oki. so heres the dealio.

I have a friend and shes really fun and all but pisses me off sometimes. Like I hang out with her and we do stuff together. But we have been fighting A LOT lately. I never really paid much attention to this before but she always blames EVERYTHING that happens on me. Even if it is obvious that it was something she did. I know this is a minor thing that happened but, once I had some popcorn and she grabs some out of my bag and she spills like half of what she grabbed out. When her dad walks in and tells her to clean it up since I was the guest, she gets upset and says that I was the one who ate the popcorn and that I should clean it up not her. Also, if she cusses (her parents despise cussing) and her mom hears her she says I was the one who said it.
It also kinda bugs me that she never seems to understand that I can know people and be friends with people that she knows even though I don't sit at lunch with them/her. She always like brags about how many plans she has and that she would invite me (yea right) but I probably don't know any of the people she was going with. The problem with this is I have told her millions of times that I am in their classes and they always greet me when we pass the in the hall (school duh). ANDDD I do know all the people that she lists is going with her and she just says oh well or says that I probably aren't friends with them---if that was true then I still could go because she always says that they ignore her other times and that she isn't friends with them herself so I dunno.
She also almost always says she has no friends. If she has no friends, than what am I? She claims to be depressed and cuts herself. She has no reason to cut herself and the only reason she would I have is that to get attention and to look "cool". She degrades herself and I kind of think that its on purpose to get pity from other people. I get comments from her all the time about me having the greatest life in the world and that everything always works well for me and she says that everyone loves me and the world hates her.
When we are alone she always says that she hates it when other people act differently around their "cool friends". When we are around other people, she tries to embarass me and makes rude remarks and I think that this is rather hypocritical. It seems almost like shes competing against me and is jealous or something.
Don't get me wrong, I love her very much as a friend but.. I just don't know if our friendship is very healthy. ADVICE PLEAASEE

... i dont think she's a friend at all. or that she's an extremely hypocritical, complaining annoying freak

if you really want to be friends with her talk with her. if she doesnt stop, there's no reason to stay friends with her.

and i have a feeling that she's just using you as a backup friend/thing to vent or show off to/only one that'll listen to her , while trying to get into the 'popular' crowd at the same time.

thanks for the helpp :]

peoples i know youre reading thiss comment at least!

^don't double post.

anywhoos, yeah she doesn't seem like a really good friend in my opinion, blaming things that goes wrong on you? try talking to her about it tell her how much it's bugging you. she probably doesn't realize that she's doing this to you.

sounds like a spoiled brat to me

no offense but u can so do better than her

i'm sorry for saying this but....

your friend is a FREAK SHOW and obviously not a true friend.

plenty of other ppl u can always make friends with or u can just try and talk her into changing? tell her how u feel?

thanks guys :] you rockk

my friend did that. shed ignore me when she was with other friends that i didnt talk to as much. and these days we go to different schools so shes always telling me how my friends are stupid and slutty, and her friends are awesome.

you either talk to her about ALL this stuff or accept how she acts, becuase shes your friend.

i had a friend like that. she would get mad at me for like not opening the door for her, or not lending her pen cuz i only had one. and she just wouldnt talk to me for the whole day or go "ugh argh" to me. and so one day i told her what i felt. i told her she was being a bitch and i didnt want to be her friend no more and she got mad. so w/e, i say, if u dunt like her attitude tell her and if it doesnt change. end it.

She's very hypocritical and probably isn't a very good friend.

But maybe you should talk to her about it. Like actually make her sit down and talk to you. She seems very insecure, and that seems to be the main issue. I've done something equivalent to cutting myself before, and not for attention--I didn't tell anyone but people started asking me about it. It's something that you just feel like you have to do when you get really depressed or have a lot of self-doubt, which both applied to me last year.

So maybe, just maybe, you should talk to her. I mean, if that's the case with her, I know talking about it helps.

she's a HORRIBLE friend
i know you love her to death..i know how you feel but
you just got to deal with it
or tell her the issue
drift away from her
she doesn't even act like a friend...she is just depreate for attention..and those peopel are annoying

Gosh, I know how you feel. It stinks, doesn't it?
I told my friend to get over herself. Got into a little fighting. After that, we never spoke to each other again. Hah! Doesn't matter because I found better people to hang out with and they're definitely more trustable.

sounds like me and a couple of my people. i ignore them pretty much. i figure we are drifting apart and i cant help it. its life

d0nt be her friend.
that girl is a pain in the ass.
you deserve better than that!
hehee.. X]

just find other new friends.
she'll regret treatin you that way.
or maybe.. she wont.
but its her loss.
and you know it.. ^^