why do guys have to act so wierd when they miss you..instead of telling you they miss you and they wanna see and talk to you, you have to go thru a total WW3 for them to tell you anything str8 up! grrr mike u make me sick!

I guess it depends on their age? Men my age don't do that. Remember, boys mature slower than girls. I'm not trying to say guys are slow, but it is a proven fact.

^ i agree.
but then my bf doesn't do that. he tells me straight out that he misses me?

...I don't understand people in general

*shrug*

Because men were put on this Earth to piss us women off.

I so second that.

That's becuase we're still bitter that you ate the fruit of the tree of knowledge and good and evil and screwed us out of Eden.

^^ haha.

Well, yeah it might depend on your age. My boyfriend and my ex never did that, they would usually tell me when they missed me.

Boys aren't as good as expressing their feelings like girls are. Most girls are mushy gooshy.. and a lot of guys think they should play tough. saying "Imiss you, baby" might make them feel.. less "manly"

LMAO!

I think it's just...a guy thing. They dont want to show a sensitive side, ok some guys sure but the ones i know? Nah.

They need to "Be A Man"...

pffttt...Cheap excuse.

I tell my girlfriend that I miss her and love her all the time.
._.

How old are you anyway? I'm guessing your boyfriend is like, 12 or 13. I'm 14, and have no problem saying that stuff.

Well, I do act older than I am though. :\

usually i'd find a girl annoying and i wouldn't actually miss them...

my boyfriend tells me straight out if he misses me...

but anyway, i think it's fantastic that you say that your boyfriend makes you sick.

That's because they pissed me off too.

I think it's natural for everyone to be pissed off.

Amen, brother.

^ good point

To all the guys out there, it's so cute when you say you miss us.

Way not to sound sexist, Justin

...It's kinda weird. When It comes to certain things between my gf and I, I just can't find the right words to express my point. I tell her I miss her when I don't see her for a while...

...like right now...

Yes, this will make a guy feel confortable enough to respond most of the time. And girls are thought of as "cute" when they get all mushy. Guy's are thought of a total wusses who are easy (By women and men) BAD!


Because either:

1.They don't miss you

2.They know they shouldn't tell you.


1:Pretty straight foward and you're just forcing them to lie

2: Every guy with half a mind about women knows not to lose control of themselves (I.E stop pouring out compliments/emotions) and if you get a guy started, he won't stop and you'll eventually break up with them(Gaurenteed) if they become overly open.


And, not saying they miss you, makes you constantly think about them that sub counciously just makes you love them even more.


-Joshua

Maybe if his friends are around?
Or maybe he just wants to show you he's tough no matter what?
@_________@;;

I dunno I matured pretty quick in life but ...

Boys = 1-12 -might be going thru puberty.
Teen =13-17 - body still changing.
Adult =18-wheneva- this is a rare case but some have emotional supressed memories having a hard time showing emotion either through a tramatic experience or if they don't like showing it or even distant maybe.

...I dont think I had a problem communicating in that manner or I dont remember but hey whos counting.

I don't have this problem. My boyfriend always tells me when he misses me or wants to see me because even though I'll see him in the halls for like 5 seconds everyday we really never hang out because we're both SO busy.

eh..i dont have that prob. my "very very close friend" just tells me if he misses me.

never had a relationship with a guy, so it wouldn't be fitting to include guys in that statement, would it?

WOW!!! i know huh? they just sweet talk you; yet they dont let the real words come out! jeeze; going through the same thing don't worry!! hehe...he alwyas wanna see me when he misses me; yet has no good excuse for it!! haha...

OHH YEAHH i forgot to say; hes laready a freshman in highschool!! wouldn't he be mature enough??

Shy? maybe he is the shy type haha.

uhmm
wow anyways
don't worry about it maybe he's jsut a little shy about telling you what he really feels sometimes the things that mean the most are the hardest to say

maybe your boyfriend isn't the mushy cheesy kind.
mine tells me he misses me when he does.
and we girls, love it when they do.

They probably wanna poke some fun at you to get some WWE or they're not in the right mood to say that they miss you so they probably wanna change it around.

maybe it's cuz he doesn't miss you. always havta look on the realistic side

i guess you guys arent comfortable with each other enough? well a typical boyfriend would be able to say tell if they do o_o

Yeah that could be a reason too, if all their life was a lonely person and they never said or missed anyone before, they are just not used to say that str8 in your face and then to hug/kiss you or whatever...

guys just don't want to look weak i guess... =\ that's the only thing i can think of.... but i think that if the guy really does love you, he won't be embarrassed to say that he misses you...

i really don't know. they won't tell me. they would just act childish in front of me and .. but i adore that because it makes them extremely cute.

my psychologist told me that females are generally more sensitive than males cuz of some nerves in the heads...

chics analyze everything
while dudez have no clue what hez doing wrong

i agree that they are here to piss us off
but itz just their nature that they are not as sensitive or as thoughtful
altho guys can def learn to be those

itz all good i think
i understand so i dont really get dramatic about that
or maybe i have a man brain

My boyfriend doesn't do that, he just says "I miss you". I guess it depends on how shy the guy is.