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eboarder2020
Would you ever date your best friends ex???
AngelicEyz00
no... i don't think i would... Personally, i think that's just wrong... well at least for me
Kathleen
I don't think I would. My best friend has. ermm.gif
mznina
i always made a commitment with my friends back in the day..they shouldnt date my ex's....but they did anyway!
LiNHy POO
nah.... but my friend did that too me b4.... i wasnt mad..... but they didnt tell me.... and they were dating more than a month! that got me pissed! _dry.gif
xquizit
No way, there is an unwritten law between friends against that.
NvieDi3ai3yGrL
it's not a good idea.. i've been there and done that and it was a disaster .. luckily i was able to salvage the friendship .. but if i could fix those mistakes in the past i would .. but you can't erase it .. =/
DisneyPrincessKate
if my friend was cool with it and I was into him sure. But I'd check first.
iheartsimba
Depends.
-how long ago they went out
-Did they even like eachother
-How long did it last
-Who broke up with who
-Does ur bff still like them...
F_L_I_P
I did long time ago...it ended when i moved here. cry.gif
*Nina*Renee*
QUOTE(iheartsimba @ Apr 29 2004, 6:43 PM)
Depends.
-how long ago they went out
-Did they even like eachother
-How long did it last
-Who broke up with who
-Does ur bff still like them...

exactly!!!
thedilenquent
noooo thats like suicide. i know my friends an they say what ever i dont have feelings with him and you can do what you want to i dont care and its just a lie. because they do infact still have feelings for that person even though they arent as deep as they once were they wouldnt be albe to see someone other than them with there ex.
huihead
i wouldn't do that to my best friend.. but if it was the other way around, it's not that i wouldn't mind, but i'd say i don't if it means that my friend will be happy.
dani41790
well most likely i wouldnt but if i lyked em alot, then i would ask mai fren if it waz ok first
xjjajeengx
MOst definately NOT!!! _dry.gif i wouldnt want that, and im shure my friends wouldnt either.
WhiteChocolate
Well since I think the whole highschool dating thing is stupid anyway, definitely NOT.
anna_banana08
oh hell naw. that would be looking for tooooo much trouble.
rivendell
Nooooo no no nono! That whole situation just screams trouble, like anna said. ohmy.gif

Friends before boys!
PinoyOtaku
I would try to refrain from doing that since I don't want to intimidate my friend that's been behind me all these years...
iwantmypapabear
I never thought i would but my best friend started dating this guy i, at the time, absolutly hated. well they only went out for 4 days, and on there first date, i was there & him and i really started to click (it didn't help that she was totally ignoring us, she would barely talk to him or hold his hand) so they broke up & 3 weeks later we started going out, and it's 2 years and 3 months later and we're still going strong. and my friend, didn't mind much b/c she doesn't even count it as a real relationship anyways.
instantmusic
Never... stubborn.gif
angel-roh
hahahaha well she`z not my best friend...haha is she? iono -_-;; hahaha umm well we fight a lot.... hahaha well justin is mine now... haha tongue.gif omg hahahaha my best friend amy and michella have went out with justin... amy was very mad at me cus i went out with him...-_-;; she started cussin at me...but then agen she said sry that she was such an idiot... cus justin told her to move on and that he doesnt like her no more... and michella...she doesnt care haha.... cus she already got herself a bf and she...-_-;; cheated on justin sniff
DrNick311
Well normally if I'm single and my best friend starts dating someone, whether I like that girl or not, I leave both of them be. Now if they break up and I realize that I have feelings for this girl, then I'd make sure that the break up was mutual and that my friend would be OK with it. Now if the girl starts coming on to me, I usually stay away, because it's usually just to get back at my friend and make him jealous. I think I just confused myself so I'll stop.
conster
yes ill date them 1 year after they break up happy.gif and make sure theres no awkardness
LatinaLady
i would after it was really Over and fi that person was sort of ok with it.
thepastwillcome
happy.gif well i would cause i dunno if i liked her and she liked me then yea i would well i sorta already am but so what _dry.gif my bf doesnt really care who i date and i dont kare who he dates but i havent talked to him in a while since he moved away and i lost his number and mine changed so that sucks
*michelle*
I wouldnt. I dont think you should interfere with anything along the lines of a friend soon to be, is, or was boyfriend.
mai_z
generally as a rule, i'd say no, but there are probably some odd exceptions... ask 1st..
f00LisH_h3aRt63
i wouldn't date my friends ex-boyfriend but i'd still be friends with him. dating is just too weird and i wouldnt feel right about it.

throb.gif jackie
Winter
I've done it before. My friend didn't mind at all coz she hated his guts. She thinks it's up to me. If I'm happy then it'd alright.

I think it's okay as long as everyone's okay with it.
inn0centmarianne
I think this is so wrong, going out with your bestfriends ex, theres like a rule to not do that! but my friend did it to me a few months ago, and now they are over, hah, too bad for them, I was kind of mad about it, but I got over it.
sam562
QUOTE(eboarder2020 @ Apr 29 2004, 2:56 PM)
Would you ever date your best friends ex???

meeh... ummzz i would neva do dat... cuz my frwend might still lyk him... huh.gif and yea my othz frwendz seem 2 share bf 2..... buh im not does type of grlz.... who would steal her best bud bf.. it ish yk a lil bitch..... and sorrie if it offend yooh.. im juss sayin.... ly my ex seem 2 lyk a good frwend of mines.. and she will flirts bac.. and yea she noes i still lyk him and yes it really hurt meeh alot... buh it ish his lyf i cant control who he lyk or not...
sweetlyz
its different for everyone.
Chopstikx
uhh as long as u no that ur x dznt like u ne more...n tell her first that u like her besfrn...then i guess its okay...i went out with my first X'es cousing...(which is worst) blink.gif
LiL KwAyZee PuNk
n0 i wudn`t .. buh mai friend is datin mineSz ..
Chopstikx
QUOTE(LiL KwAyZee PuNk @ May 8 2004, 2:30 PM)
n0 i wudn`t .. buh mai friend is datin mineSz ..

ermm.gif oo...ouch..that sukx
Lkc22
not a good idea...but im in middle school, and w/ my friends its like people get mad and get over it. cuz i mean sometimes it works w/ people and sumtimes it doesnt and just cuz theyr ur friend dont mean u should make ur best bud sad cuz she cant like the guy that u went out w/ for a while...but realli it depends on teh situation
CEP
Yeah.
I mean, its not like they're going out...

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