boyfriend confusion?, to believe or not to believe? |
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 Nov 8 2005, 06:45 PM
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Here it goes...
Saturday night was homecoming in my lil town & my boyfriend of 3 years & I went together(of course!) & well when we left my boyfriend's mom(who was drunk) went to visit my mom. They started talking about me & my boyfriend & HIS mom said a lot of things like him not loving me as much as i love him & him not being as committed & that scared her. She also said that he only wants me when its convienent for him. Like even if he's not doing anything he'll put off calling me & stuff but expects me to drop everything at his call. She also said that he thinks I am whipped & would do whatever he says. But my mom told me all this & grant it my mom exaggerates A LOT & his mom says A LOT of weird things when shes drunk. So i kinda talked to him about it(didnt give him many details) & he swears up & down that he's had no intention of us breaking up EVER. (& for the note i am a virgin so that is not why he's with me!) & well now my mom is yelling at me telling me to break up with him & stuff & i just dont know what to do! sorry if i left out details just ask! please give advice though! |
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Nov 8 2005, 06:50 PM
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Don't listen to your mother. Only you and your boyfriend knows how dedicated both of you are. I say listen to what you think is right. 3 years, wow. Stick with him. Obviously he's not after the physical side much
 and thats good.
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Nov 8 2005, 07:38 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,456 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
If youve talked to your boyfriend and he swears he has no bad intentions and you guys still like eachother and love/feel for eachother and want to be together, you should be together despite your moms advice. its not like shes demanding you to break up with him or anything. I think 3 years is too much to waste on something observed by people who dont know what really goes on in the relationship
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Nov 8 2005, 08:48 PM
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man i can't help but to feel like my ex treated me the way that your bf's mom said yours was supposedly treating you -- ugh, such bad memories.
anyways, people say a lot of things when they're drunk so maybe that's only her opinion of things. she's probably just being a little overprotected and thinks that her son would be better off without a girlfriend maybe. people are always stirring up things. so if you feel as though you and him are doing well and that he'll stick with you through rough times and all, you shouldn't worry. i mean you've been together for 3 years already, right? i just hope that the thought of a possible breakup doesnt continously haunt your mind because yeah, it'll affect the way you are around him. |
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Nov 8 2005, 08:52 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,391 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
well, i would beleive my boyfriend...i do beleive...i mean if i find out he lied to me (which is when he'll break up with me) sure i'll be hurt, but ill just kick him in the nuggies!!!
 lols...but you know...that's just me...but seriously if he swears up and down that he never said any of that stuff or whatever and hes STILL lying then he doesn't deserve to be with you anyways right? because he's a BIG FAT LIAR!! 
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Nov 8 2005, 08:56 PM
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Its just I am not sure if he is just so used to being with me that he is scared to be alone or if he really does care for me like i do for him....
& by the way..his mom has lied about things like this before so i dunno.... & she is VERY overprotective of him & LITERALLY gets jealous when he spends a lot of time with me...so i'm beginning to think its her way of keepin him to herself(its kinda freakin the way she is so close to her kids) |
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Nov 8 2005, 09:18 PM
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well if you say your mom exagerates alot then maybe it's not a good idea to believe what she says word for word, maybe some are true but who knows right? if your bf swears he has no intentions and doesn't want to break up i guess he really means it?
like you said, she's overprotective, all the more she'll make up random rumors about her son to keep him away from you. ask him to talk to his mom about it. or work something out |
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Nov 8 2005, 09:31 PM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 301 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
ahh, i can understand her wanting to be close not letting go of her son.
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Nov 10 2005, 05:30 PM
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 duckieee<3 Group: Member Posts: 521 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,962 |
does his mother like you? maybe she's afriad you're gonna take him away from her (meaning marriage)
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