I hate being in situations like this. Where you have no idea what to do, or how the guy feel's about you. Well in my case..theres 2.

Over this summer I spent a lot of my time with 2 guy's. Now there nothing a like. Total opposites.

One's Nick...Nick is amazing, I feel in love with his personality rather his looks. Hes a true sweet heart, and knows how to make any girl smile. He would spend most of his time with me whenever his friend brough him up. This of course upset his friend, but he was okay with it cause he hung out with the friend I brought up. Now that school started I havent seen Nick at all. The last time i seen him was in July. We don't go to the same schools, but our school does go to his school for sporting events. Nick plays football, and I cheer. He accepts that. Only I'm varsity he's JV. I just happened to make varsity, even though I only had one year of JV experience. This saturday Im going to be going to his school for a football game. I can't wait.

Then theres Brendan. He's Nick's opposite I swear. But hes gorgeous. Everyone loves him. He doesnt have to make girls fall for him, they just do. Over this summer we spent everyday together... everyday. We flirted all the time. Later on I found out he had a gf, by the way he acted I would have never guess that in a million years. But brandan plays soccer is a senior, and has a okay personality. Hes a gansta, thats what i dislike about him. Im sure he knows i like him, but he still brings up other girls anyways. Maybe he doesnt. But everyone around us know that i do. Anyways my whole point of this..was... advice from you guys..Im stuck..i hate this situation.

On oct. 14 i Nick is going to be in town, for a football game his starts at 4:30. But I have practice 5-7 at my school. I talked to my mom about it...and she told me she will bring me to town to see him. I was soo excited..i could hang out with nick during his schools varsity game!. But turns out..brendan is going to be at my school for a soccer game that begins at 6:30. They both want me to go see them, but I cant decide which one to go see.

Nick and I had this thing going on for a couple months..with the other one its just flirting, nothings happening. And also this will be the last time I see them..again...till next summer.

Which one would u go see......thanks u guys.

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Well, you can go to the football game. That starts at 4:30 right? And the soccer game is at 6:30..but you have practice at 5-7....hmm...maybe you can go to the football game and then to practice. I'm not sure.. or u can go to the football game and then go to the soccer game.

Or you can go with Nick since u said u and him got a thing going on? And that all you and Brendan do is flirt?

Hmm..this is pretty tough to squeeze in but I know how you feel and I was trying to think of ways you can see them both but this is all I can think of.

I would love to go to both, but seeing my mom work's till 4:30 and doesnt pick me up till 4:45 it would be impossible. Because my practice is at 5.

Me and Brendan talk and flirt alot. He once asked me for my sn but we only talked like 5 times online and not for long.

Im just confused cuz i like them both and either way its the last time im going to see each of them.

Any more advice?

i would go wth nick, brenden seems like a total player and he has a girlfriend correct? so theres kinda no point but maybe just leave him at the side. and for Nick he seems like a good person. and if you really want to see him, forget practice! unless its the first practice in the year. If you really want to see him you'd see him, and maybe show up for half of practice. you also said that you school and his school go to sporting events together. well i dont think it will be the last time you see him until summer. id say go with nick.

but its just my opinion choose whatever you feel is right.

Yeah, I would go for Nick, since you two had a thing, whereas with Brendan, you two just flirt (even though he has a girlfriend). And, it's good that you love his personality too.
I say go see Nick, especially since you two don't see each other often, but it's really up to you.

G's dont play soccer. What position does nick play? It all depends on the position.

Nick doesnt play soccer, he plays football.

Also yesterday Brendan got back with his x gf. Why I have no fricken idea. He dated her through out the summer, but broke up with her 3 week's ago, and complainted to me the whole time how she cheated on him and is a slut, yet now that school is back in sesion hes back with her. I see him sunday.

And the sports thing, Nick only plays football, and i cheer for football and basketball, durring basketball season nick does hockey. So this is the last time I see brendan and Nick...

well that already shows it. brenden is back with his girlfriend. go for nick.

I'm aware of that. You said Brendan plays soccer, so I revert to my previous statement.

G's don't play soccer.

I dont understand him. Most guys should be happy if they have a gf. Not him he wants more, he wants to shine, and he wants all the attention. I hate when guys try to make girls fall for them when they know they cant have him..

I see Nick tomorrow, i guess it will tell how whos game i go to the 14th...i hope its the right one But im taking all your guys views into proportion (sp)

haha being single kicks ass !!

I would go for Nick too : ) he seems to be perfect