virginity? |
virginity? |
Oct 18 2007, 01:13 PM
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shboom =] Group: Member Posts: 160 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,693 |
just thought it'd be interesting....
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Oct 18 2007, 01:53 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
I'm 19 years old, have been seeing my boyfriend for near 18 months and intend to keep my virtue until after we're married.
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Oct 18 2007, 03:01 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 455 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 445,104 |
^Same:]. I don't believe in sex before marriage unless I am hella in love with the guy. Even yet, I might not because losing my virginity means a lot. Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx.
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Oct 18 2007, 04:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,020 Joined: Feb 2007 Member No: 505,785 |
I think Im going to wait until marriage.
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Oct 18 2007, 06:00 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
I love you guys I promise you won't regret waiting.
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Oct 20 2007, 11:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
Girls that lose their virginity before before they are marry are obviously desperate in my point of view. I can wait thnx. Obviously desperate?!? Have you ever heard of trying it before you buy it? Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if the sex is miserable your relationship is likely to be miserable. I'm not saying go out and fornicate with every dude you have ever had a crush on. I am saying, when you've been with someone for years and you really love them sex is okay. Even if you don't end up marrying that person you can look back on it and be happy that you lost your virginity to someone you cared about so much. |
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Oct 20 2007, 01:02 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
You make a good point Missfits; but some girls (some boys too!) are very protective of their virginity. It can be through upbringing, religion or just a personal choice. It was choice for me; and although I love my boyfriend dearly and would love nothing better than to diddle his brains out sometimes, I make myself wait. I love the idea that virginity is a 'gift' that is given on a wedding night, and I do so want to give that gift to my husband.
As for the 'trying it before you buy it' side of things...I'm sure practise will make perfect even if either of you suck! You have the rest of your lives together to perfect the art of lovemaking. |
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Oct 20 2007, 01:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,586 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 531,256 |
It's not that I don't agree with waiting until your married. It's a sweet thing to to, but MadGamer said "obviously desperate" and that didn't sit right with me.
Sure, sex is a gift but just because I gave it to someone before I was married doesn't mean I am "obviously desperate". |
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Oct 20 2007, 01:23 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
Oh no, I totally agree. That was a little too...I'd say 'abusive' as I can't think of the right word right now XD
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Oct 20 2007, 01:24 PM
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Live long and prosper. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 5,525 Joined: Nov 2006 Member No: 478,024 |
I lost it at 17..
Im still with him too! |
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Oct 20 2007, 02:41 PM
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</3 Group: Member Posts: 1,113 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 106,746 |
I lost it at 15 to my ex boyfriend.
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Oct 20 2007, 03:32 PM
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♡♡♡♡♡ Group: Head Staff Posts: 18,173 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,478 |
I'm 16 and still a virgin.
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Oct 20 2007, 04:37 PM
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(Allison) Group: Human Posts: 420 Joined: Apr 2006 Member No: 395,668 |
I lost it at fourteen to a friend.
Sex doesn't mean much to either of us. To me, it's not that big of a deal. O_o |
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Oct 20 2007, 05:05 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
I find that such a difficult concept to understand, crueldade! Sex is the ultimate expression of love (and lust!)...
I guess it just goes to show. |
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Oct 20 2007, 07:23 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 452,856 |
I lost my virginity when i was like... 5.
BWAHAHHAA. beat that.! |
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Oct 21 2007, 12:19 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,480 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 444,349 |
^I lost mine when I was still a fetus. Beat that!
No but seriously I don't think its that big of a deal, I hate the idea of it being a gift, you lose something and no one gains it so how is it a gift? idk I just don't think its a big deal. Im still a virgin though. |
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Oct 21 2007, 12:24 AM
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pyrobeastilnecrophilaic Group: Member Posts: 217 Joined: Aug 2007 Member No: 562,974 |
you dont know what you got till its gone
especially if it was robbed |
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Oct 21 2007, 12:58 AM
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livin up to the name. Group: Member Posts: 1,594 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,539 |
i was 14
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Oct 21 2007, 05:18 AM
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[BRITT;;] Group: Member Posts: 764 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 433,210 |
there's probably a bunch of similar posts.
but i lost minee when i was 14? yess 14 mhm. but, i'm not with the guy anymore, honestly though, i don't regret it. |
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*jeanna* |
Oct 21 2007, 10:27 AM
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i was 16. i even thought about it for like 2 hours. i didn't really care. it was going to happen eventually and might as well lose it to someone i "loved" at the time. i'm celibate now, i don't regret it. [it sucked so bad haha] even though i sound like i'm saying, "whatever idc", i'm not saying go have sex with everyone. i couldn't have sex with random people like at parties and live with myself.
"Have you ever heard of trying it before you buy it? Sex is an important part of a relationship, and if the sex is miserable your relationship is likely to be miserable." so true. on every talk show they talk about cheating and it's 99% connected to not getting their sex fulfilled. personality towards relationships can only go so far, seriously. |
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Oct 21 2007, 01:22 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
Haha, maybe jeanna! There is the whole 'seize the moment' philosophy vs the 'wait and see' one. But I do think that people that go on chatshows have more issues to them than just bad sex lives To be frank, I don't think I could sleep with anyone besides my future husband. I'm a bit fastidious about it really.
Though I feel I've got to say (again) that although I have been seeing my boyfriend for a year and a half, we're both very happy to wait and consummate our love until after marriage. It is a personal choice; it's always about choice. There is no right or wrong with this. |
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Oct 21 2007, 02:33 PM
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That's what she said. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,559 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 130,200 |
I believe I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my ex boyfriend. I don't regret it. =) I mean, sure it would always be nice to wait til marriage but in most cases that doesn't happen.
What is virginity but an imaginary thing? Is it physical? Or is it emotion? Or is it mental? |
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Oct 21 2007, 02:48 PM
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Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 2,223 Joined: Dec 2006 Member No: 485,356 |
JANE. You've been naughty.
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Oct 21 2007, 03:55 PM
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Kimberly Group: Member Posts: 1,961 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 121,599 |
I'm 18 and I've still got mine. I'm proud to say I've made it this long, but its not something I plan on keeping too much longer.
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Oct 21 2007, 04:03 PM
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Addict Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 3,918 Joined: Jun 2007 Member No: 538,522 |
I believe I lost my virginity when I was 13 to my ex boyfriend. I don't regret it. =) I mean, sure it would always be nice to wait til marriage but in most cases that doesn't happen. What is virginity but an imaginary thing? Is it physical? Or is it emotion? Or is it mental? Physically, it's the hymen. But it is more than that and virignity refers to a purity in spirit and mind, as well as body. It's often referred to as innocence - which is why in a lot of myths and legends, virgins are often gifted with foresight or magical abilities. Once they lose their virginity, they lose their gifts. Sounds to me a lot like an incentive to remain celibate! Not sure if I'd like the trade-off though, haha. |
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