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tiltAhurl13
haven't had a boyfriend in five years, no one cares anymore.
SillyCourtney
Having a boyfriend isn't everything. There are so many more important things in life. Just be patient. Lots of times it's more fun to be single.
mipadi
QUOTE(tiltAhurl13 @ Sep 29 2005, 9:53 PM)
haven't had a boyfriend in five years, no one cares anymore.
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Well...apparently someone cares, or else this post would not have been made.

The thing about relationships is that they don't appear out of thin air. If you are interested in having one, go out and try to find someone! Get a clear picture in your mind of the person for whom you are looking, and when you find such a person, strike a conversation, try to hang out with him sometime. A big part of getting into a relationship is not moping about how you don't have one; you can only find someone if you are happy with yourself and overall content.
EddieV
I envy you, I probably couldn't survive that long..
Teesa
Don't worry, people still do care _smile.gif hug.gif

There are a lot of people that have never even had a boyfriend, so try to think of your past relationship as a good experience and look forward to new opportunities.
Chii
relationships are incredibly overrated my dear...just enjoy being single. relationships come with drama, fights, tears, and a lot of stress.
PinkTrash
Thats not necessarily a very bad thing.. but sometimes its better to have one boyfriend that actually means a lot, and lasts a long time whether than a lot of boyfriends.
Levy2k6
yeah i sorta know how u feel.. me and my gf had been going out for like 5 months and before that.. i was single for 4 years.

i think the more u wait, the better it is when u get a relationship started.. think about it. u've been wanting a relationship so bad that when you do get one, its like finally. i have someone. and it just feels so good
_sarcastic_
it's not a bad thing being single. i mean you get to have more fun, enjoy being single you've still got a long way ahead of you
topsyturvy
Please don't assume being single is worse than being in a relationship, because that's what i did and i regret it. I thought my life would be complete with a guy, but when a guy came along, it still wasn't complete. In fact, i was lonelier (sp?) because i was expecting so much from him but he wasn't able to fulfill my needs.

I'm not saying this is exactly what will happen to you, but here's my bad experience and i thought you should know about it ermm.gif
yummy_delight
Oh, please.

Looking for a sympathy post, ladies and gentlemen? Well, here it is.

So you're going through a long dry spell. Cry me a f*cking river. Get up and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Don't sit at the comp and cry about it over the internet. I'm sure you like someone. If you want a relationship that bad, make a move, for goodness sakes.
aznxdreamer
so
angelrevelation
at least you've actually had one... or a few or w.e. so you know that you aren't unlikeable. just be patient.
Aoiro
Er...
Go out and find one?
Sure, it's been five years.
But you shall definately find the man you're lookin' for.
Don't worry, it you wait longer, the better.
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