i honestly am running out of ideas. my boyfriend bores me to death sometimes cuz everything we do is so routinely. like i hang out at his house a lot and MOST of the time he's playing his dumb game World of Warcraft on his computer. I wish i could destroy his computer sometimes...that's how bad it is. anyone have any ideas how i can "spice" up the relationship? my friends say i should dump him cuz he's boring now, but i still love him even though he drives me insane a lot. so help please! thanks!

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It's not really his fault the relationship is getting boring.. relationships are a two-people thing. If you feel like the momentum is slowing down, maybe he's thinking the same thing. Judging from his actions, he seems to be bored as well. Why would he rather play Warcraft than spend time with you?

Talk to him about it. Tell him to get off his damn computer and more attention to his woman!!

Never get between a man and his computer.

Kinda sounds like my relationship with my boyfriend, but whenever I go over, he doesn't even touch the computer unless we're both looking on it or something. He really should be spending more time with his girlfriend than on the computer, so I agree, talk to him about it and tell him how you feel (neglected?).
But, if you want to "spice" up your relationship, I suggest going on dates to places you've never been to before. Do some new things, try new foods, etc. Surprise each other. But, if he doesn't seem to care, then I really think you should dump him. You should be happy and satisfied in a relationship, not bored, no matter how much you love him.

i don't blame him.. World of Warcraft is AWESOME!

maybe you should ask him to g to the park and do something more "outdoor"

hehe when my brother is playing Counter Strike in the pc, and his gf is there, she'll sit on his lap and they'll play together (i felt sickened watching them)... maybe you should do the same?

instead of always hanging out at his house, why not try hanging out at yours or go out to the mall, the park or somewhere you know the both of you will spend alot of time together

Talk to him.. he should be spending the precious time with his girlfriend .. (you) besides games in the cpu. Go out with him somewhere .. or like the beaches. Go to the movies ? mall ?

but i dont think you can do tat with world of warcraft haha, its just that cs is about shooting so i guess it can be more entertaining having your gf sit on your lap and mess around with that then warcraft lol.
anyway the relation thing is a 2 person thing you cant expect him to do it all, what have you done to be more exciting?

I think that's kinda lame if he is just ignoring you on the computer while you're at his house I think that you should just tell him how you feel maybe he feels the same way. If you still love him alot then try doing things yourself like going other places and doing new things

sounds like me and my bf but instead of the computer, its my dog >.< all his attention goes to my stupid dog, that bastard. Well I had a talk with him last night and after we are done with football and volleyball, we are going to chill alot more, do more things, etc etc etc

and its Ramadan right now so thats also another reason why its boring now

just hang out outside..on a date...go clubbing, pool, bowling, movies.
get in trouble

i think that if you take notice on the things that
he likes to do
then he'll take notice on the things you wanna do

play the game with him
and maybe eventually
you guys will do something different

yeah i've tried talking to him about it, but a lot of the times it ends up into a huge argument. i know that world of warcraft is an extremely popular game, but there's a difference between liking the game a lot and just being crazy obsessed with it. afterall, i am REAL while the game is MAKE BELIEVE STUFF. he can't get the real pleasures in life from a game, ya know? (sorry if that sounded gross). i'll see what i can do; i've been trying.

also, someone mentioned earlier that i should play the game with him. the thing is, i don't want to waste 15 bucks every month for a game that i wouldn't be playing that often cuz i'm going to school and have to concentrate on REAL things rather than fictional characters. i just think he needs to get his priorities straight. it's not like we just started dating...we've been 2gether for over a year. so idk. i just hate guys sometimes.

lol, hahaha. i don't mean to laugh! but, oh man..naw i've been there. I mean that whole "world of warcraft" thing, lol that's what made me laugh, cuz i've dated some guys like that. But um, lemme see..
Ok, why don't you guys try going out? like going to the movies, to the park, bowling, going to the mall, going out dancing....you know? It'll get him away from his computer and then he probably will start paying more attention to you. but i mean there is a difference though, if he ignores you and just plays his computer all day long,...then you might want to think if you are wasting your time, or have a talk with him

hahaha. here we go with the computer addiction .
hmm, well, go somewhere besides you house. go out to eat, go to a game, go to movies, go out for walks, maybe go to six flags?

and not to mention flirting always works.
try it out!

go OUT and don't stay IN. =)

i feel like i can relate to you...
my partner goes to his pc after work
and play with his fave RE4 games...
and I'm like...waiting forever in bed
and wakes up so upset...
but I really love him and seems that
i'm already used to our situation..
at least ..he's not thinking about other
women...or worst men..lolz...
btw... he goes to my office after his work and
fetch me...we go home together..
so I basically know his routine...
and we're together for almost five years already...

WHEN I WAS STILL A MOD!

Big bump much?

You wanna be a mod again Gigi? With Betty, Juna, and James all stepping down, there's lot's of room. Besides, you were suppose to get hired the same time me, Joanne, and Juna got hired. I don't know what happened.

Don't I need to request to want to be a mod to even become one? Because I never did that. Unless you guys were just invited?

I think I said too much lol. If you wanna know what exactly happened when me, Joanne, and Juna got hired, then PM me.

LOL that's okay, I don't have the desire to be a mod anyway.

Anal.

See, back in the days it was counter-strike. During matches, scrims, or practices I would lie to my gf saying I was in the shower, or eating, or doing hw. She caught on pretty quickly, but man... World of Warcraft? I heard people sacrifice college, jobs, and family for that game.
I think you got yourself into a serious predicament.
CS would only be a few hours a night, but the rest of the day would belong to her.
Make a deal with him or something?

leaking backstage. fired.

W.O.W. has been known to take over peoples lives. If a guy has a problem deciding between a game like W.O.W. and a beautiful girl he's obviously got issues. I don't care what age or who you are, a game is a game. There's a point where you need to separate yourself.

Most important is talk to him! Let him know he bores you, for all he knows he may think that you like watching him level with is l33t W.O.W. friends.

lol, men and their computer/video games. the guys i know constantly play halo or super smash brothers in the lounge and once they get started, hell can freeze over and they'll still be in front of the TV. it doesn't bother me anymore, since i realized that halo is f**king awesome.

hm. old topic.

Have sex.

lol JAY KAY! go out! movies, dinner, parties, bowling, shopping, amusement parks, shows, etc.

^those are really good ideas!

talk to him directly about how you feel.
he'll probably make an effort to do other things besides the computer game, if he still likes you.
if he makes no effort, dump him!

other stuff to do could be :minigolf, making t shirts together, studying together, or double dates
depends on what you like.

bleh you should find someone who pays more attention to you

i think you need to be more active around him. like flirtacious? maybe? spice up your relationship a little.. like flirt with him while he's on the computer. attract his attention, and maybe he'll start listening to you. idk? hoped it help.

sneak below his desk and give him a blow job

threesome

I just went bowling last night and it was a fun little outing. You can make it a little competitive by bringing some friends and versing each other in teams. All I know is my girlfriend loves to get together with her friends and get all dressed up to go out. So anything that involves that is my ticket.


Public sexual acts are a big turn on for a lot of people. The thought of knowing you can get kicked out or in trouble can be a rush. Make sure it's consensual, obviously.