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coconutter
Okay, so I still like my ex, which we broke up las year, but I still like him and all. Well, my so called "friend" just got dumped by him because he wants to go out with me!! I really really want to go out with him, but it's not in my nature to be mean, and if my friend doesn't want me to go out with him, I don't know what I'll do!! Help me please
technicolour
COMMUNICATION.

Talk to your friend.
Yes your friend is going to be down and gloomy...but there are 2 people in a relationship and they both have feel the same way. Obviously, the guy likes you. She needs to understand that too.

One chunk of advice. If you and your ex get back together though, no making out/kissing whatever in front of her..until she's more comfortable..
doork
well .. does you 'friend' knows you like him if so .. then why did she went out with him in the first place .. cause where im from .. friends dont do that to friends .. but its jus my opinon .. rolleyes.gif
coconutter
Well, my friend didn't know I liked him when she went out and she still doesn't, but she WOULDN'T understand because she's got an attitude problem.
doork
QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Sep 26 2005, 4:35 PM)
Well, my friend didn't know I liked him when she went out and she still doesn't, but she WOULDN'T understand because she's got an attitude problem.
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well .. then too bad she has to deal with it.. happy.gif
coconutter
Lol, I wish I could say that.
Aoiro
Just go out with him.
Tell your friend reasons.
Say you really like him no matter what.
...Yeah
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_sarcastic_
if you really like him, don't let your friend stop you from going out. but of course you still gotta understand where she's coming from, she just got dumped by the guy you're gonna go out with.
just talk to her, reason with her.
silver-rain
Yeah, talk to her, and see how she feels about him. And maybe let her know about you two. But if you two aren't really close, then go out with him.
Chii
just tell her that you want to give it another go with him. it wouldn't be too fair for her to not let you date him. you didn't prevent her from going out with him and you had him first.
PreludeTears
Okay here my advice, he went out with her cause she caught his interest but saw he only really liked you, so he wants to get back with you. Okay first off what the F**K is that? Does he think your going to be there waiting for him as he goes and plays other girls? its like Oh Im bored of her friend so ill go back with her cause I know in the end i can just go back to her. Thats just wrong
coconutter
He ended up going back out with her anyway. What does he think he can do anyway? Just get whatever girl he wants? So moving on... He surely knows how to piss girls out...
Chii
QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Sep 28 2005, 8:56 PM)
He ended up going back out with her anyway.  What does he think he can do anyway? Just get whatever girl he wants? So moving on... He surely knows how to piss girls out...
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oh hell no. what an ass mad.gif does he not care that he is ruining the friendship between you two? don't even waste your thoughts on him, he's such a piece of sh*t. stubborn.gif
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