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Should I be concerned?
Ashley_Brook
post Dec 5 2007, 12:08 AM
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I've been with my boyfriend for about 3 months now and everything has been great so far. I have been spending weekends over at his place since. Well we had planned on me coming over this weekend as usual and he sends me a message that reads.

"Ok I don't want you to get mad but my friend Stephanie is going to stay at my house this weekend. I haven't gotten to see or hang out with her in over 2 months and this is the only way she can come here. Her boyfriend is dropping her off on his way to Fort Wayne and then coming back on Sunday. So she's staying the night. I wanted to tell you because I didn't want you to think I was hiding someone behind your back."

Okay, I'm I'm thinking, "Ooookay..." and I sent him a message back saying, "So you don't want me to come over this weekend?" and then his next message was, "Don't you have all next week off work?" and then I replied, "Yes." and then he said, "Well you could stay a few days through the week." I told him that was okay.

Okay so I haven't met this girl yet, but I have heard him talk about how they are friends and have been for a long time. I have been to her myspace and she does have a boyfriend who she seems really into, I convinced myself that it was fine and that I shouldn't be worried, but now I'm wondering. I asked 4 of my other friends about this and they all think it's suspicious that he wants to exclude me out of picture for when she's coming over. They said, "Well if they were just friends, he wouldn't have a problem with you coming over anyways."

So I sent him another message saying, "Would it be cool if I come over this weekend anyways and we could all hang out because next week seems too far away." and now i'm waiting for a response from him.

I just want to know what you all think. Sorry this is long.
 
 
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MissHygienic
post Dec 5 2007, 01:01 AM
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Let's see: her boyfriend is the one dropping her off knowing that she's going to be staying at a guy's house, and you seem to be the only one out of the four people to have a problem with it. If he cheats on you like this, then why would you even want to be with him?
 

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Ashley_Brook   Should I be concerned?   Dec 5 2007, 12:08 AM
jeanna   nah. i wouldn't be too worried by the sounds o...   Dec 5 2007, 12:10 AM
MissHygienic   Okay, to me, you're being excessively paranoid...   Dec 5 2007, 12:14 AM
misoshiru   QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Dec 5 2007, 01:14 PM...   Dec 5 2007, 12:22 AM
misoshiru   yeah. he would've just made up some other bul...   Dec 5 2007, 12:15 AM
Ashley_Brook   I see what you're all saying, but the other th...   Dec 5 2007, 12:21 AM
Elba   f**k that. If that were my boyfriend I'm going...   Dec 5 2007, 12:29 AM
audory   ^agreed.   Dec 5 2007, 12:44 AM
MissHygienic   Jesus Christ. Maybe you all are suspicious and par...   Dec 5 2007, 12:47 AM
Spencer   QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Dec 4 2007, 11:47 PM...   Dec 5 2007, 12:50 AM
Elba   Shut up, Spencer. This situation would never ari...   Dec 5 2007, 12:53 AM
jeanna   ohhh she's sleeping over? haha. then that chan...   Dec 5 2007, 12:54 AM
Ashley_Brook   Yeah the whole weekend, and they don't have a ...   Dec 5 2007, 12:55 AM
Elba   I'm sure you don't mind if she sleeps in h...   Dec 5 2007, 12:58 AM
jeanna   QUOTE(Elba @ Dec 5 2007, 01:58 AM) I...   Dec 5 2007, 12:59 AM
Spencer   I'm sure they'll have sex. He'll then...   Dec 5 2007, 12:59 AM
Ashley_Brook   If I had a guy friend come to stay with me at my h...   Dec 5 2007, 01:00 AM
MissHygienic   Let's see: her boyfriend is the one dropping h...   Dec 5 2007, 01:01 AM
Ashley_Brook   QUOTE(MissHygienic @ Dec 5 2007, 02:01 AM...   Dec 5 2007, 01:05 AM
MissHygienic   Well, that's all you had to say. Drive by hi...   Dec 5 2007, 01:07 AM
Ashley_Brook   Seriously, put yourself in my position. Your boyfr...   Dec 5 2007, 01:16 AM
Elba   Not only that--you two had already agreed to spend...   Dec 5 2007, 01:19 AM
Spencer   You're giving this a lot of thought. Main poi...   Dec 5 2007, 01:23 AM
Valid   Don't stay over but STOP BY. You can check up ...   Dec 5 2007, 01:30 AM
Spencer   Call him every 5 minutes. If he doesn't pick u...   Dec 5 2007, 01:31 AM
misoshiru   if you can't trust him, why are you even with ...   Dec 5 2007, 02:14 AM
RyanWasHere   QUOTE(misoshiru @ Dec 5 2007, 02:14 AM) i...   Dec 5 2007, 02:22 AM
Call911Quick   Are they sleeping in the same room? Cuz if not th...   Dec 5 2007, 06:59 AM
S-Majere   I'm with Elba all the way on this. You're...   Dec 5 2007, 09:38 AM
Uronacid   You have nothing to worry about. If she's just...   Dec 5 2007, 11:18 AM
jeanna   why does she have to sleep over? does she live tha...   Dec 5 2007, 11:26 AM
Uronacid   It's not as big a deal as you're making it...   Dec 5 2007, 12:34 PM
synkro   the situation has just been handled the wrong way....   Dec 5 2007, 06:21 PM


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