A list about relationships, I made Options

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

This is a list about relationships, what to do and not to do in one. I made it up. Please give some feedback. Opinions? Disagree? Agree? Enjoy!

1.Do not pressure the couple by doing these such things: ("Aww let them be alone", "I'll just leave you guys together.", "KISS HER ALREADY, WHAT KINDA BOYFRIEND ARE YOU?") Its their relationship, let them decide if they want to rush things or not.

2.Do not tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love them when you just hooked up, especially if you don't even know them that well (gone out for 3 days.) no matter how much you like them.

3.Don't use the word love if you don't really mean it, just cause it sounds better than try like very much try something different: (you're so sweet, I'm so glad we're together.)

4.Do not flirt with one of the couple, its rude. Even if you like them at least wait till they're single.

5.After your friend and her girl/boyfriend spilt, do not tell your friend that he/she was not good enough for them. You can't prove that that's true and it does nothing. Try asking them why they think the relationship ended. It might help them think about all the bad things they did.

6.If you've never done anything other than online, then it's not a relationship. Not matter how close you are online.

7.If your friend hooks up with the person you like and you never told her how you felt, don't talk bad about them. You should've told them. Be happy for them, no one likes a jealous backstabber.

8.If you like someone else more than you like your boyfriend/girlfriend, break up with them. It hurts them more, if they find out later on.

9.If you like your friend's boyfriend/girlfriend, that's fine. Just as long as you don't try to break them up.

10. By all means, do not ditch your friends for a girl/boy. Tell them that you're going with your friends and you will have a whole day to spend with them some other time.

11.Do not hook up with your best friends ex, no matter how much they dislike each other, that's just wrong.

12. Do not lie especially if you're a bad liar.

13. Do not abuse your friends boyfriend (smack them, even if it's just for fun) only the girlfriend can do that.

14. Do not assume that your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on you if they are talking to one of the opposite gender they probably have many, if not alot of female/guy friends. Only if you see flirting going on, may you go up smack them.

15. Do not tell them that they are the only one you have thought of the whole day, because that us a lie. There are many people that go through your mind, you think about your friend and what they just said. You think about the teacher how mean she is.

16. If you're a girl and you're cold, make sure your boyfriend sees it, if you're a guy and you're cold. Don't let anyone know.

17. Don't change for anyone even your girlfriend/boyfriend, if they don't like your attitude, only you can decide what needs changing and what doesn't.

18.Don't get mad at them because they didn't spend time with you today, give them their space, they have their alone with friends time as well.

19.Don't cry for everything, oversensitive people can send them the wrong message & it gets annoying. If you're not perfect, don't expect them to be, they make mistakes. give them a break.

20.If you see that your friend and their boyfriend/girlfriend are having a hard time talking, help them! Break the ice. It could be hard talking to your boyfriend/girlfriend sometimes.

21.Don't use the word "hate", no matter how much you dislike them. Hate would mean that if I gave you a BB gun right this second you can shoot them dead with no regrets what so ever.

22.Directed to the guys, if your girlfriend is cranky and giving you an attitude: (throwing snobbyness around) don't take it personally. It's just a thing girls go threw. Period.

23.When his girlfriend smacks him and expects it to hurt, he has to pretend it didn't hurt.

24.When his girlfriend smacks him and it really does hurt, he has to hold it in

[SandRAWRz]

16. If you're a girl and you're cold, make sure your boyfriend sees it, if you're a guy and you're cold. Don't let anyone know.

aww..that's cute

7.If your friend hooks up with the person you like, don't talk bad about them. Be happy for them, no one likes a jealous backstabber.

but won't the friend be a lying backstabber

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

haha 16 is cute good job

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

aww..that's cute
but won't the friend be a lying backstabber

^ Oh that's true, thanks for telling me. I will have to adjust that

[topsyturvy]

21.Don't use the word "hate", no matter how much you dislike them. Hate would mean that if I gave you a BB gun right this second you can shoot them dead with no regrets what so ever.

Well said. Good job

[b0st0ngrl]

11.Do not hook up with your best friends ex, no matter how much they dislike each other, that's just wrong.

^Amen. :)

[Trolling]

Sucks to be a guy... I hate the cold... Ooo and if for the couples... Dont listen to what other peopel say, its not their approval you are seeking.

[HoodieObsessed]

I completed, 100%, and truly agree with #2 and #3. I find it so incredibly fake and a complete turnoff when they say they love me right off the bat. The word shouldn't be used carelessly.

[*danielle_x3*]

good job good job. flowers for you
i'm going to re-read this again because i liked it so much.

[Xprezsion]

8.If you like someone else more than you like your boyfriend/girlfriend, break up with them. It hurts them more, if they find out later on.

So true my friend learned that the hard way, you can never get away with cheating. Goodjob with the list!

[eccentricity]

I totally agree with 3. And 16 is so cute.
Good job!

[its_annah]

Good Job! I agree.

[CrazayChristian]

2.Do not tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love them, especially if you don't even know them that well (gone out for 3 days.) no matter how much you like them.

3.Don't use the word love if you don't really mean it, just cause it sounds better than try like very much try something different: (you're so sweet, I'm so glad we're together.)

I don't agree with #2. I think you CAN tell them you love them,IF YOU KNOW IT. And by know it, I mean after a year or so of seriously knowing eachother.)and 3 contradicts 2.

[teeners4]

haha they are SOOO true haha some of them are cute though. and some of them are harsh but true =\

[kill me please]

yeah most of those are true. i knew that, but some people need to read this

[pinayprincess]

1.Do not pressure the couple by doing these such things: ("Aww let them be alone", "I'll just leave you guys together.", "KISS HER ALREADY, WHAT KINDA BOYFRIEND ARE YOU?") Its their relationship, let them decide if they want to rush things or not.

TRUE THAT LOL

2.Do not tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love them, especially if you don't even know them that well (gone out for 3 days.) no matter how much you like them.

TRUE, BUT A GUY OR GIRL ALWAYS HAS THAT OPEN OPERTUNITY TO SAY I LOVE YOU WHEN THEY REALL REALLY MEAN IT...

3.Don't use the word love if you don't really mean it, just cause it sounds better than try like very much try something different: (you're so sweet, I'm so glad we're together.)

YEH

4.Do not flirt with one of the couple, its rude. Even if you like them at least wait till they're single.

EXACTLY... SHEESH, FALL BACK BITCHES, IM TAKEN, HES TAKEN, WE TOGETHER -- MAYBE NEXT TIME LOL

5.After your friend and her girl/boyfriend spilt, do not tell your friend that he/she was not good enough for them. You can't prove that that's true and it does nothing. Try asking them why they think the relationship ended. It might help them think about all the bad things they did.

IM SAYIN, NOBODY KNOW WHAT EXACTLY HAPPENED... EVERYBODY JUST GOTTA DROP TO THE BOTTOM LINE AND THINK ABOUT SOMETHING BAD

6.If you've never done anything other than online, then it's not a relationship. Not matter how close you are online.

PEOPLE WHO DO THAT IS TOO SCARED, OR JUST GOT NO LIVES TO GET A REAL MAN OR GIRL

7.If your friend hooks up with the person you like and you never told her how you felt, don't talk bad about them. You should've told them. Be happy for them, no one likes a jealous backstabber.

WELL IT WOULD BE A DIFFERENT STORY IF YOU DID TELL HIM HOW YOU FELT, NOW WOULDNT IT?

8.If you like someone else more than you like your boyfriend/girlfriend, break up with them. It hurts them more, if they find out later on.

THATS WHAT I DID... YEAH IT SOUNDED KIND OF STUPID, BUT I DIDNT HAVE AS MUCH FEELINGS FOR MY [EX] BOYFRIEND AS TO THE OTHER BOY I LIKE [NOW MY BF =)]

9.If you like your friend's boyfriend/girlfriend, that's fine. Just as long as you don't try to break them up.

MY [EX]BOYFRIEND FRIENDS LIKED ME, THEY NEVER DID THAT, SUPRISING THOUGH

10. By all means, do not ditch your friends for a girl/boy. Tell them that you're going with your friends and you will have a whole day to spend with them some other time.

LOL... ARGG IM SUCH A BAD FRIEND... I DID THAT BEFORE

11.Do not hook up with your best friends ex, no matter how much they dislike each other, that's just wrong.

WORD

12. Do not lie especially if you're a bad liar.

LOL "YESSIR"

13. Do not abuse your friends boyfriend (smack them, even if it's just for fun) only the girlfriend can do that.

LOL... OOPS, WELL I'LL DO THAT IF I WANT TO LOL

14. Do not assume that your boyfriend/girlfriend is cheating on you if they are talking to one of the opposite gender they probably have many, if not alot of female/guy friends. Only if you see flirting going on, may you go up smack them.

I DO THAT.. [NO ASSUME... WELL MAYBE, BUT I KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE [EX] FLIRTS]

15. Do not tell them that they are the only one you have thought of the whole day, because that us a lie.

LOL... WELL I KNOW IM NOT LYING B/C THATS ALL I CAN THINK ABOUT HEHE

16. If you're a girl and you're cold, make sure your boyfriend sees it, if you're a guy and you're cold. Don't let anyone know.

YESS

17. Don't change for anyone even your girlfriend/boyfriend, if they don't like your attitude, only you can decide what needs changing and what doesn't.

NEVER IN MY LIFE WILL I DO THAT

18.Don't get mad at them because they didn't spend time with you today, give them their space, they have their alone with friends time as well.

YEAH..

19.Don't cry for everything, oversensitive people can send them the wrong message & it gets annoying. If you're not perfect, don't expect them to be, they make mistakes. give them a break.

NOBODYS PERFECT...SHEESH...

20.If you see that your friend and their boyfriend/girlfriend are having a hard time talking, help them! Break the ice. It could be hard talking to your boyfriend/girlfriend sometimes.

WA?

21.Don't use the word "hate", no matter how much you dislike them. Hate would mean that if I gave you a BB gun right this second you can shoot them dead with no regrets what so ever.

YEAH.. THAT WORD REALLY HURTS =(

22.Directed to the guys, if your girlfriend is cranky and giving you an attitude: (throwing snobbyness around) don't take it personally. It's just a thing girls go threw. Period.

LOL YEAH, EVERY MONTH HAHA

[loljuliana]

i definately agree with 13&16 =)


1000TH POST =)

[maia_dc]

13. Do not abuse your friends boyfriend (smack them, even if it's just for fun) only the girlfriend can do that.

I like that one the best. This is a good list.

[EyesOfBluestSkie...]

2.Do not tell your boyfriend/girlfriend you love them when you just hooked up, especially if you don't even know them that well (gone out for 3 days.) no matter how much you like them.

That may be true under certain circumstances, but that doesn't necessarily apply to everyone. My boyfriend told me after 2 weeks that he loved me, and I believe that he meant it. We've been together 4 months now. And I can't imagine us apart.

But maybe you're maybe more of a realist and I'm definitely more of a romantic .

[lit0chinagirl]

13. Do not abuse your friends boyfriend (smack them, even if it's just for fun) only the girlfriend can do that.

my friends do that to my boyfriend
they mean well though-- i think and hope.

[*suddenly she*]

1.Do not pressure the couple by doing these such things: ("Aww let them be alone", "I'll just leave you guys together.", "KISS HER ALREADY, WHAT KINDA BOYFRIEND ARE YOU?") Its their relationship, let them decide if they want to rush things or not.

OMGYES.
and it's a rare occasion when i say OMG.
and that happened when i didn't even have a relationship with this guy. we were talking about freaking music (okay. in a room. with nobody else, but friends can do that.) and then this "friend" of mine came up and then she was like.. n"evermind, i'll leave you guys alone. "

i was like. the heck.

[jue]

hah i read this on your xanga. Totally agree.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Thanks for all your comments guys
I added two more to the list

[CarbiNe]

22 and 23 and 24 are my favorites

[ashlierae__x]

#1.
ugh. that makes me mad when my friends do that.
It's akward.

I agree w/ everything else too.
; )