i was just wonDering....when guys break up wit hthere girlfriends, or get duMb. do they cry?? i kno u guys get sad but i was jsut wondering!! it seems to me that gurls are the only ones that sho it.

i remember a topic like this from ye back.

some guys cry, most dont. maybe it depends on how much you loved them i dont know.

in a meaningful relationship we do....we wait till after the conversation or phonecall to let the emotions set in. -- and any other guy who says otherwise knows there lieing...

Depends on the guy more than the relationship. I have yet to cry upon breaking up wit one of my girlfriends. There are just more important things in life.It ain't worth crying for.

why would girls be the only ones allowed to cry?

btw, your topics annoy me. ;\

lol ^ i knew someone would say that soon jelly

o_o why not just ask a guy friend?

why wouldn't they? everyone cries.

i know for a fact that my first ex did.

i din't say that girls are the only 1's allowed to cry!!! if my topics annoy u sooo much y r u always leavin comments on my topics!!! so go off snd go bother sumbodie else.

Most don't. But if it was a long and serious one, its a good chance.

lol go jells!

All the boys I went out left me crying, it's kind of pathetic.

Guys are heartless; it depends on how serious the relationship. Usually they don't like to cry IN FRONT of people though.

thats kinda how i feel about it. the only things thats cry wothy for me is: death and something really sad/bad happening in my family. we're not heartless though i dont cry for a breakup, but guys do think about you guys alot and are depressed for a long time. and there is alot of deep thinking involved. only in certain situations does that get to the point of crying. you dont necessarily have to cry just to show how much u miss/love/appreciate the signicant other you lost.

GUYS DON'T HAVE FEELINGS!!!

I suppose it depends on how serious the relationship was. I know that my ex probably didn't cry when he broke up with me, and according to my boyfriend, he didn't cry over his exes either...

well i hate break-ups...i really do alot...and well i really never broke up with a girl...they cheated on me or i moved away or was to far to carry on the relationship so we always decided to together..but if i break up with a girl..i will say im sorry and cry my heart out..because if i asked her out to begin with and ended up breaking her heart and leaving her...i will feel bad and drown in tears

p.s. no im not gay..im just really into relations and love is a big thing...i take it serious

DUBYA TEE EFF, Oh EM EFF GEE, LYK< CRYING MAKES YOU GAY!!!!! !eleven!

pssh.

oh god.

i know i was kidding, but that still makes my skin crawl

i agree.

why wouldnt they cry? they might not cry in public, but does that mean that they dont have emotions at all?

That totally made my morning


I know my boyfriend and I have had a lot of ups and down over the past 2 years, and when we break it off (temporarily of course) or if we get in a big fight or if somthing goes wrong, we both tend to shed a lot of tears...And I don't cry. I'm kinda heartless, he cries more than I do. But I think it shows maturity when I guy can show his emotions. Guys who hide them are trying too hard to be macho and they are just going to end up hurting themselves.

my friend broke up with her ex and when that happened, he cried all week.now, he has a new gurl.

i cried

Nope. They are not heartless.

Aww...i remember back in 6th grade i was in a serious relationship...and i broke up with him during lunchtime and he started crying! i felt so bad. we got back together like the next day.

dont always fall for the old crying trick sometimes haha^

lol i think he was seriously crying though. it was way back .... i hope his tears were sincere!

me too cayte, me too lol :but dont be too suuuure! hehe:

I don't think most guys cry, after the break up, they'd probably be really sad for a while, but then..I don't know. Then again, some guys are more sensitive than others, so they might cry.

I ...because im really into relations and blah...so yeah

im a touchy guy

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So, still together ?

hell no... i barely talk to him anymore. he's a pothead now.

yeah i cryed when we broke up for like 20 mins. .
she said i was the worst boyfriend to my face.
witch made me cry. but i got her back and made her cry!

if ur sum kinda pu**y

of course we do!

We do when it's something important, like our team loses the pennant, or we can't find the remote control.

why are these people allowed to live?

^ lmao....well i wonder the same...well i was kidding when i said i do...a break-up is something that you dont cry over but you take a little time out and probably go to your room and think it over...instead of crying a river...thats what i will do

exactly

haha i just read ^ what he wrote....the remote control?...lmao

I almost did when my ex broke up with me. But of course I havent cried in 3 or 4 years, not even when one of my relatives died.

I cried when I just thought of breaking up with her, although when I did, I didn't cry....

cant say it any better and i dont know why..but the same with me...i remember i was dating this girl for 5 months and well her bestfriend told me she had plans to break up....so i went home, and i crying and repeating to myself "i cant lose her..i cant lose her" "why lord" and yada yada yada....well when she pulled me aside..i was like ohh ok...um ok bye..and then the first girl i say i said "hey whats yo' name" and then i got my love live back on track

^
max, that font is insanely annoying

Sorry bro...i wanted to write it differ, but couldnt think of a good looking font...is there a topic or a place that show you all the fonts we can use...i hate the ones that are in the drop down list

I cried for a week -__- go figure

My ex cheated on me, I let her go like I was firing somebody and did it with the coolness of an icecube.

there ya go^ haha

my eyes watered up but i didnt exactly cry i guess
it was long distance so we were both got choked up over the phone while we talked about it
yeah....
it actually happened a couple hours ago. meh. long distance truly sucks unless you can see each other once a month or so. but we lived about 1800 miles apart...so yeah. i'll shut up.

:edit:
nevermind. i just talked to her on the phone. i definitely cried.

:edit AGAIN:
nevermind. we're back together. lol.

that was weird.

some do.
especially if the relationship was special

Yes, guys do cry. You aren't human if you don't cry about anything at all. If you don't cry, then how are you capable of smiling and frowning? It's just society has put such an emphasis specifically on guys crying that many think they can't or shouldn't or shouldn't let others see.

First, you should never stop yourself from crying. BUT there are times when you shouldn't let someone see you cry. And that is when you're going through a breakup. As a guy, you should never let a girl see you cry when you guys are breaking up. When girls see a guy cry (over them), it tugs at their heart like crazy and it makes them want to stay. However, they're only staying because they feel bad, not because they want to. If you want to find out how they really feel, don't cry to them. Go home and cry to your pillow.

Losing a loved one is hard, and crying is sometimes the best thing you can do when you have no one to talk to. Talk to your pillow and let your tears be the words. In time, you will get tired of crying and life will be better.

PS. Just because a guy moves on with his life (has a new girl) after he cried over one does not necessarily mean his tears are insincere. It jus means he's moved on with his life.