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Posted by: batman May 29 2010, 01:27 PM

it was so stupid. like i didn't give a shit about this guy (from work), but i knew that he liked me and he was kinda cute so i decided to flirt around with it just for fun. like for a few weeks we fooled around and the entire time i was like "god wtf am i doing" and at one point it just felt so wrong, like i felt literally sick to my stomach whenever i thought about him, so i broke things off the bitchy way by acting completely cold and ignoring his calls and lying to him.

now he wont talk to me and all i can think about is how much i miss him.

haha. things are totally awkward now during our daily work meetings.

Posted by: Joanne May 29 2010, 01:58 PM

To be completely honest, I think you're just missing the attention. And I can relate. It sucks.

Posted by: batman May 29 2010, 02:12 PM

yeah if we got back together i'd probably just go back to treating him like shit. :/

Posted by: brooklyneast05 May 29 2010, 03:30 PM

why were you such a bitch to him?

Posted by: batman May 29 2010, 04:13 PM

idk he just annoyed me sometimes, mainly because he was waaay too nice. idk :(

Posted by: brooklyneast05 May 29 2010, 04:26 PM

that's pretty mean. you hate him and led him on because he's a really nice guy and that's annoying when people are nice. poor guy


WOMEN ARE THE WORST

Posted by: batman May 29 2010, 04:53 PM

:( but i liked him a little at first so it's not really me leading him on, more like me wanting to see where things went then discovering he was way too much of a pushover for me to take him seriously.

i suck.

Posted by: tokyo-rose May 29 2010, 09:40 PM

QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 29 2010, 05:26 PM) *
WOMEN ARE THE WORST

I RESENT THAT. Of course I can be stereotypically bitchy or disagreeable, but all men and women are at times; it's just that guys are generally more laid-back and easier to deal with. I myself try not to be catty and unreasonably expectant of people the way a lot of women are, though.

Posted by: brooklyneast05 May 29 2010, 09:57 PM

no sorry, you're wrong, women are terrible creatures

Posted by: tokyo-rose May 29 2010, 10:18 PM

QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 29 2010, 10:57 PM) *
no sorry, you're wrong, women are terrible creatures

no sorry, you're wrong, men are all one-track-minded dogs who shamelessly undress women with their eyes even when they (guy and/or girl) are taken AND with their partners at the time, to name one of the less-bad things they do

Posted by: brooklyneast05 May 29 2010, 10:25 PM

QUOTE(tokyo-rose @ May 29 2010, 10:18 PM) *
no sorry, you're wrong, men are all one-track-minded dogs who shamelessly undress women with their eyes even when they (guy and/or girl) are taken AND with their partners at the time, to name one of the less-bad things they do


i never said anything about men for me to be wrong about them. i don't have a problem with what you just said though. THIS KIND OF POST IS EXACTLY WHAT I WOULD EXPECT FROM SOMEONE OF YOUR GENDER THOUGH. always on defense.

Posted by: tokyo-rose May 29 2010, 11:21 PM

QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 29 2010, 11:25 PM) *
i never said anything about men for me to be wrong about them. i don't have a problem with what you just said though. THIS KIND OF POST IS EXACTLY WHAT I WOULD EXPECT FROM SOMEONE OF YOUR GENDER THOUGH. always on defense.

So, I'm not allowed to defend myself from your generalization that doesn't completely apply to me + a lot of other girls I know? mellow.gif My point is that men can be terrible too, just in different ways.

Posted by: brooklyneast05 May 29 2010, 11:23 PM

QUOTE(tokyo-rose @ May 29 2010, 11:21 PM) *
So, I'm not allowed to defend myself from your generalization that doesn't completely apply to me + a lot of other girls I know? mellow.gif My point is that men can be terrible too, just in different ways.


why do you need to defend yourself in the first place

Posted by: tokyo-rose May 29 2010, 11:25 PM

QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 30 2010, 12:23 AM) *
why do you need to defend yourself in the first place

Because you said all women are terrible when I try not to be that way :(

Posted by: brooklyneast05 May 29 2010, 11:31 PM

QUOTE(tokyo-rose @ May 29 2010, 11:25 PM) *
Because you said all women are terrible when I try not to be that way :(


you're taking it way too personally. i'm not even serious. just think for two seconds, how is it going to make any sense that i actually think all women are terrible? i'm not a single man.



but it's ok cristy, you're just being an overreacting emotional woman, it isn't your fault, it's in your DNA. mellow.gif

Posted by: tokyo-rose May 30 2010, 12:13 AM

QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 30 2010, 12:31 AM) *
you're taking it way too personally. i'm not even serious. just think for two seconds, how is it going to make any sense that i actually think all women are terrible? i'm not a single man.

but it's ok cristy, you're just being an overreacting emotional woman, it isn't your fault, it's in your DNA. mellow.gif

I am just ending my period /TMI, sooo...hehe I admit to using PMS as an excuse JUST THIS ONCE. ;)

Posted by: batman May 30 2010, 12:58 AM

i'm so stupid i'm so stupid i'm so stupid. i just did something really bad and of course i regret it now and f*ck.

Posted by: tokyo-rose May 30 2010, 01:32 AM

QUOTE(batman @ May 30 2010, 01:58 AM) *
i'm so stupid i'm so stupid i'm so stupid. i just did something really bad and of course i regret it now and f*ck.

D: With that guy, or..? Keep a cool head and don't be rash!

Posted by: karmakiller May 30 2010, 02:18 AM

I'm not trying to come in here being a downer or anything, but as long as you still have access to the person, you have the opportunity to at least try to make things right, even if neither of you want to pursue a relationship in the future. I lost a close friend of mine a couple of years ago, and it's still something that I think about. We were close, but we never truly said anything about how we felt, although I'm sure we both felt the same way. It's one of those "what if" questions that will never be answered.

Posted by: Uso May 30 2010, 09:26 AM

QUOTE(hitandrun @ May 30 2010, 06:00 AM) *
I treat girls like shit so they are always on my dick cause they think they can change me but they can't! You can catch me on MTV's "Is She Really Going Out With Him?".

doubt you could even get a girl

Posted by: brooklyneast05 May 30 2010, 11:11 AM

oh so you f*cked

Posted by: batman May 30 2010, 11:34 AM

:x it was fun

Posted by: gojira May 30 2010, 06:22 PM

wtf uso, you look like a boy

Posted by: serotonin May 31 2010, 06:07 PM

QUOTE(brooklyneast05 @ May 29 2010, 09:57 PM) *
no sorry, you're wrong, women are terrible creatures

no homo

Posted by: foxachickaza Aug 17 2010, 03:02 PM

I think it is very possible for that to happen. You love who you love and because of that the differences seem to be something you can work around no matter how hard it is. I am in a long distance relationship
here in the states and it is so hard for
us so I can imagine it being half way around the world.

Posted by: aflyingcumshot Aug 17 2010, 10:12 PM

QUOTE(foxachickaza @ Aug 17 2010, 01:02 PM) *
I think it is very possible for that to happen. You love who you love and because of that the differences seem to be something you can work around no matter how hard it is. I am in a long distance relationship
here in the states and it is so hard for
us so I can imagine it being half way around the world.

=
1st sentence is being nice
then time to start talking about myself

Posted by: gojira Aug 24 2010, 05:13 AM


Posted by: Uso Aug 24 2010, 11:15 AM

I love that show~

Posted by: Uronacid Aug 27 2010, 03:00 PM

Bitch.