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xourzest
blink.gif huh.gif wink.gif wacko.gif What if u think girls are hot when they're naked but u think guys are hot when they're dressed and think they're ugly when they're not dressed?
xourzest
does that mean im bi blink.gif ??
Ington
Post once. Thats what the edit button is for.

And yes, if you are attracted to your sex as well as the opposite sex, you are bi.
inlonelinessidie
Girls can think a naked woman is beautiful because they secretly might envy her physic. That doesn't necessarliy make you homosexual. Same for men. They can feel as though they're gay when they're really not because they find themselves looking at other men, when in reality it's just wanting to be like them. Until you've had a sexual relationship with both sexes, that's the ONLY time one knows for sure whether they're Bi, Lesbian, or Gay.
Joss-eh-lime
girls ARE hotter than guys naked tongue.gif lol thinking that doesnt make you bisexual. u have to want to be romantic with both senxes to be bi.
SandRAWRz
doesn't have to mean you are bi..
girls' skin are smoother..it it looks nice
and guys are usually hairy
o0olaalaa
girls look better than guys naked its like almost a fact. so maybe/maybe not your bi =)
xourzest
i hope im not bi or a lez.
Heathasm
eh alot of girls feel that way
but ultimately
they like teh penis and not teh poon
Paradox of Life
Just because you think another girl is hot doesn't mean you're in love with them. Being bisexual means you would get in a serious relationship with a male or female. Thinking someone's looks are hot or beautiful does not mean you think that way about them.
mzkandi
Moved to Relationships
Retrogressive
Is there a specific girl or is it just girls in general?
To be quite honest, we are all somewhat homosexual. It's natural to be attracted to both sexes in my opinion. And I don't find anything wrong with it.
takingbacksandy
okay i'm attracted to really hothothotdropdeadsexy girls but i am not willing to have sex with them. i think if you're not willing to have sex with them but you're completely attracted to them, it doesn't make you bisexual.

p.s. the penis is ugly.
Retrogressive
I think almost all women don't really like to look upon the penis.

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_suzie_
^lol

''Is there a specific girl or is it just girls in general?
To be quite honest, we are all somewhat homosexual. It's natural to be attracted to both sexes in my opinion. And I don't find anything wrong with it.''

yah i agree with what Retrospective said. the human body is beautiful, especially when its in its peak form. well i think it is happy.gif

dont worry, you'll grow and you;ll find out what you like/dont like. give it time, and relax, there's nothing wrong with the way you're feeling right now
rOckThISshYt
This sounds really weird... but I think there are different levels of bisexuality, I guess. It's a HUGE gray area between straight and gay.

Some girls think that girls are hot but couldn't see themselves in a relationship with one.
Some aren't really attracted physicaly to girls but could see themselves in a relationship.
Some think both (me).

I guess the last one is like... DEFINATE bisexuality. But I wouldn't consider the first one to really be bisexual at all. But it depends on your point of view. Which are you?
iNyCxShoRT
Maybe you just admire the girl cause of her physical features. I don't think it means your bi. Unless you actually develop feelings or are attracted to them AND guys as well.
5ayuri
I know I think some girls are hot, but that doesn't make me Bisexual.
simx
QUOTE(rOckThISshYt @ Nov 3 2005, 4:47 PM)
This sounds really weird... but I think there are different levels of bisexuality, I guess. It's a HUGE gray area between straight and gay.

Some girls think that girls are hot but couldn't see themselves in a relationship with one.
Some aren't really attracted physicaly to girls but could see themselves in a relationship.
Some think both (me).

I guess the last one is like... DEFINATE bisexuality.  But I wouldn't consider the first one to really be bisexual at all.  But it depends on your point of view.  Which are you?
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I agree.... IMO you have to be physically attracted to BOTH sexes and willing to have a relationship with BOTH sexes to be bisexual... if you just wanna hook up with girls then you're not bisexual...
xsign_my_heartx
yes you would be considered bi. but there is nothing wrong with thinking a girl is pretty but not meaning it like that. and no, there isnt anything wrong with lesbians or bi people.
ParanoidAndroid
I am completely straight and yet sometimes I can tell if a girl is hot or not...it depends on the level of "hotness judging" you do
tweeak
QUOTE(inlonelinessidie @ Nov 2 2005, 10:39 PM)
Girls can think a naked woman is beautiful because they secretly might envy her physic. That doesn't necessarliy make you homosexual. Same for men. They can feel as though they're gay when they're really not because they find themselves looking at other men, when in reality it's just wanting to be like them. Until you've had a sexual relationship with both sexes, that's the ONLY time one knows for sure whether they're Bi, Lesbian, or Gay.
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I agree. I see no reason why I shouldn't be able to admire a woman's body and still be straight. You should grow to better understand the beaty of a man's body as you have deeper relations with them.
Saeglopur
I think everyone has a tendancy to think that the same sex is hot.

As long as you have a strong sense of your sexuality.
rOckThISshYt
QUOTE(simx @ Nov 6 2005, 9:42 PM)
I agree.... IMO you have to be physically attracted to BOTH sexes and willing to have a relationship with BOTH sexes to be bisexual... if you just wanna hook up with girls then you're not bisexual...
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Exactly. It has to be a full comitment.
NgocQuyen
uhh...uhh...i'm so lost...if you don't want to be bi or lesbian then you're not? its all...up to you...x__x i mean how are we supposed to know whether or not you like a girl or like a guy...if you want to be with a girl just as much as you want to be with a guy then sureee, you're bi? huh.gif i think that was your question ermm.gif
smearedmakeup
i don't blame you. i think a guy's shifty.gif is ugly. ehhs.
Oranite
QUOTE(xourzest @ Nov 2 2005, 8:19 PM)
blink.gif  huh.gif  wink.gif  wacko.gif What if u think girls are hot when they're naked but u think guys are hot when they're dressed and think they're ugly when they're not dressed?
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Yea Im actually in a very similar situation. Except that I'm a guy. I like guys/girls but I would really only go out with girls for some reason. Even though I think that I'm Bi and that theres nothing really wrong with being Bi well atleast in my opinion. Sadly not everyone is open to anything other then heterosexuality _dry.gif
iheartjohn
I agree. Guys are ugly when they're naked...
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