Alright, so, I have have a crush on a guy that is one of my closest friends.
He's a nice guy, were good friends, we hang out alot, SUPER HOT, parents like him, etc.
He is just a great guy, so naturally, I like him. But there is one HUGE problem, he's gay.
Is there any way for me to like, ungayify him, haha. Is that insane? What should I do? I really like him.

two words. move on.




i don't like it when people try to "convert" others to become straight. there's nothing wrong with people being gay, and since he is gay, accept that fact, and the fact that he won't like you. and find another guy who's right for you.

its not that i have anything aginst gay people,
i mean
i live in LA
half of my male friends are gay.
it just sucks because i like him, and he likes guys, and im a girl.

meh sux. you shudnt do anything i mean your his friend as well, let him do wat makes him happy

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take a step into reality, he's never going to be interested in you because you're not a guy.

don't try to "turn" him straight. that will just really piss him off because he trusted you when he came out to you. you will only come off as being anti-gay if you try.

if you're really his friend, don't try to change him.

i had a nightmare that this guy i was madly into was gay. alot of these guys i have crushes on are probably bi or gay. emo boys..

Tell him you like him. I mean, it's possible to change his mind. He could become bi or something. Not giving up boys and not giving up girls.

You can't "ungayify" him.
That's just how he is.
That's life, sadly.
You fall in love with this "perfect" guy.
And find somehthing you dislike about him.
It's not insane, and if you can't accept that, then your loss.

dont complicate his life, think about him

There's nothing you can do to change him, so don't think about it. Find another guy and just stay friend with him.

Either this one or the other same topic you made should be closed. You posted the same topic twice :D

I posted in the other thread my advice :D

don't try to change him, move on and find a guy that's right for you

mabey when he gets older he wont be gay

Move on.
Trying to convert him might get him upset with you. Then he wont even be your friend. Just move on and get over him.

YOU CAN NOT MAKE A GAY GUY STRAIGHT.

I tried. It doesn't work.

But it is most definately a crime that most gay guys are hot. It's damn torture!

You really should move on though. It's no use. Not unless he goes bi..which is only HALF gay...

You're an idiot for even considering that. He's gay and you can not 'ungayify' him. Move on.

I'm sorry that happened, but really, you can't convert a gay person to be straight. It just doesn't work. It's the same that you can't convert a straight person to be gay.

If you really like him, then you'll let him be.

Remember if you love somebody, you accept the fact that they can go find their own happiness somewhere else, and never ever come back to you.

Find another guy and move on.

I used to have a lot of those nightmares back in middle school

move on, he aint goin turn none gay for you if he hasent already.

Haha! get over him girl. He's into guys, not girls, duh. He'll never be interested in you except if he's bi.

damn lol... i guess all you can do is APPRICIATE who he is.. like YEAH he could change back but give him some space.. or something.. just dont change the way you hang out w. each other!