I need help!!!!
Okay, my best friend. Well...yea he is totally gorgeous but we have been best friends forever. And Him and his g/f just broke up. The g/f is one of my friends...not close cuz she goes to a different school but close enough. Well I'm starting to get feelings for him. And it's bugging me because I don't want to hurt anyone. On top of that our mom's don't get along and my mom said I could never date him. People say he likes me, and they think we both have a thing for each other. We are always around each other too! I just don't know what to do. I don't know if I should convince my mom to let me date him if we would in the first place. And what about his ex. What do I do about her!?!? HELP! PLZ!



tori

-Are you sure he feels the same way about you, because you really shouldn't start something that he isn't feeling, and maybe he isn't even over his ex yet?
-Parents can be a real b*tch but then again who has to know, you should be able to go out with who you want...they don't have to know everything
-What's the problem with the ex, would it matter if she knew you two were going to go out? if not then go for it, it's always worth a try at least you can say that you went for it!

I wouldn't trust those "people." There could be backstabbers lurking about.

Remember that if you do date him behind your Mom's back, she will find out, then she'll lose the trust she had in you, and boo hoo.

If the guy broke up with his ex, no. If vice versa, maybe.

There are three individuals at stake here: your mother, your friend (his ex), and yourself. What's your choice?

just askin... isnt this topic supposed to be in the relationship forum? wow im so not ready to be a mod or a xanga staff or a people staff...tsk tsk... heh gina is right

My bad. I'm new to this thing and I didn't realize there was a relationship thing here! Kk! I'll go to that one! Lol! Sowwy guyz!

Talk to the ex. since you guys are sorta close, and see if its ok...Then talk to your mom about it, and tell her "Why does it matter? I thought it counted if we really liked eachother..." Or maybe go out with the guy without telling your mom, but when the relationship goes rather...Maybe when your really close to the guy, you should tell your mom. She should understand. And i duno. It might now work since you guys know too much about eachother and are too close. And if you guys ever broke up...I duno if you'll ever become friends again. I went out with 9 guys, and umm...Only 2 of them are still my sorta good friends.

Moved to Relationships

You should ask him first of all if he likes you. I know it'll be weird, but hey, you said you two are close.

Thanks Susan.

umm.. well both ur moms dont get along but u guys are still best friends right? so if u guys are best friends that means u hang out a lot htats almost the same as dating except no kissing and other stuff.. lol well.. u should ask urself if u realy like him, if u do then let him know, if u dont then let him go

Hmmm....don't go for it.
Bestfriends are always gonna be there whilst lovers will leave and such.
Just think about it though...

- Chinkieeyedpnoi

oh honey.. if you have feelings for him,.. then tell him.. be happy;)

^ Yup what candylizious said. Just tell him that you like him. Mabey he'll like you back. Haha...got complete confidence in you!