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miss-_-guitar
k there's this guy who i really like and we we're friends and stuff. just recently though i found out that he liked me too. we would always hug when we saw each other in the halls but now he kisses my too. problem is that he hasent actually asked me out. is this normal or what? any advice? thanx
silver-rain
Well, where does he kiss you? If it's on the lips, then yeah it's a bit weird. If you both like each other, why don't you talk to him and ask him out?
If it's on the cheek or on the hand, then it's not as weird. But I still say talk to him and maybe ask him out yourself.
crazedbaby
My sister's done it before... she and her bf were into that before he asked her out.
miss-_-guitar
he usually kisses me on the cheek then the lips.
HelplessCry
well yeah its weird if he does both then o_o if your uncomfortable you should talk to him about it. and if thats not a big enough sign for you i dont know what is...
steezahh
i dont think its weird, he might just REALLY like you, and does not have the gut to ask you out, but hey, make a move!! if you really do like him.
MiLKDUD_DOKiE
I dont think its weird that he kisses you but maybe he's just too shy to ask you out.
o0olaalaa
its not weird =) maybe he wants you to ask him out cuz hes shy
sprezzatura
He has the gut to kiss you both the cheek and lip in the public but too shy to ask someone out?

Wow, that is a bit weird.

Just ask him out yourself.
Aoiro
Nah, I don't think it's weird.
I think it's sweet.
But if it's out of no where, ya, it's weird.
ParanoidAndroid
he's just shy.... rolleyes.gif

maybe he thinks you already got the point that he wants to go out with you
_sarcastic_
why don't you ask him out instead
NgocQuyen
lols awwhs...it all depends on you really...hahaha...i mean...i can't really say whether or not you feel uncomfortable or not....haha i mean if it was me i'd feel mad...because heck if you're kissing on me you better ask me out! because im sure as heck not going to do it! im too lazy for that!!! lols....hahahaha next time he kisses you turn away and be like you are not putting those lips on me again until you officially ask me out..hahaha shifty.gif biggrin.gif
Hiphop d[-_-]b
I guess you could call it weird, but if it makes you uncomfortable then yes id say it was weird. A few of my ex`s were like that.

If you two both like eachother i say you just ask him out. That way, maybe you wont feel as weird if he kissed you. If oyou really dont like it just ask him to stop, that you should only kiss someone if you are together.
Genuine_Essence
yea it pretty normal for guys ta act like that. sometimes you gotta be the one to make the first move _smile.gif
Gigi
QUOTE(peggysturr @ Oct 29 2005, 2:05 PM)
He has the gut to kiss you both the cheek and lip in the public but too shy to ask someone out?

Wow, that is a bit weird.

Just ask him out yourself.
*

exactly what I was thinking.

I'd just ask him out yourself to get it sorted out, being in the dark about this stuff isn't fun. =\
iNyCxShoRT
So it's like friends with benefits. If he's too shy to ask you, I say ask him yourself.
xheartbroken_child
I kissed my boyfriend that I go out with now before he asked me out.
I kissed a few people that never asked me out also.
I don't find it weird at all.
ApocalypseAelis
QUOTE
He has the gut to kiss you both the cheek and lip in the public but too shy to ask someone out?

Wow, that is a bit weird.


I agree.

He obviously likes you if he kissed you on the lips, so if you like him, ask him out.
miss-_-guitar
thanx for the advice guys it turns out that he's just a total perv and had no intention to ask me out. he's a real jerk now. we dont talk much anymore. ): it's too bad we were pretty good friends. its sad how some guys take advantage of girls.
topsyturvy
Aww i'm sorry sad.gif I'm sure you'll find the perfect guy soon _smile.gif
swtcherriipie
you shouldnt let him kiss you because then he'll never ask you out..... on a count of he's already getting wut he wants so why cbe tied down?....=\
Rachel
^Uhh, I'm sure he wants more than kissing.


And, my boyfriend and I kissed/made out before he asked me out
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