how can you find the source of a flash object? here is the one i want. http://www.pinkmodelsmanagement.net/

you use a decompiler. that's a bad thing to do.

you should think of the people who made it and probably put in some hard time. i don't think they would want people just looking at how they did everything and copying all the effects and such. that's called copyright infringment.

i dont want to copy. i just want to save the video onto my pc for later viewing

Look at the webpage source (View > Source). Find an <embed> tag that takes an .swf file as its source. Copy that file source into your current URL. For example, the page you specified is at http://www.pinkmodelsmanagement.net/; the Flash file is intro.swf. So tack on intro.swf onto the end of http://www.pinkmodelsmanagement.net/ and you can download the Flash file itself. (Therefore, in this example, the file is at http://www.pinkmodelsmanagement.net/intro.swf.)