Sleeping (actually sleeping), with your significant other |
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 Oct 22 2006, 03:57 PM
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I was wonding if you thought it was a big deal/new step/w.e to spend a night with your S.O. I know it is sort of a silly question because sleeping seems so juvenile to what people could potentially do over night
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Oct 22 2006, 04:04 PM
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 chinky Group: Official Designer Posts: 2,654 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 434,437 |
I think it's perfectly fine, but you just have to like make sure you stay sane or else you might end up doing something else XP
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Oct 22 2006, 04:07 PM
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I think that it means that your relationship is maturing and that you're more comfortable with your significant other. I think that it's a pretty big step.
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Oct 22 2006, 04:11 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,623 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree with rawr SOCK. i think it's a big deal
i do that with my bf, we take naps or we spend the night at each other's houses. |
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Oct 22 2006, 04:50 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,927 |
and i was just thinking about it....... like wearing silly pj pants XD
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Oct 22 2006, 06:08 PM
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QUOTE(rawr SOCK @ Oct 22 2006, 5:07 PM)  I think that it means that your relationship is maturing and that you're more comfortable with your significant other. I think that it's a pretty big step. i agree. and its so much more romantic just waking up to the person you love. 
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Oct 22 2006, 06:18 PM
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Agreed. I think its a bit of a big deal...it's something wonderful to be able to wake up next to that person. 
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Oct 22 2006, 06:20 PM
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It is the most romantic thing ever! It's one of the best feelings in the world to wake up and have someone you love right next to you. Nothing can compare.
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Oct 22 2006, 06:41 PM
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i love spending the night with my boyfriend so i can wake up to him in the morning. i dont think its a huge step but it meant a lot to me the first time i spent the night with him.
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Oct 22 2006, 07:18 PM
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To me, that is THE MOST AMAZING thing. Waking up in the arms of the person you love most, having their heartbeat be the first thing you hear while your head is on their chest... it's just incredible. There really is no comparison. We've never actually slept overnight or anything, but we take naps all the time. It's really cute
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Oct 22 2006, 08:25 PM
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 Home is where your rump rests! Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,388 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 451,969 |
^Aw, now that's just the cutest thing.
Completely agreed with Elaine, it proves that you feel comfortable around them. |
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Oct 22 2006, 08:37 PM
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Uhm, I would hope theres nothing wrong with it. I would feel kind of bad if I couldn't just sleep with the person I'm with. Atleast naps should be fine, I mean overnight I guess people would kind of wonder.
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Oct 22 2006, 10:11 PM
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 daughter of sin Group: Member Posts: 1,702 Joined: Mar 2006 Member No: 386,134 |
I love the sleeping part :)
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Oct 23 2006, 12:39 AM
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 Starving Artist Group: Official Designer Posts: 612 Joined: Jul 2006 Member No: 437,344 |
I don't know if it's a huge step or not, either, but I love it.
I love waking up next to him, and getting to cuddle all night without worrying about how I'll have to drive home soon. It's amazing. |
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Oct 23 2006, 12:46 AM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,623 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i agree i just love to wake up and the first person i see is him
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Oct 23 2006, 07:06 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,559 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
 This whole thread makes me feeling happy and loverly. Hahaha, and I agree waking up with someone you love would feel really good.
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Oct 23 2006, 08:38 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,626 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
i sleep wit my SO all the time. I come ova to see him after volleyball and after school so im usually very tired so we always end up cuddling and sleeping. Its not a big step but it just means your that comfortable wit em to sleep. its nice to wake up and see their face though
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Oct 23 2006, 03:11 PM
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 Seisuke Group: Member Posts: 301 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,523 |
and you dont wake up thinking,,,,,o its that time of the morning again >.<
...or wake up wondering who stole ur pillows from u |
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Oct 23 2006, 03:39 PM
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 sarcasm hides what you really feel Group: Member Posts: 601 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,105 |
id end up doing something else...but i would love to just fall asleep next to him, nothing more nothing less....
though ive always been the one to zone out, never really losing conciousness though. but i never feel safer/secure than that moment right when i open my eyes and see him
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Oct 23 2006, 06:55 PM
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 cvchango Group: Human Posts: 516 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 332,717 |
it's feels good to cuddle up all cozy together and to fall asleep in each other's arms.
and I agreed that it's a pretty big step. |
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Oct 24 2006, 04:19 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,927 |
so...... does anyone talk in their sleep? lol
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Oct 24 2006, 06:18 PM
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QUOTE(raenbow* @ Oct 22 2006, 2:50 PM) and i was just thinking about it....... like wearing silly pj pants XD Ya usually if im sleeping with a guy i would wear a sexy p.j because.. It just looks better 
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Oct 25 2006, 06:51 PM
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I agree with everyone. sleeping next to your s.o. is the cutest yet most romantic thing everr. :]
it makes me happy, whenever i take a nap next to my boyfriend. sigh. it feels like no one in the world can hurt me. i feel super safe. :], and one day i will sleepover his house lol. but until then, im perfectly fine with napping next to him.  i think this is appropriate... 
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Oct 26 2006, 10:28 AM
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look for the stars as the sun goes down Group: Member Posts: 486 Joined: Aug 2006 Member No: 453,963 |
yeah but what about the parents saying anything about this?...i mean when you suddenly come over your bf's house..what do his parents say?
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Oct 26 2006, 12:54 PM
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 <(- -)><(- - <)(>- -)><(- - )> Group: Member Posts: 640 Joined: May 2006 Member No: 400,609 |
QUOTE(rawr SOCK @ Oct 22 2006, 4:07 PM) I think that it means that your relationship is maturing and that you're more comfortable with your significant other. I think that it's a pretty big step. yea i agree .... with me i dont think i could posses so much self control ( unless i really like trust them enough ) so you have to really know the person to be mature enough to just sleep with them and not do anything. |
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