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SimplicityGirl
Have you ever had a misunderstanding/fight/argument with your parents that lasted for more than a day? If so...how did you resolve it with them?

Cuz..my Mom got pissed off at me for something really stupid...and I don't know what to do...she's pretending that I dont' exist.. _dry.gif
ItzOnlySydney
haoppened to me b4. it wears off don't worry =)
Shattered_Hope
She'll eventually forgive you... console.gif
And yes it does sometimes happen...my mom forgives me within hours though... mellow.gif
Lightner
omg i hate that!!! my parents do it almost everyday!! its like we have the HUGE argument and the next day its like it never happened... and yes when they forget about it thats their way fo saying they forgive u, or they just want to move on. I think.. im in the same thing as u... somewhat... my parents argue all the time everyday and argue with me and my older sister ugg gets annoying... im sure u know
SimplicityGirl
Um..it's been two days and shes' STILL ignoring me. x.x
kryzcoak47luv666
God I get in fights with my dad almost every other day
and there's no mediator
we live together alone
my mom used to always resolve it but, unfortunately she's not around (rip)
and my brother can't live with us cuz my dad does not like him, he kicked him out
man life sucks
but for some reason my dad just seems to let shit go and leave me alone
I feel bad for argueing sometimes cuz he's like 70 and he sometimes uses that against me saying he's gonna have a heart attack cuz of me
and since I'm the only one who can take care of him, I can't move out when I'm 18 and I'm going to married already
damn.....
FoOd
Suck up your pride and say that you are sorry aboutt he whole arguement. mellow.gif
stephinika
hasn't there been a topic like this? *shrug* ermm.gif

anyways...all the time. we tend to disagree most of the time.
twelveislands
Not really like that. We argue and she just seems to moan at me and try to make another argument with me for the next few hours but I just ignore her happy.gif
x_NeverLetGo
We fight a lot. but i still love her and she still loves me. and the silent treatement lasts only for like ... a day.
xMayleex
My mum is like that but what she does, we will have a small argument then i will try to defend myself by saying its not my fault blah blah but then she says i'm starting another argument. She usually acts normal after a hour though, she will ask for a hug and i have to give in lol.
me1issaaaa
All the time. A lot more lately, like, in the last month over the tiniest things.

The biggest blowout was when my mom found a picture of me on my computer and she flipped out because she thinks everyone's a pedophile. I don't know how to spell it, excuse me. It happened about a month and she's still really spy-ish whenever I get online. It gets really old. I hate it because they don't trust me at all. And it wasn't even a bad picture or anything, nothing slutty or anything of that sort, but still.

And over my friends. Jeebus. I hate it.
silver-rain
All the time. Especially with my mom- we fight like everyday. She doesn't really trust me at all and sometimes, the next day, she'll pretend nothing happened. But when we fight again, she always brings in what we fought over last time into the argument, and it blows up even more...
aera
my brother and my dad havent talked in over a year. my brother's a senior. neither one will apologize.
xbr0kensmil3
my arguments don't last for a day, only for a few hours and then we act like nothing happened.
mystah_danger
When I have arguements with my parents..you just gotta give them what they want sometimes I know this sounds stupid but they looking out for you and I know as teenagers some of us tend to get rebellious..suck it up because there rules will not apply to you forever.

If arguments last for more then one day don't worry its not like a sign or anything that they truly hate you. You just gotta wait it down because they truly love you but there humans too they get stressed out over things and sometimes even over react..just wait it won't be long till your talking again
mzkandi
arguements are expected with parents but they soon blow over
to-devastate
Yes. It happened to me before.
But I just talked it out with my dad and I moved on.
vampireduster
stepdad- we never tallk anymore because we fight to damn much
mom-alright
dad- i hardly talk to him. i do need to
stepmom-same with dad
pinayprincess
uhhh yahh lol ... i had one w/ my dad that lasted a week -- we didnt talk , say hit [[etc]] to each other for one week... w/ my mom, its a whole diff story... i be causing world war 3
MetalChick77
Yeah, its not too frequent. My parents usually apologize at the end of the day or it just wears off.
wincyyellow
this happens...
everytime i just try talking to her...
or give something to her and make her response to my act...
wakkaka
hope i can help you~
yukichan
that happens to me a lot..i usually ignore them back untill they talk to me...that isnt a good idea..i took my mom about a week to talk to me...
Julie Ann
Hey Guys!
I would love to find out if it's just me, whos having a hard time with my parents. Don't get me wrong I love them, but we fight a ton! rolleyes.gif
mzkandi
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mipadi
I get along really well with my parents (although it helps that I don't live with them anymore, I guess). They're great people. I'm not really "close" to them, though, and I wish we were a lot closer.
silver-rain
Oh I hate them. Maybe not really hate, but at the moment I don't like them. They pressure me too much and stuff. But I'm sure that once I get into college, they'll loosen up and our relationship will be better. But at the moment, I don't really like my parents.
HappyHeart
I'm not really close to them but they are great people. They really try to be good parents. (especially my dad)
demolished
My relationship w/ them are .. BOO ! KILL THEMM !
Aoiro
Hell no.
But sometimes...
The moments are rare.
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SillyCourtney
Kinda sorta. Blegh.
5ayuri
I get along more with my mom than my dad.
But the relationship with both is ok, but sometimes they piss me off.
Chii
my mother and i have our moments...but the love is always there.

she's overportective of me and that gets out of hand sometimes but she's just trying to keep me safe and focused on school.
Winter
We get along fine. Overall, they're great people, yeah.
steezahh
I LOVE MY PARENTS; but when it comes to me going out with the girls they get so messed up about it; especially if a guy friend wants to tag along!! Man. It sucks though; but they are the funniest people i know. [besides dave chappell]!!
SandRAWRz
i love my mommy..she's like a best friend
annalucky
Love them.
They can be so asian at times though..if you get what I mean. If you don't, then forget it.
WindSorcerous
I do, but lately I have been feeling...disconnected..It's makes me sad.
mzislandpinay
i love my parents tho both of us can get on the wrong foot.
Julie Ann
We aren't 'Best Friends' but they try hard. I know they really love me and are just trying to help me out mostly. But then again I really make them POed and they make me POed too. At least I know they really care. biggrin.gif
eli5e
i odnt think so. ...

my dad ..barely talk to him ..he works alot..

my mom ....omg can't even EXPLAIN ...i have no DOOR because of her. ..lets just say that haha ;]
Anonymous82
what if I get along with my mom and wanted to select "hell no!" for my dad?? lol ermm.gif
xcaitlinx
QUOTE(Chii @ Sep 17 2005, 1:08 AM)
my mother and i have our moments...but the love is always there.

she's overportective of me and that gets out of hand sometimes but she's just trying to keep me safe and focused on school.

*


same here..except with my dad. my mom's the one that keeps him in check and convinces him to let me do things and let me be independant and basically GROW UP.
ichiban
i love them, but they still tend to make me reallllyy mad beyond reason sometime. we don't have such a nice relationship. eh, i can't ever really 'talk' about anything with them because i know they won't get it and they'll just get all crazy about it and crap. and if i ever happen to have boy problems, its not like i can tell my mom about it because im not even supposed to be thinking about boys until im in college and if she finds out i have a boyfriend or something she'll just like, kill me. or somehting. -.-
OhXiet_ItzDonnA
To me, it's sometimes. Like how I get pissed of at them and yell back and feel like I wanna get out of here and othertimes, we're just ok.
x3Death.By.Knife.
ERm, my parents and I get along okay. I get along better with my mom better than my dad. Sometimes I get really pissed at them though. They'll ask the dumbest questions or do such stupid things.. i hate telling them things. -_-'
StarryEyedSurprize
yeah we get along most of the time
tweeak
More often than not.
tweeak
That one's different, though. And I know there's one like this, but I still can't find it...
tweeak
kay then

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