ok me n my best friend liked the same guy once but she liked him 1st so in repect 4 the frenship i told he ri liked him n stoped likin him 4 her rite after i told her... n now me n her like the same guy again hoewever i like the guy 1st... she didn tell me she liked him till i asked her n 5 mins b4 i asked her we were jokin bout her likein him n she didn say nehtin... now im relly hurt... if she told me wen we were messin round or b4 i asked her i wudnt have been hurt i wwuda been perfectly ok wit it but now i am jus like ugg.... n very extremely hurt ne advice i need sum
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thoughts would help 222 am i the only erpson in the world who has problems liek tis?

personally..i would just let it go..its drama that you dont need to worry about...

since you gave up on the guy she liked, i think she should also do the same. i really dont think it matters that much who liked who first, but who the guy likes.. this never really happened to me yet but anyways good luck in whatever happens

she shud of at lest told me kus actually the guy is our best friend

yeah..i guess she should have told you..but think..in about 10 years..where are you guys gonna be?? what are you guys going to be worrying about?? are you going to be worrying about who liked who first or when or anything?? i honestly dont think so..but i guess if you want..argue about it now..laugh about it later

wats relly botherin n y it relly hurts kus outta respect 4 the friendship i told he rn stoped like the guy 4 her yet wen it komes 2 me she didn even tell em im not sayin she shud stop likein him all im asayin is tat inrespect 4 the friendship she shuda told me... its sumthin kalled H.O.N.E.S.T.Y

just try to let i go. theres other guys out there. its not goood situation to be on

awww... wow so many topics abot this...it`z ok.. u can share and we help^^ newais... u shuld talk this wit ur friend...and ask that guy...who he prefers..even tho it hurts... ay... i knoe i read some of these ppls comments like tell her to stop liking him... u neba knoe u and her might end up liking the same guy agen... so... jus ask... and if he said none...then tell ur friend heh? or.... um... o man.. i used to kno how to solve this problem-_-;; my friends were like this too...they once cat fight too haha but i dont think u went in that situation hahaha... but yeah aigo..jus ask him that question..who he prefers^^

just remember friends aren't friends if a guy [[or anything for that matter]] tears the friendship up even for a while

well, i if she knew you liked him and didn't say anything about it then i guess she was just trying to be a good friend ... probably didn't say anything cuz she didn't want to hurt you. but then justifying ur feelings as "i liked him first" really doesn't mean anything, i mean it really doesn't matter in the end. about the time you stopped liking the other guy, wasn't that an act of selflessness? itz kinda sad if you expect her to do the same because of a past kind deed you did for her. my advice would be to just leave it as is, or forget about the guy. is that guy really worth hostile feelings in ur friendship? ?

soz i rlli dont kno wat 2 do in ur case but damn thats annoyin thats hapened 2 me twice ... onli one of em made an impact coz she liked my bf while she wuz datin sum1 else n my bf then liked her b4 he liked me so i rlli felt stuk in the middle. if she s a gud enuf friend she wudnt wan2 hurt u..jus ignor the situation hmm not sure i shud b sayin that but words can hurt haaha im not v/gud with this whole advice crap

one of you drop the guy. case closed. best friends #1 priority. do rock paper scissors.

drama!

i guess.. some ppl arent as honest as u think they are

one of you guys needs to drop it. HOnestly, i think that if you dropped ur feelings for a guy because of the friendship, then i think you know what the friendship means to you, and how significant it is to drop this. Tell her how you feel.