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[neezy1126]

OK....SO I HAVE THREE FRIENDS....EACH HAVE "BOYFRIENDS" OR CAN U SAY "f**k BUDDIES" AT LEAST THATS WHAT I SEE THEM AS. NE WAYS [[IMMA MAKE UP NAMES FOR MY FRIENDS]] SAMANTHA IS WITH THIS GUY AND ALL THEY DO IS HAVE SEX WHEN ITS PUBLIC TIME HE IS NO WHERE TO BE FOUND...HE'S ALWAYS WITH HIS BOYS N WHEN PEOPLE ASK HIM WHERES SAMANTHA HE GOES "WHOSE THAT?"....MY 2ND FRIEND CHARISMAH HAS BEEN MESSIN WITH THIS GUY FOR ABOUT A YEAR AND ALL THEY DO IS HAVE SEX AND BEHIND DOORS HE TELLS HER HE LOVES HER BUT IN PUBLIC HE DENIES HER TO THE FULLEST! LIKE ITS OBVIOUS...!!! OKAY WELL ONE DAY I SPEND THE NIGHT AT MY GUY FRIENDS HOUSE HE JUS HAD A PARTY N SOME PEOPLE WERE STAYING THE NIGHT...WELL CHARISMAH AND SAMANTHAS BF'S WERE THERE AND THEY WERE WITH OTHER FEMALES...THEN THEY LEAVE WITH THEM...THE NEXT MORNING I TELL THEM....AT 1ST IT WAS ALL GOOD BECUS I HAD TOLD THEM...ABOUT A HOUR LATER THEY CALL ME PISSED SAYING THAT I SHOULD HAVE NEVER TOLD THEM BECAUSE NOW THEIR BF'S BROKE UP WITH THEM. WAS IT WRONG FOR ME TO TELL THEM? AM I A BAD FRIEND?

[tokyo-rose]

Please don't type in all capitals.

No, you weren't a bad friend to tell your friends how their boyfriends were behaving at the party. Although they might be angry now, in the end they're way better off without their "boyfriends." The guys were extremely immature and inconsiderate of your friends' feelings. Your friends deserve better than that.
Just one question though: How did they feel about being denied in public? It seems odd that they'd endure this denial for so long.

[luckylifex]

Agreed with Wo0yaPo0ya. Caps give my headaches.

And no, you weren't being a bad friend. Your friends deserved to know the truth.
Sure, your friends will probably be mad for a bit. But they're better off without those jerks.
Those guys don't sound like very good "boyfriends" to me, anyways.

[Mireh]

YOUR FRIENDS ARE DUMB AND FROM NOW ON YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE.

[cori-catastrophe]

It sounds to me like they're not very good friends. I know if I was one of them, I would want you to tell me for sure. No offence, but it I think they are just mad because you ran off their f**k buddies, as you said before. They kind of sound like sluts. Friends like that aren't worth your time.

[micron]

YOUR FRIENDS ARE DUMB AND FROM NOW ON YOU SHOULD JUST LEAVE THEM ALONE.

im sorry what ahppened, but i agree with what she said ^

[*Uronacid*]

Sounds like your freinds would rather be ignorant....

Well, I think your friends are idiots too. You did the right thing. "Do unto others as you would have them do unto you", right? You told your friends what was going on because you would want them to do the same for you.

Like everyone else said, "Your friends are f**king idiots." Let them drown in their ignorance from now on because that's what they're asking you to do.

[demolished]

I dont like your friends. If i were you, i'll find better friends. they are way too immature, inconsiderated, and pathetic. how old are they?

[alysaphobia]

of course you're not a bad friend, the only people being bad friends are yours. if they really think they shared any emotional/sentimental values with their "bfs" who were, in fact, only f&#@ buddies and now blame you for ruining that- they are really immature. there was nothing there for them to miss, anyways.
you should really go get a new set of friends.