me and my gf broke up a few weeks ago. it kinda sucked. now i am wondering why i even liked her. she acted so cold to me when we broke up. then she tells me shes not ready for a relationship because shes "fickle" and "not mature enough". then she goes off and asks her old crush to a dance and he says yes. i just read on her xanga that she said "love you" to him. we had always talked about how we would never throw that word around carelessly. she claims theyre "just friends" but i think thats bs. i am so pissed off at her right now.

are these feelings normal? i thought i was over her, yet this still made my heart fall into my stomach when she says "love you =)" to another guy.

meh. someone help.

i think that's totally normal to feel that way. no offense, but your ex gf is BITCH . that was completely f*cked up what she did to you. don't worry. there's always karma and whatever pain she put you through, it'll come back and bite her in the ass one day. i hope you feel better.

Totally agree with ^. Ignore her, she's not worth your time.

yes it is normal to feel like that. you should be glad that you guys broke up, she is definately not worth your time.

^ thats oh so true

and definately not worth your love


you know if she comes back to you she's yours but for now. try to move on. there are many good girls out there. dont watse your time to a girl like her.

she's like my ex. She broke up with me because she wanted some quality time for her studies and after a week she's dating somebody else.

Cheer up man. its not the end yet

were on the same boat and the captain is missing. lols

No matter what, you will always have feelings for her, and never want to see her with someone else. Totally normal. Good luck with things.

Once u like another girl, she will feel the same way, trust me.

forget her, shes naive and stupid. let her be.

thanks everyone.

i was wondering... is revenge a bad idea?

I agree with them, she is a female dog -.- She probably made it up as her excuse. Eh, forget her.

Yes. It is.

but...


it depends on what exactly you plan on doing.

lols awwhs its soo normal to feel that way...haha i felt that way too...i was so over this guy that said he likedd mee soooooosooooo much and wanted to marry me one day and bam he ditches me for another girl.......i was over him UNTIL i found out he had another girl...then...i found another boy...yayyss...heehee but yehh...revenge is a bad idea....actually...it depends on what you're doing...if i was you...i would find the MOST AMAZING girl ever and flaunt her off...haha make her jealous...but...thats just me

haha yeah my plan is to flirt like crazy with other girls and act like i'm in love or hooking up or something. trying to make her jealous.

any suggestions?

I'd do that..only if you knew she still partially liked you.

Cause i've seen guys that do that, and then come to find out the girl eventually stopped having the feelings for him after the break up, while the guy wants her back. it's quite sad.

Karama will defiantely get her
I guarentee that with my life. Heh.

^ karama?

anyways, i'm pretty sure she still has some feelings for me.
i dont really care though. it just feels good to think i'm getting some revenge.

go out with her best friend. that's always fun.

actually, no. just question her, make her feel bad about it, etc.

Normal? One word.

YES.

Her feelings are of that of a typical lost emotional teenage girl. After your breakup, she's FOR SURE on the rebound and looking for some comfort somewhere else so..saying and abusing the words "Love you" is definitely an expoitation to the concept.

Also having someone going back to their "past" is nothing new either. Again the comfort zone. Girls have a tendancy to NOT like being alone...so doing foolish things to employ that shouldn't come as a new thing.

So you're asking all of the right questions...and something to learn from as well. Just to get a little piece of how the female mind works...

...her feelings are normal...as are yours. Your feelings are definitely normal. Breakups are tough-cookies to comprehend.

Asking questions is perfectly normal behavior after a breakup. After all, the breakup ends...you're always left with one more question...

"Where do I go from here?"

You'll find that over 90% of the teenage female population is just that ; not ready for a relationship and not very mature in that aspect either no matter how strong or outspoken they may seem on the outside ; but on the other hand, they're a very sensitive and fickle soul on the inside.

I honestly wouldn't allow my daughter or son to date at a mid / early teenage age because the age we're in, getting a good career is going to be slim to none.

But I think you have much brighter and better things to look forward to rather than a silly girl. Girls will always be there...good life / career opportunities for you won't always be there.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)---------

would it be best to just stop talking to her?
she goes to a different school so its easy to avoid her..

Yeah, avoid her. There's nothing between the two of you anymore and evidently she's moved on and maybe you should too

YES.
YES YES YES YES YES YES YES.
go delete her sn too.
(and email, and phone number)

=S omg im such a wuss i would cry.

yup that totally sums it up

haha that's what my bf did to me. he thought i was cheatin on him and he started flirtin like crazy with the other girls in my class but he found out the only reason i spent so much time on that someone was because we had a project to do
so yeah that would be good to make her feel bad

like they all said, its normal.
hope yu feel better

forget about her; she's not worth your time.

kick her ass. :x