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tinababy143
How long did it take you and your honey to say "i love you" to each other?? It was kinda weird for my boyyfriend and i..we said it after 3 months maybe..but we made it clear to each other that we loved each other..but we werent shure that we were IN LOVE with each other..i personally think they are two very different things..
AngelicEyz00
It took me and my ex about 3-4 weeks?? heh, we didn't mean it I guess. i know I didn't really mean it till about 2 months or so into the relationship
jimmyjackiechan
QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ May 2 2004, 10:29 PM)
but we werent shure that we were IN LOVE with each other..i personally think they are two very different things..

Yea, two different things

that's why i spell "luv" and "LOVE"

True love is different from love..

Real loveis different from love

i dunno, tons of people havemore defined definitions these days~
rivendell
I try not to throw the word 'love' around early on in a relationship. I tend to use 'wuv' instead, because 'love' is such a strong word, and it carries alot of meaning and feelings along with it.

Besides, 'wuv' just sounds more cute to me. happy.gif
sweet_sour
That is the kinda thing that takes a while. Dont rush that
xquizit
Well, me and my boyfriend started off as really close friends, so we already "loved" each other when we got together.
LiNHy POO
we started saying it about a month into it... but we didnt really meant it... it juss meant that we cared for each other.. to this day its the smae as it always been... i wish we could say *i care you* but that wouldnt make since huh? laugh.gif
iheartsimba
This guys said it to me the FIRST DAY. Yes, the "L" word....I got kinda....i dunno...it was weird.....and I broke up with him....kinda dumb reasonI guess =/
x_perplexity
i loved my boyfriend. i just wasn't in love with him. so i never said it. =/
pbear
I've said "I love you" to only one person before. We've known each other for awhile, but we remain just friends, for fear of souring a good relationship.
Kathleen
Bleh...it took my ex a month, but I know he didn't mean it, seeing as he cheated on me. _dry.gif I thought he meant it, too...wow...I'm pathetic.
Note
heck when i first met my gf, it took me like 3 days to get togeter and 2 weeks to say 3 f-ing words.
linbee47
We said I love you, meaning we love each other as a person, but we weren't IN love.
Winter
He said it on the second day. We knew each other for quite a while before that so yeah... I didn't meant it at first but after a month, I really did mean it. We were in love.

Now, we still love each other but we're not together anymore. Can you be in love but not be a couple? Iono...
conster
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Now, we still love each other but we're not together anymore. Can you be in love but not be a couple? Iono...


yeah u can, love each other for who they are happy.gif as a friend, brother, sister and so on lol

took my bf about 2months lol and i never said i love you to him in person in a way that i really meant it, i do love him but its so hard to say it _unsure.gif
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
hmmm..it took about a year or so .. we were best friends before we started going out .. <3 .. but when we finally said it to each other and knew that we meant it it felt so0o0 go0d *smiles =]
d3v1l1ci0us
awww alll these replies and stories r so kyoot and swt! well me? i always say i love you or love ya when someone signs off on aim and its a guy and stuff, its like a guy helps me with my hw and im thankful so i say i love you thanx, sorry im getting off the topic, but if i hook up, i say it rite away pinch.gif tongue.gif
casssy
hmmm i think like 2 weeks.. but we talked alotttt before. and i really knew i loved him even before he asked me to go out with him... wub.gif
xplicitmizz23
my boyfriend said he loved me the same day he asked me out just before we got off the phone. i thought it was REEEEEALLY weird. i said it back but i didn't mean it til maybe a month into our relationship. i doubt he meant it.. but maybe he did.. in that other way.. u know. that he cares about me and stuff.
Winter
QUOTE(conster @ May 5 2004, 6:51 AM)
yeah u can, love each other for who they are happy.gif as a friend, brother, sister and so on lol

No, not that way. I meant still love each other as... well BF and GF. Bah so complicated for me.
LQ_Darksoul
I knew i was in love with her after 2 weeks. I haven't told her i loved her yet :-D Its comming close to the three month period tho >.<
dukesoccer07
I dont really agree with the whole "I love you" when dating... cuase the next week you can break up with them and it would be stupid to say
sailormei
Hmm...well... We've been together for almost a year, but I don't get to see him everyday...we keep in touch by phone and IM... sooo...we usually say that online when we say our "goodnight"s....

But the first time we actually said it was on the phone...mm...last month I think. Didn't wanna rush anything. happy.gif
waynezworld
well we started off as reallyyyyyy good friends.. took about a few weeks
but then we decided that we're better as friends.. happy.gif
Sa-Chan
My boyfriend was in love with me before we started going out...We've known eachother a year and one month, and been together for nearly three months...
dani41790
well it took meeh n mai bf lyke a month and a half but i said it first. wen i did sae it, i realli did mean it, but im not sure if mai bf realli means it though. i hope he does.
franceass
I think it took us like 1 month until we said "I love you" to each other .... rolleyes.gif .... hearing those 3 words from him for the very first time felt soooo good because I knew that he really meant it happy.gif
sweetlyz
QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ May 2 2004, 8:29 PM)
How long did it take you and your honey to say "i love you" to each other?? It was kinda weird for my boyyfriend and i..we said it after 3 months maybe..but we made it clear to each other that we loved each other..but we werent shure that we were IN LOVE with each other..i personally think they are two very different things..

i agree there is a difference between loving someone and being iN LOVE with someone. it tOok, i think, 4 months for my bf and i to finally say "i love you" to each other .. but just like you, we always made it clear that we had those kind of feelings for each other.
NostalgicRockChick
I'm sorry, but i don't personally believe teenagers are capeable of being "in love". Teens might like someone an awful lot, but love? No, i don't think so, because usually teenage relationships don't last very long. My definition of love is it's something that is shared between two people forever that is undying, and teens always tell their significant other that "i'll love you forever" but they wind up breaking up in a matter of months. Sorry for being a little pessimistic lol.
shawty_redd
i have only said i love u to one guy and he never said anything cry.gif _dry.gif o well.. tongue.gif
babytseng
my boyfriend told me he loved me two months after we started dating.. now we tell each other every day ;)
asdf
well..we were 'together' for ..little less than a yr. before he told mee wub.gif
br0kenheaRtsz
my baby told me he loved me even before we went out.. <33
FinaL_dr3amS
i have only said i love you to one guy my whole life...and really meant it and we never went out thats the wierd part but it was because my best friend liked him and i couldnt do that to her he loved me to and told me after 4 months of liking each other than he would remind me every other day how much he did for like 6 months? then he wen out wid someone like rite now......and thats when i went out wid someone to but im so mad i mean its like i cant say "i love you" to another guy if im not thinkin of him..so i never did say any thing like sweet to my ex because i thought he was cute but i guess i didnt like him and i still had the other one in my mind and he still cares for me and "trys" to make me jealous wid his gf revenge i guess for going out wid my ex but he will always have a place in mah heart and he promised me the same thing =)
177emories
my first love... ex now... over a year... we said those 3 words after 3 months, after we were sure that we loved each other...

current bf, we said it like... 3 wekes later? we knew we loved each other, we clicked just like THAT.
swteznitemarez
_dry.gif no one ever sed that to me before... except my family members.
but for my friends, they all sey it after a few days. i don't ever think hey know the meaning of love. i mean, for example, wtih my friends, it's not called a first kiss for them, it's called a make-out session. c what i'm implying here? my frends r whores, kekeke.

anyway, i think maybe ppl should sey it after a few months of being with that person.
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