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eelyajekim
i have this girl at work, and damn she is great, me and her talk all the time, but i don't see her cause she only works seasonal
on the other hand i have this girl i have known since like whoa, i took her to all my dances, and people ask are you and her going out.
argh!!!!! i don't know what to do
aznhybriddragon
crossroads eh? lolz just go straight, easy way out, or go out with both lolz, wats the possibility they will find out, lolz JK, thats a bad idea, I got caught doing that whistling.gif , well i think u should go with #2 grl, or the grl u know more, or find a new person and forget the others.
crazeegirl411
Or, you could go with neither shrug.gif
jeppu
whats wrong with girl two. she's good enough for all the dances.. mellow.gif
eelyajekim
blah, i amma afraid to ask her dude!!!!!
and girl # 1, awww man, ever since i first saw her, ish like dude, i want you now.
but girl # 2 is just like a dream
crazeegirl411
But yeah...who do you really like, man. Girl 1?
eelyajekim
SEE i try to follow my heart, but ish a split decision, i don't know who to go to. who think it is girl # 2
crazeegirl411
Then I suggest you go with neither until your mind is clear of who...
eelyajekim
i heard that option, and its not working
casssy
#2
wayne
I think #2 as well, which one would you be able to see more often?
xxxlilazngrlxxx
um.. i think girl #2 as well
kryogenix
go on one of those dating shows. bachelorette #1 or bachelorette #2? _smile.gif
krnxswat
Hm. Bring both of them to a pool, get them to drown. And go out with the one you saved first. =].. and as for the other girl.. uhh... call the ambulance whistling.gif
winterlily
QUOTE(krnxswat @ 01-28-2004, 02:50 PM)
Hm. Bring both of them to a pool, get them to drown. And go out with the one you saved first. =].. and as for the other girl.. uhh... call the ambulance whistling.gif

that's not a bad idea...

which one can you not live without? ask yourself that... I think you seem to like the first better, but don't just go for the second because she's there, only go for her because you if you enjoy her company better.
casssy
QUOTE(krnxswat @ 01-28-2004, 02:50 PM)
Hm. Bring both of them to a pool, get them to drown. And go out with the one you saved first. =].. and as for the other girl.. uhh... call the ambulance whistling.gif

haha.. if he did that.. im sure he would pick #2.. laugh.gif
timeisrunningout
just think it through before you do anything...
LoST SouL
ok in my opnion long distance relationships r good if u kud deal wit it if not leve grl #1 however if u relly like grl #2 u gotta rembab tat u 2 r good friends n if ur willin 2 risk ur friendship go ahead have fun but remeba in the end if thins dun work out ur friendship may neva get bak 2 the way it was..
Fe_LL
You can't choose.. that's mean. rolleyes.gif

I guess I would do which everone are you are better friends with.
eelyajekim
T_T why me
urcompsezwazzup
well id say dun hurry any where...juss live ur life, and lots of stuff will come up thatll most likely affect ur choices. either that or decide lol
-aMiT-
LoST SouL
ahhh dun worry it happens 2 every1 its happen 2 me millions of times
crazeegirl411
Ahaha...this is way better than liking the same person as your friend, you're a lucky one _smile.gif
nerdish
go for the one you actually see yourself with, and I don't see why you can't get the gal's number and see her out of work... if you want her... go get her maaaan!
politicophobia77
Pick whichever one you wouldn't be ashamed to bring home to your parents....

But seriously, how can you pick girls like they're items at the grocery store...? blink.gif Eh. I think I'll leave...
eelyajekim
go for the one you actually see yourself with, and I don't see why you can't get the gal's number and see her out of work... if you want her... go get her maaaan!

reason one
she only works during the seasons, and i tried seeing here at her college but couldn't find her.
reason two i asked ppl at wor for it, but they won't give it to me
LadyJade
QUOTE(eelyajekim @ Jan 28 2004, 12:36 AM)
i have this girl at work, and damn she is great, me and her talk all the time, but i don't see her cause she only works seasonal
on the other hand i have this girl i have known since like whoa, i took her to all my dances, and people ask are you and her going out.
argh!!!!! i don't know what to do

i think the girl u known ur whole life wud be better coz like u said, u known her ur whole life so u kno her well. the other one, u don't see her a lot and u don't kno wut's going on with her much. built it up and built the trust up.
princess_tracy
why don't u follow ur heart
axprincezz
although you may not see that girl all the time, you stated that you talk to her often? perhaps if it's something you really wanted to go for you would make the effort to see her more often? unless she is far away from you. but as for the situation, you should really follow the path to the one you truly like.
aud_chua
uhm.. i'd say go for the girl you've known for a longer time..
damn.. i got into a big mess when i went with the guy at work.. shoot.. i hella thought that he was the one.. but during that time also, i had this really great guy friend i knew since 1st grade.. so yea.. i messed up big time when i chose the dude at work.. now, i realize that the feeling i had for the guy at work was just an infatuation.. as for my friend.. well.. the feeling was.. real......
so yea.. just go with the girl you've known for a longer time...
Jiggapin0
ohhhh, you heartbreaker, you.
phanaticalazn21
pick the hot 1
phanaticalazn21
HOTNESS
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
QUOTE(eelyajekim @ Jan 28 2004, 12:36 AM)
i have this girl at work, and damn she is great, me and her talk all the time, but i don't see her cause she only works seasonal
on the other hand i have this girl i have known since like whoa, i took her to all my dances, and people ask are you and her going out.
argh!!!!! i don't know what to do

all in all it g0es d0wn t0 wh0 y0u find y0urself t0 be m0re c0mpatible with 0r the m0st attracted t0 pers0nality and lo0k-wise .. if the girl at w0rk is great and y0u talk a l0t it seems that y0u'd have a go0d chance 0f go0d c0mmunicati0n in a relati0nship .. if y0u d0n't see her 0ften .. make it a p0int t0 hang 0ut with her OUTSIDE 0f w0rk ..

as f0r the 0ther girl that y0u've kn0wn f0r a l0ng time .. just because y0u to0k her t0 all y0ur dances and y0u've kn0wn her a go0d deal 0f time d0esn't make her the right 0ne f0r y0u .. ultimately y0u have t0 see what y0u feel y0u need best ..

go0d luck!!
jooleeah
pick girl number 2
besides, long distance relationships are really hard to keep
S0ULd0UT
i think its all up to u//
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