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mzguylover
i like never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy. is that bad?
faithin_felix
well...why do you think you don't have a boyfriend? do you think your shy or something? or the guys you want is too much? if that is you in the picture, you should have no problem finding a guy ;)

never kissed a guy? i haven't kissed a guy either =( (pssssst, i'm a guy)
but i've hugged guys and girls
DrNick311
I haven't had a boyfriend either, and I haven't kissed any guys.
Come to think about it I haven't had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. Weird _unsure.gif
conster
happy.gif i had 3 ex's and currently with my 4th bf, if i can go bak in time i wouldnt have wanted to date them.. _unsure.gif its not a bad thing tho, dont worry the one for u will come soon be patient
hayngrlyz
Wellerz...i feel ur pain...ur not tha only one that don't got a bf...let's jsut say that God is working his miracles on u for in tha future...and then maybe later on you'll marry some cool.gif guy. ya kno wut im sayin? _unsure.gif Well, yea...aloherz biggrin.gif
bluecrystals
i never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy either...
wayne
thats bad, ima give you 10 dollars, go buy one. ok? lol just kidding. well for some people it just takes time. dont worry, you'll get one some day.
pbear
Neither have I. I'm in no rush to get anything done yet though.

Maybe your age has something to do with it?

Don't push things like this. wink.gif
ichiban
Hey, just be patient. Patience is the key! :D
01-supergirl
Not at all, it can never be a bad thing. You shouldn't rush relationships or something like that. If it comes it comes, sometimes it comes at the wrong time. And you get sucked into the whole for awhile and kinda takes your life off the track, but then thats when you learn your mistakes from them. It just really depends on the person and how you are able to handle them. No worries yours will come sooner than you think =D
angel-roh
QUOTE(mzguylover @ Apr 30 2004, 5:56 PM)
i like never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy. is that bad?

nooooooooooooooo!! hehe ur husband will be proud haha
f00LisH_h3aRt63
OMG thats not bad..and it doesnt mean anything. i would so give up the boyfriends i had...i HATE all the drama that came with them. haha. just be patient...wait for them to come to u. thats all i can say

throb.gif jackie
hair products
i've never had a bf either. what's the big deal?
CJ1
It's not bad because everything takes time... especially in relationships. Take your time--unless you're really old, but that's a different story.
xscore
how old are u??

ive never had a bf either....maybe cuz im immature
i dont think theres anything wrong w/ not having a bf..
LiNHy POO
nah... boyfriends will come later! right now your friends and family are the important ppl right now! biggrin.gif
[2]Nekked
http://ebay.com
CEP
QUOTE(mzguylover @ Apr 30 2004, 5:56 PM)
i like never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy. is that bad?

Not really.
I mean, maybe the 1st bf who gives you that 1st kiss is the one. And then you'll never look for anyone else ever... wink.gif

- Chinkieeyedpnoi
Mireh
You shouldn't rush into things like this _smile.gif the time will come when its right
ThePrincessofTKD
i think...it`s just you`ve maybe heard too many people saying how they had like x number of boyfriends/girlfriends and how they`ve already experienced their first kiss and all that "good stuff"..

but hey!

you haven`t experienced your first breakup, right?

breakups are the thing you DON`T want to experience.
Torpillage
QUOTE(ThePrincessofTKD @ May 1 2004, 2:15 PM)
breakups are the thing you DON`T want to experience.

Couldn't have said it better. Though dumping people is no fun either. Be happy single. You don't have to have a devoted amount of time to someone, but it's all good if you like that person enough! ::nods::
And it doesn't matter that you've never had a boyfriend. That doesn't make you any less of a cool person than you already are.
pyrochick19770
QUOTE([2)
Nekked,May 1 2004, 7:13 AM] http://ebay.com

AHH HA HA! LOL [2]Nekked! But nah...bf's arent that great...my exes are big butt heads now...cant handle taht i didnt want em no more LoL laugh.gif
silver-rain
Hey, don't worry about it, the time will come when its right. Besides, sometimesthey aren't that great.
x_perplexity
dont worry about it.! just enjoy life for now and pretty soon *pop* the perfect guy will come for you. patience is a virtue. =]
dani41790
aww dun worri, its not bad.
*michelle*
its not bad. It would be nice to be able to even count the amount of bf's I have had....dont sweat it, when you are young you dont appreciate those things as much, this way you will be able to easily remember your first bf or kiss...so dont worry.
instantmusic
are you sure you want to have a boyfriend?
some people dont realize that they dont want one.

till then... live it up being single biggrin.gif . club club club club club.
China_Man_11
dress like a wh*re and you will get tons of guys
pink_luva
QUOTE(China_Man_11 @ May 2 2004, 8:10 AM)
dress like a wh*re and you will get tons of guys

noooooo don't do THAT!!!! blink.gif

its ok that u neva had a bf.....i neva had one either...and i'm 14..... _dry.gif but i don't really care. its not like its that important or anything.....
jimmyjackiechan
It's not bad~

Ur first time kissing would probally be horrible. LOL. But make sure u tell ur B.F. before hand when u meet him~
*Nina*Renee*
no of course not! dont worry about it! your time will come
d3v1l1ci0us
not bad at all
berries_n_cream
its not a bad thing to not have a bf at ur age. (whatever it may be) if u really want to get a better understanding of the male mind just have a lot of guy friends( who hopefully have single avaible friends) a double bonus. having a bf or gf isnt all its cracked up to be. i once knew a couple who went out for like 6 months and the most they ususally said to each other is Hi and Bye. so not everybody out there who says that they have a bf or a gf actually has what would be defined as a real relationship, some of them are just dating because theres a guy or gurl there not because they have any real interest in the person. ( once again friend of a friend)
NatiMarie
Don't worry. It's not bad at all. It's normal and don't rush it if you don't have to. You're still young and you have a long way to go. I mean seriously, you'll find that special someone when the time comes. Time will tell, just be patient and love will find its way. The best of luck to ya.
TPVolleyballer05
i dont think u should worry....not having a boyfriend isnt bad...it isnt bad at all....on the contrary its quite wonderful...you should save yourself for that special guy or A special guy...you dont have to go through a bunch of freaks just so people wont make fun of you....if i could go back in time...i would erase all 13 of them...*sighs* missing my non-boyfriend-self
sailormei
You absolutely shouldn't be worried. Most people find their future other half in or after college. It's natural. ^_^;;..Besides, you never know if Orlando Bloom will be single in a few years...it's better to wait. ;]
Lkc22
[I][COLOR=purple][SIZE=7][FONT=Times] its not that bad i just got my frist bf (im 13) but i dun know how old u are..so ya, dun worry tho, mellow.gif
sweetlyz
it was a long time before i ever had a real boyfriend .. but i can`t complain. cause he`s the love of my life at the moment and i`m happy that i stuck through and waited for God to direct him my way. Be patient and you`ll see .. don`t try so hard to lOok for one. Cause he`ll pop up when yOo least expect it .. just have fun for now and always remember these words =):

"I'll wait eternally for you although, I know I'm not the only one you see. & though I'm proud to have you I'll not brag, nor will I ever act with such conceit. I'll utter only gentle words of love, & thanks & praise for you are part of me. I'll broaden my horizons just for you, & I will never act so angrily. Forgiveness will be easily attained, I'll be a better person just for you. My loyalty you'll have above all things, You'll never hear me lie, it's all the truth. I'll wait forever for the day you could be mine, despite how bad the pain, however long the time"
LiTo_fRiScO_guRl
I think its normal i havent had a boyfriend or kissed a guy.........................lots of people havent had boyfriends yet maybe u just havent found the rite guy yet.....>.<
mzguylover
QUOTE(sailormei @ May 7 2004, 7:26 PM)
You absolutely shouldn't be worried. Most people find their future other half in or after college. It's natural. ^_^;;..Besides, you never know if Orlando Bloom will be single in a few years...it's better to wait. ;]

i heard that. orlando bloom is so hotttt. but i think i moved onto adam brody cuz he's a sexy drummer. =) he's super hott.
Note
so...big deal! i've never kissed a guy before. never! blush.gif i kissed a girl before.
islandkiss
it's not.. remember don't rush love.. laugh.gif
NostalgicRockChick
No that's not bad at all. I know tons of people (including myself) that haven't been in that situation either. It's a bit more common than you might think
sweetphuong
You've never had a boyfriend? Then I'd say you're LUCKY :) Enjoy it!!!!! There's a lot of things you can't go back on like a first date or a first kiss so what's the rush?

And I don't know if this applies to you but I think it's horribly funny how strict my mom was while I was in high school about guys and now she keeps pushing me to date in college. "What? He told you he loved you? Why didn't you say yes?! Why don't you be his gf?" LOL.

I don't believe most people meet their soulmates while in college. I mean there's still plenty of time. Life is not short, and no matter how short it is, it's the longest thing you'll ever experience so whatever happens, happens. But for some people, I guess college may be the last time they're surrounded by a lot of people their own age :)
shawty_redd
aww thats so sweet..its not bad and who ever tells u thats they're wrong! when u do have ur first kiss then it'll be special...
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