she said. if i was a guy. lol
aera
they'd probably deny it.
Relentless
In my opinion, I think my dad wouldn't care even though I hardly knew him. (x He died when I was 3 years old.
MeLoNiSyUmMy
hed probably look at me weird. yah, idk. haha.
verlorenrivets
My dad would probably look at me in the eyes and say, "Get the f**k out of my house."

Then a week or two later when he had calmed down he would tell me that it was okay for me to come back as long as I didn't bring any boyfriends home.
PrideOfAzia
well personally -.- my dads never been there for me.....so even if i was..he has no right to tell me anything O_o
Jeng
ha if i was a guy, my dad would probably start asking me questions and all that and be like your gay, gtfo. but im not so i dont have to worry.
Teesa
If it were my dad, he would be like uhm what?? and ask a million questions.
OneOfTheseDayz
my dads dead so this dosnt count but if he were still alive he wouldnt say too much.....
Eryi
"YOU'RE NOT MY SON" stubborn.gif

Yeah.. rolleyes.gif
RiC3xBoy
"Your Gay?? Yea right, I know the Maxim magazines you borrow from your friends."
PiGo
My dad wouldn't care at all.
He already has a gay son whom he loves the same, and he had a gay brother.
Mr. Slowjamz
well my family runs in senstivity escpecially my dad first and foremost. i would have too say if said that . it would destroy him internally yet .in the outside he would joke about it or act like a guy get pissed . but i have no clue .
Retrogressive
"Dad, I'm Gay."

"Who is this?"

...yeah _unsure.gif
lKVNiiKINKYl
I wouldn't be right here right now if he knew...
DrEaMgUy2K1
he wouldnt believe me. hes caught me with girls too many times
coconutter
I don't know. He would accept me as his child, but I don't know if he's exactly like it.
Mulder
if i was a guy, and gay, i dont know if my dad would accept me. i think he'd be disappointed, but honestly, i dont give a crap what my dad thinks.
5ayuri
If I was a gay guy, he would get so mad..probably not accept it.
If I told him I was lesbian I don't know what he would do..
ParanoidAndroid
QUOTE(Retrogressive @ Nov 18 2005, 2:27 PM)
"Dad, I'm Gay."

"Who is this?"

...yeah _unsure.gif
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awww, dad's are just close-minded mad.gif
SyKoKiNeSiS
My family is pretty much open minded and wouldn't disown me.
Retrogressive
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 19 2005, 11:47 PM)
awww, dad's are just close-minded mad.gif
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No... I haven't seen my dad in like 3 years. _dry.gif
racoons > you
i dont think he'd care... my dad can be ticky to predict, though
xFaith
idk, i dont know my biological father (sperm donor)
Muzik_World
Hed Probly Wonder Y, & Thats Probly All But Idn
EddieV
I would be cut from the family, although he knows I'm not gay, because I'm always with girls.
Statistik
If frankie told his dad he was gay, he would prolly f**k him up badly lol
Ington
If Jason told his dad he was gay, he wouldn't mind. His dad is too busy trying to convince Jason that he's a little asian kid.

He was bashing, so hey.
Paradox of Life
^ LMAO.

Jason, get a life. laugh.gif
jEllyBeaNs
QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Dec 18 2005, 6:52 PM)
If Jason told his dad he was gay, he wouldn't mind. His dad is too busy trying to convince Jason that he's a little asian kid.

He was bashing, so hey.
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Ooh dang....i give you props. on that one. hahaha laugh.gif
that was good.
swishersweet
well im not gay so i wouldnt know and i wouldnt want to know........
viclau
ha.. he won't say a word. i think he's gay too.
cLinT_wEStw0oD
I dunno....I assume he'd be like WHAT?!??!?!...then continue on to being very pissed off, even though I don't think he'd hit me. He never did.
WHOngos144
He'd kill me whistling.gif
DisneyPrincessKate
my dad would be pretty shaken, but i know he would do his best not to appear to be and accept me as i was no matter what.
ayu_ku_fan
I'm not sure. My dad doesn't like gay guys but if it was me he might not mind. That is after he beat me black and blue
anubis
my dad would tell me that it's okay and that he'll accept me for who i am but deep down inside he'll be filled with mixed emotins of disappointment and anger.
HybridCountdown5
QUOTE(aera @ Nov 15 2005, 10:39 PM)
they'd probably deny it.
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haha how would he deny it? be like, no you're not, thats crazy, you're crazy...
littleswallow
I think they would ignore for a very long time...
katten
well i doint really know what to vote for. i live in sweden and my dad lives in thailand and thats very very faar sad.gif
alextravis08
QUOTE(jEllyBeaNs @ Nov 15 2005, 8:06 PM)
well i kno im not a guy, but on movies and stuff, when a guy tells his dad, that he is gay, the Dad gets very upset and starts doin the usual...cussing, screaming, and usually disowning their son. i kno thats not wut would happen for all guys, but what would ur dad do if you told him u wur gay? (even tho ur not gay, just reply to wut ur dad might do, if u told him, and u wur jokIng.)
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OMG! That so didnt happen when I told my dad I was gay. He just said that it didnt matter because I was still his son. I was all like "That awesome!"
vash1530
my mom used to think i was gay......off-topic....anyways my dad wud prolly feel like he lost a son if i told him that.
KrunkMuzik
^^^ Same.
ikn0wurm0m
I wouldnt be accepted because my dad always makes comments about them lyke "fagget" and "never turn queer son" and im lyke..wtf?
datass
honestly, what he say wouldnt make a difference. as long as my mom doesnt get pissed.
Gerifan04
Well my dad killed himself when I was 1 so I don't have any idea how he'd react if I told him. My mom took it okay, kind of. She cried when I told her at first. I cried too, but just because of all that built of anxiety and well jeez, its just a hard thing to say. At least for me it was. I think she cried cause its just weird. I mean, she really had no idea. I mean now looking back I think she sees instances which hinted but she just never really thought much on those things at the time. So for her the son she thought she knew so well and was so close too wasn't at all like that. I mean I'm the same person. But for a while she didn't see it that way I think. She's very supportive of me and constantly tells me she doesn't care but I think deep down she does. For a while she tried to play it as maybe just a "phase". Now she accepts it and is pretty cool with it. Although I can't make comments like I could if it was a girl. She plays it down but I can tell it bugs her if I'm to say a guy is cute. So I just don't do it.
corizzle20
that sucks. a guy who is gay cannot help it. im not gay, and i dont like gays, but it is still messed up.
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