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everyone hates me..
Watttt
post Feb 15 2007, 08:07 PM
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since i came out of the closet[im bi] noone..likes me. only a couple of friends[who are lesbian] still like me and one of my friends...uuh...what should i do..im getting tired of denying it because i know its true. uh...I REGRET NOTHIN!!!!!!!!
 
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post Feb 15 2007, 08:10 PM
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not everyone can hate you..i think though, that those who do have a problem with your sexuality you should forget. but if they're people who you really had a strong bond with you should confront them & ask them why they think so differently now that you've 'come out of the closet' & btw, i bet you anything if i knew you we'd be pretty chill. bisexual or not :]
 
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post Feb 15 2007, 08:55 PM
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Well now you know who are you real friends and who were just faking it.
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 11:30 AM
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Then go back in the closet!
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 01:13 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 16 2007, 11:30 AM) *
Then go back in the closet!

Lol, aww that's mean...
well at least you know who likes you for who you are. happy.gif
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 01:15 PM
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QUOTE(krnxswat @ Feb 16 2007, 11:30 AM) *
Then go back in the closet!

Ha ha, I like this comment...

I don't know what you're getting at in this post or what you're asking, but didn't you kind of expect that to happen?
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 04:31 PM
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hey, I'm bi too. You just gotta have friends that accept you and are into that kind of stuff. Kinky.
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 04:31 PM
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^Hey, you wanna kiss later?
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 04:32 PM
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QUOTE(Uronacid @ Feb 16 2007, 4:31 PM) *
^Hey, you wanna kiss later?


How about now?
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 04:33 PM
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QUOTE(JakeKKing @ Feb 16 2007, 4:32 PM) *
How about now?


*kiss kiss kiss kiss f**k... ooops*
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 04:34 PM
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Ouch! I won't be able to sit down for days.
 
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post Feb 16 2007, 07:52 PM
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who cares
that just means thay dont like you for wjo you are
so they arent good people at all
just stay w/your lesbian friends!
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post Feb 17 2007, 05:25 PM
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Tell your friends to screw off.

If can't they can't accept you for who you are now, it means that they were never your friends to begin with.
 
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post Feb 17 2007, 05:49 PM
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You call them your friends, the ones that don't like you?


I don't like you either! >:O
PS; don't listen to them, even though everyone else said that. Or fire with fire.
 
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post Feb 17 2007, 05:50 PM
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Maybe the fact that you're so open about something as taboo as sexuality in general is the reason your old friends are put off?
 
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post Feb 17 2007, 06:03 PM
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f**k what others think. Think about what you want and what makes you happy. It will all work out in the end for you.
 
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post Feb 17 2007, 08:18 PM
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If they can't accept that your a lesbian then that's their problem not yours,
Your better off without :)
 
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post Feb 18 2007, 09:12 AM
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I'd love to say "if they can't accept you for who you are, they aren't worth it."
but I know what you're going through, I know me saying that would do nothing. the fact still remains that you miss them. you want them to accept you.
The only thing you can really do is talk to them. remind them that you're still the exact same person you were before you came out, and ask them why their opinion of you changed so drastically.
confront them about it, but be friendly.

and failing that, stick with the friends that are still loyal to you. you'll make new friends eventually.

I went through the same kind of thing... a few of my friends came to their senses.... others didn't.
I've made a lot of new friends since - people who will accept me for who I am.

good luck
 

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