little sister syndrome?, guys only see me as a friend... |
 Mar 11 2007, 12:22 AM
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Ok, im not sure what it is but all the guys I like end up 'just friends' But along the way they always give me good signs, and say and do things that make me think that they care...Its infuriating because I get the vibe that they like me a little in a romantic way too, but not enough to all out go after me.
 I think they think of me as like a sis...its not like I dress super conservatively or anything. And I dont want to dress really slutty, since thats not really me either. Ive been told im attractive by guys and girls. And I've tried playing hard to get...it doesnt work with them. lol. i just dont get it...it might be that the guys I choose are more on the shy/polite side. *sigh* aka, the hardest type to nudge into a relationship... Anyone else feel the same? I realize this is more of a rant than a quesition...any suggestions? im a second semester senior, its like the perfect time for me to find a bf 
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Mar 11 2007, 06:11 AM
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 What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
awww
 i've been through that tooactually i'm kind of going through that right now, it sucks. at my school, people can get really caught up in studying, college, sports, music, studying, studying, studying and studying so they don't really have time for relationships most of the time... so nothing romantic happens much. but i'm okay with it since that means like 99% of the girls in my grade don't have bfs either. maybe they get the impression you only like them as a friend? |
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Mar 12 2007, 06:11 AM
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!!Lions GO Rawr!! Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 461,933 |
aww... i know exactly how you feel!
I'm going through that sitch now! it's so horrible! I don't know what to tell you to do... I seem to go for the shy guys too. I just found out recently that the guy I'm crushing on now, likes me as "a friend" more than a crush. Horrible, huh? I got great vibes from him too... He held my hand at a fair we both went too. Confusing, huh?  I do have to say that the shy guys are the best type to crush on. They make the best bfs. They're also the most trustworthy. 
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Mar 12 2007, 08:23 AM
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What a sick, masochistic lion. Group: Member Posts: 1,853 Joined: Sep 2006 Member No: 460,535 |
QUOTE(princess*missy @ Mar 12 2007, 7:11 PM)  I got great vibes from him too... He held my hand at a fair we both went too. Confusing, huh? I do have to say that the shy guys are the best type to crush on. They make the best bfs. They're also the most trustworthy. wow hand holding yet no feelings!? that's so confusing...  but i'll have to agree on you about shy guys. they can be the hardest to get but in the end, totally worth it.  |
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Mar 12 2007, 12:54 PM
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QUOTE(nightowl89 @ Mar 11 2007, 1:22 AM) Ok, im not sure what it is but all the guys I like end up 'just friends' But along the way they always give me good signs, and say and do things that make me think that they care...Its infuriating because I get the vibe that they like me a little in a romantic way too, but not enough to all out go after me. I think they think of me as like a sis...its not like I dress super conservatively or anything. And I dont want to dress really slutty, since thats not really me either. Ive been told im attractive by guys and girls. And I've tried playing hard to get...it doesnt work with them. lol. i just dont get it...it might be that the guys I choose are more on the shy/polite side. *sigh* aka, the hardest type to nudge into a relationship... Anyone else feel the same? I realize this is more of a rant than a quesition...any suggestions? im a second semester senior, its like the perfect time for me to find a bf I know it's tough, but don't worry about it. Relationships are as much trouble as they are appealing. Just continue to be yourself until someone loves you for who you are. Just like the quote in your signature... :] By the way... I love your quote... I have 5 seasons of Sex in the City on DVD, and I love every single one of them. I really need to purchase the last season. |
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Mar 12 2007, 08:05 PM
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 hardxcore. Group: Member Posts: 1,223 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 479,494 |
This happened to me over the weekend. Everyone told me this guy liked me, that all the signs were there. I finally got the nerve to ask him about it. Everyone was wrong.
I'm sorry. |
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Mar 14 2007, 06:10 AM
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QUOTE(Obscure Enigma @ Mar 12 2007, 5:05 PM) This happened to me over the weekend. Everyone told me this guy liked me, that all the signs were there. I finally got the nerve to ask him about it. Everyone was wrong. I'm sorry. awwshies! That hurts horribly! I've had that happen a couple of times... I'm soo sorry!
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